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Should I pretend to like what my girlfriend likes?
My girlfriend gets mad whenever I critize anything she likes. Like for example she picks a movie we'd watch together and when she asks what I thought about it at the end and I respond truthfully, saying I didn't like it (and I always give a reason) she gets mad. She says I critize things she likes to put her down which is not true. I'm just honest. I'm sorry to say it but her taste in movies isn't the best and even worse is her taste in music. Idk what to do, should I just lie and pretend to like her shitty movies? Or should I continue to be honest even if it meant she would break up with me?
Anonymous No.33381282 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
No, you shouldn't lie because most likely you'll forget what you lied about and she'll remember and it'll just cause more fight. You just have to be real with her and when she gets mad tell her "you aren't your taste in movies, I love you, I just don't like that movie"
Anonymous No.33383272 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
Yes
Anonymous No.33383315 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
how did you even get together?

Most of my relationships have been with girls where I already had a bunch in common with, but it was also enjoyable to be with girls where we didn't already know each other's favorite movies and music and whatever because it was all the same, it's fun to discover new things through a partner.

like what are the movies you went to? what movies would you watch instead?
Anonymous No.33385370 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
Part of the adventure of getting to know someone is being introduced to their tastes and enthusiasms
Anonymous No.33387389 [Report]
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Anonymous No.33387517 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
You can criticize things without being a dick about it.

You can not like things while letting her enjoy what she likes.

No you should not pretend to like things you don't like. You should be honest, kind and respectful.
Anonymous No.33387658 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
no women hate guys that do that
Anonymous No.33387679 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
The fact that her taste in movies is different from yours does not mean it is worse than yours. Acting like it does mean that is what's causing your problems.
Anonymous No.33390009 [Report]
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Anonymous No.33391929 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
Yes
Anonymous No.33392188 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
she should respect ur taste. do not tell her "this movie is shit" just say u do not like it and try to fins something u both like. it is inmature to get angry at someone because of what they like. u do not choose that. perhaps it is the way you say it?
Anonymous No.33393633 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
Yea
Anonymous No.33395680 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
Nice
Anonymous No.33398170 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
Nice
Anonymous No.33398199 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)

the kind of guy she wants will be positive and tell her the good things about the movie she picked and then she'll crave gobble his cock
Anonymous No.33400298 [Report]
>>33381267 (OP)
Yea