Men overestimate the importance of looks and severely underestimate the real determining factor in dating: personality.

Women crave a tough assertive man that gets what he wants and is never vulnerable.

If they had to choose between a gentle, emotional hot guy who cries or a medium looking but tough as nails, stoic and confident man, they will always pick the latter

they will actually pick whichever one that they don't already possess in their boyharem but passes the inscrutable "genetic worthiness" sniff test

>>33381611 (OP)
Sounds like too much work

>>33381611 (OP)
I deliberately became a loser neet so that women have one less good man available on the dating market. I wasted away all my potential for the sole purpose of becoming a burden on wagies finances and women's need for emotional intimacy and a steady provider.
No one exploits my time and energy, that is solely reserved for shitposting and substance abuse.
If you haven't taken the neetpill, you don't understand game theory.

>>33381611 (OP)
>is never vulnerable

This doesn't exist

>>33381611 (OP)
Personalitypill is brutal because in many cases it's even harder to change than looks (which can change with surgery)

>>33381805
*never vulnerable TO HER

be vulnerable with your family or bros

>>33381818
Most people don't have family or bros anymore. Their partner is all they have.

>>33381611 (OP)
I won't read philosophy threads on an advice board.

>>33381611 (OP)
Me not read any of that because the woman have big breast. All blood go from brain to penis.

>>33381611 (OP)
Women aren't all the same. I knew that my boyfriend was the one when he cried while we were watching Eragon because he thought Saphira was going to die. He put his head in my lap and cried as I comforted him. I had already seen the movie so I knew she wasn't going to die but I wasn't going to spoil it for him so I let him experience it himself. When she didn't die he was so happy. My boyfriend cries a lot. He's a sensitive guy and I like that about him.

>>33382187
>philosophy

>>33382287
You will cuck him eventually.

>>33382694
Oh yes I dream of a roided up Tyrone every night. How did you know?

>trying to come at a complicated subject with any amount of nuance
>on here of all fucking places
Kek have fun with that. You might as well tell these retards the moon is made out of cheese. Because they're all going to ignore and abuse you.

>>33381611 (OP)
>If they had to choose between a gentle, emotional hot guy who cries or a medium looking but tough as nails, stoic and confident man, they will always pick the latter

You're so, so close.

They want a man who's tough as nails, stoic and confident; who can be emotional and cry for them and them alone. Looks are a bonus as well.

They want a man who gets shit done and keeps it together most of the time, who's action oriented and sees things through, but who also isn't afraid to be soft and bare his soul to his woman when it's all too much to handle.

>>33384549
THIIIIIIIIIIIIIS

not true because I always make sure to get what I want (as long as I'm not excessively fucking someone over), and I don't let people walk over me for any reason. yet i'm still a virgin at 34

>>33384549
You are correct except this part :

>who can be emotional and cry for them and them alone.

>who also isn't afraid to be soft and bare his soul to his woman when it's all too much to handle.

>>33384936
You must not be as tough as you think. You must also be extremely socially awkward

>>33384549
This is where I failed. I let years of reprograming my brain turn me into an unrelatable husk because I've lost most of my ability to sympathize and empathize with people. It cost me an otherwise great, 4 year relationship with a wonderful woman. Don't be like me

This is why so many women get abused and murdered, they wanted a "tough guy"

It's easier to laugh at your stupidity than change the gentle soul I have. Good luck.

>>33385196
>I've lost most of my ability to sympathize and empathize with people

You can sympathize but also keep a tough exterior

>>33385296
>It's easier to laugh at your stupidity than change the gentle soul I have

Is it stupidity if it’s the only way to get results?

>>33381611 (OP)
"Ewww, look at that gross personality over there."

>>33385593
Someone’s salty about goddess performance. She lives rent free in your mind while Chad takes care of her. Faggot.

>>33385296
>gleeful about women being abused and murdered
>has a "gentle soul"
Uh huh.

>>33381611 (OP)
>Men overestimate the importance of looks and severely underestimate the real determining factor in dating: personality.
Femoids and simps think this.
The other way around isn't correct either.
Women should have great personality so you can love her, and great looks so you can fuck her.

>>33385672
lol what are you even talking about

>>33388312
You’re a narcissistic using deflection. We both know she rejected you, that’s why you stay salty.

>>33381611 (OP)
sorry I'm not dating a whale of a chick because she has a "good personality". i'm not going to enjoy being with someone that i physically can't stand

>>33381611 (OP)
Not true. Sometimes my man cries on my shoulder and I've never felt more special and loved because it meant he trusted me enough to be vulnerable. It's a man who can be vulnerable sometimes but eventually dust himself off and get back up that is super attractive.

>>33385593
Your emotional state shows through your face and body language more than you think.
Women get the ick if they see negative emotions, whether it's anger, sadness, anxiety, etc.
Also, regardless of being ugly vs. good looking in the face, your physique says a lot about your personality.
Zero muscle tone screams mentally weak and lazy.

>>33381611 (OP)
Correct, this is why White women love Indian so much, it's because Indian men approach women with supreme confidence and intent.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=4zWPjV7CPAk

>>33388365

>>33381611 (OP)
Women confuse looks with personality as shown by the OkCupid study graph of Looks and Personality that I'll attach