I deserve a girlfriend, I deserve love, and I deserve sex. help me get these things before I kill someone

>>33385794 (OP)
No you don't little bro, no you don't.
You're an incel driven by sexual urges but the only difference between you and hoes is that you can't fulfil them, in your heart you are no better than them.

>>33385794 (OP)
>I deserve a girlfriend
You don't. I don't. Girls don't deserve boyfriends either.

>I deserve love
You don't. I don't. Girls don't either.

>I deserve sex
You don't. I don't. Girls don't either.

What you actually deserve is some self-respect. Seeking validation, praise, or loyalty isn't self-respect. That's 'other-respect'. Self-respect would mean seeming yourself as good enough and worthwhile, regardless of your current status or situation. Even regardless of feeling like shit or not.

Do that, and the things you want eventually happen as a consequence. Forget about the girls and love and sex. Focus on giving to yourself without requiring others handing it to you or taking from others. You say you deserve love? So give that to yourself. Practice what you say.

Self-love is one of those things that's been bastardised by hedonistic toxic positivity. I do not suggest you force some fake feelings of what you think is 'love' for yourself. Self-love simply means refuse hating yourself, that's all. Hate the feeling but don't hate the person having the feeling. That person is (you).

Do that and it'll reflect in your character. People take notice, and people flock. But you'll have to authentically do this without giving a shit about this reward. The real reward is the process.

>>33385794 (OP)
you’re right, but we are in a postmodern anonymous society where the traditional community structures that would guarantee you social connection have broken down.

>>33385812
Thanks for the advice but the problem is I Already have good respect for myself and love myself. I take care of my body, get exercise, and treat myself well. Not enough to get girls as a 23M apparently

>>33385794 (OP)
Why do you deserve them? Do you do anything to get them?

>>33385794 (OP)
It is difficult to understate just how much psychological damage occurs in the young mind in never experiencing love when it was supposed to. It creates invisible but ever present and outwardly manifesting psychological wounds that may heal over time, but never disappear. It is a lifelong crippling of the mind, affecting things like confidence, self-esteem, healthy thought processes, and inability to cope with the difficulties in life in a healthy way. It breeds attitudes of perpetual envy and anger and depression. Especially when said individuals are constantly bombarded by images and media of people having lived their best life while they missed out and can never experience, ever. Because time is only linearly forward.

A means to try and "heal the mind" which has already happened for many who have resigned themselves to apathy and quiet resentment, but it doesn't remove the scar. The scar is always there. Always present. And it will always serve as a reminder, and always influence future thoughts and decisions and actions.

>>33385794 (OP)
>I deserve a girlfriend, I deserve love, and I deserve sex.
Why?

>>33385794 (OP)
You are wrong. You think you need sex, but you don't. You think you need love, but you don't.
You want, maybe, sex and love. But those are not brought on a silver plate for you. You either get it or you don't.
If you deserved a girlfriend, you would deserve also a job, money and what not. But do you get what you deserve? It does not work like that.
You forgot to believe in yourself first and make yourself the priority.
You are your worst enemy if you don't believe in yourself. Work on that.

>>33385836
I DO believe in myself. Believing in myself doesn't get the ladies turned on.

>>33385820
>Thanks for the advice but the problem is I Already have good respect for myself and love myself. I take care of my body, get exercise, and treat myself well. Not enough to get girls as a 23M apparently

No problem. Those things you listed though, they're good actions of taking care of your body and physical needs. I am talking about inner-workings, things like attitudes towards yourself as a person, or the way which you view yourself as a person inside. Not so much the outside. Because if you have little development or have a vicious view on your self inside, it won't matter how you look or what you do for the body. Your personality will show what's stirring beneath and people pick up on that, people get out of the way.

>>33385852
It does actually. I just think you don’t believe in yourself enough, or don’t have enough confidence in real world experiences.

>>33385852
>Believing in myself doesn't get the ladies turned on.
It literally does though. Even guys with nothing to actually back it up have managed to bullshit their way into a woman's pants by talking the talk.
Let's be real, anyone who actually believed in themselves wouldn't have made a thread like this. Even if they had no luck with women now, they'd have no doubt in their ability and good luck to get one in the future.

>>33385852
Why are you so concerned if the ladies are turned on? You think you're gonna create an instant wow effect? Life is not a film. Learn to get interested in girls before you think about getting your dick sucked.

>>33385973
>by talking the talk.
what is talking the talk?

Detachment is the answer. Look into Taoism. Read the Tao te Ching and absorb it's message. Remove the desire and allow things to flow as they are and you will be content regardless

>>33386038
>Remove the desire
I understand the intent of detachment, but in practice I just don't think it's viable. You can't will away your mental illness, it's part of your neurobiology. In the same way the desire for sex is inextricable from someone's core being. You can try to remove your libido, but really you're just going to end up suppressing it and maybe end up doing something worse like raping someone because your thoughts and actions don't align with what your brain is screaming at you.

>>33386038
lmao nah, you can’t desire to not desire. the entire mindset is a paradox. it just confuses people.

>>33385794 (OP)
>I kill someone
Yourself, hopefully.

i just want to seize you by the shoulders and slap you about the face. get a hold of yourself, you little bitch.

>>33385794 (OP)
you can do it the normie way: actually go out and socialize, treat women like people
or you can do it the >>>/soc/ >>>/r9k/ way and just find a particularly feminine trap, body (mostly) like a woman, mind/sex drive like a male. they come in no short supply.

>>33385812
Stupid ass self-help platitudes.

>>33385794 (OP)
women like guys who know themselves, and are comfortable with who they are. but someone who's on high alert, constantly trying to chase love? sounds to me like you're still figuring yourself out

instead of killing "someone" who we all know is gonna be you, focus on what makes you tick, what makes you happy and build towards that. this isn't about self-care, i read you have that already. build upon you as a person along with your body

>>33388295
>actually go out and socialize
In modern America there is no such thing as this

>>33385794 (OP)
Retards with a heightened sense of entitlement deserve a beating and nothing else.

A girlfriend and love come with being likable. If you're an asshat, you gotta fix that.

Sex? Either install Grindr and find a man who'd blow you or spend $200 on a hooker.

>>33385794 (OP)
Yes

>>33385975
>lets just be friends and see where it goes teehee

>>33391984
That's not it.

>>33385794 (OP)
u do not want love but being liked. and if u would kill people then u do not deserve it. love is active and you also have to give. how do you think anons can help u get that?

>>33385794 (OP)
Yea

>>33385794 (OP)
You do deserve these things, but I cannot help you. You must help yourself.

>>33385823
>>33385831
>>33385806
No pussy no work.

>>33385794 (OP)
Shalom niggerfaggot, everyone knows your picture is edited and you're coping and seething that young men are turning away from people like you who view them as disposable cogs in the machine

>>33393714
You wouldn't work even if pussy was handed to you on a silver platter.

>>33385794 (OP)
Do you though? Getting one isn't that hard. If you have never had one you either haven't actually tried or are undeserving of one, likely due to a multitude of psychological issues.

>>33385812

>>33385812
True and real

>>33385812
Facts and you need to listen.

Saying "I DESERVE I DESERVE I DESERVE" is childish feet-stomping for sweets. That's not to say you shouldn't have these things, and it's not to say that I don't want you to have them.

But like a child stomping their feet for instant gratification, you're being denied what you want for a reason. You should stop and think about what those reasons could be.

>>33385794 (OP)
No you don't. /thread

>>33385820
>I Already have good respect for myself
Your OP says otherwise.

>>33385794 (OP)
Look for chubby or fat autistic alt girls, they will give you all of that

>>33389732
>A girlfriend and love come with being likable.
but women prefer guys with traits of psychopathy, narcissism and machiavellianism?

>>33385794 (OP)
this tbqpf
>another day, another distraction from harming self or others

>>33385794 (OP)
>I deserve
You're not owed anything by anyone. You have to earn everything just like the rest of us.

>>33395713
Anon when your incel copes and what we see in reality don't line up...that means that it's your copes that are wrong.

>>33385812
Ok? I work out 5 times a week for at least 2 hours, have a job that I somewhat enjoy and pays well, and have several hobbies I am passionate about.

Yet every woman I have ever dated has cheated, walked out, and/or left me without fail. Without remorse. Without so much as a discussion to work things out. I know you will somehow try to pin this on me. “Maybe you do this wrong. Maybe you don’t do that enough. Maybe you do so and so too much.”
No. I treat every woman I see with the upmost dignity, love, kindness, and respect I desire in return. Women are just genuinely evil creatures.

Be careful what you wish for.

Are you ready to let go of certain freedoms? Ready to give up your privacy? Your time? Your attention? Ready to compromise with someone? Spend money on them? Be held accountable for your own flaws? Every fucking day? If the relationship turns toxic are you ready to argue and bicker? For the stress that comes with attatchment? For wondering if she’s cheating? Or which of her guy friends want desperately to get in her pants, waiting patiently for the day you even slightly fuck up? Are you ready to deal with her parents? Her own friends, unhappy with their own lives, trying to pull her away from you?

If all that excites you, then by all means, find your girlfriend. But the truth is you single guys don’t know how good you really have it. You have no idea.

>>33385794 (OP)
>I deserve a girlfriend,
Go to SEA
>I deserve love
Get a horse, failing that a cat, failing that a pig. Dogs are shit before you ask. We don’t need any more dog owners or dogs.
>I deserve sex.
Go to an AMP or get an escort.

>>33385794 (OP)
Yes

>>33385794 (OP)
You deserve nothing you fucking ugly little chudcel.

>>33385818
That's not what postmodern means. At all. Like at fucking all.

>>33385820
If you did respect yourself, you wouldn't be whining about how much you deserve someone else to complete you. If you respected yourself, you wouldn't need anyone else for validation or what the fuck ever.
Looking groomed and being young isn't the same thing as being self-actualized or loving yourself. It fucking isn't.

>>33400676
You postmodernists say that every time

>>33385794 (OP)
ok
but you gotta be specific
do you want a one time thing? casual?
or do you want a long term wife for raising kids?

>>33385812
this is the type of advice that gets people to their 50s without a single friend, and then the middle life crisis enters the game at 200mph on cocaine
bro will start to behave like he's 15 but will actually have the means to do some of the shit people think about
recipe for disaster

>>33400676
even if you were correct (you're not)
the point still stands and the fact that you're attacking the terminology rather than the logic, means you're most likely one of the perpetrators
your ip has been added to "the list"

>>33400682
it's exactly because he respects and loves himself that he is demanding it

>>33393714
no pussy
no taxes

>>33387735
my money is in a Foucault cultist

>>33389732
a girlfriend comes from a non-hypergamic society
a good girlfriend comes from being likable

try getting a girlfriend when there's like 5 girls to 999 billion guys

>>33394813
what about copper?

>>33402814
Truth.
>t. bought a motorcycle lately

>>33395022
>Saying "I DESERVE I DESERVE I DESERVE" is childish feet-stomping for sweets
but the difference is that OP is going to put a pipe bomb inside the public building you're on and make the 3rd floor collapse on top of your skull
a kid can't make a pipe bomb the size of an alligator

>>33395946
my buddy Charles owes me 5 bucks the fucking cunt

>>33400659
if he doesn't get it, he's gonna put a gun to your head, lil bro

>>33385794 (OP)
POST SCAT ON VARIOUS BOARDS and make jannies lives a living hell.

>>33385794 (OP)
Biggest lie people are told is that they deserve things, sets people up for failure since it is in practice telling people they are entirltled so something. Realize this and you post education career and mental state over relationships is more grounded.