How do stop feeling sorry for myself? - /adv/ (#33387336) [Archived: 129 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/19/2025, 10:12:06 PM No.33387336
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So, basically I grinded hard, I am financially successful, I'm 5'11", tall for my country, slim, trying to gain some muscles. I'm 29 years old. I wanna settle down. Never had a gf, khhv.

Women do want me, but the women I want don't want me. So I have to settle for few of these, ugly, fat, short, old or stupid. I can't have an attractive enough woman and I'll likely never be happy in my life because of this.

I tried real hard and life seems pointless. How do I stop feeling sorry for myself?
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 10:16:51 PM No.33387358
>>33387336 (OP)
If you gain enough muscle and charisma then you can score an attractive woman. However, there is definitely an upper limit. 10/10? Probably not, even though you have height and money. But you can absolutely land someone who is pleasant to look at (again, I don't know your standards). Go hard on the gym and on socializing, you got this.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 10:24:07 PM No.33387384
>>33387358
I'm not successful enough for 10/10. I'd be happy with a 6 or a 7, not fat, not stupid, non short girl, and a morally good gal, wifable.

Sure I'll try to do what's in my control, I'll hit the gym and grind more professionally.

I have to end the search soon because my looks are only going to fade from here. I'm not getting any younger and I'm not gifted in the face department.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 10:50:11 PM No.33387473
>>33387336 (OP)
>I'll likely never be happy in my life because of this.

The sheer disgust I felt reading your entire thread, especially this part, left me fuming to the point of literally forcing my hand to write this, even though I hadn’t intended to respond at all. You are, quite frankly, beyond pathetic. That your entire conception of happiness hinges solely on women and nothing else is so vapid it genuinely feels like an insult to anyone with even a flicker of critical thinking. It’s almost laughable how miserably shallow that is, if it weren’t so damn pitiful. And to be honest, it’s hard to believe someone like you exists outside of satire.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 10:54:20 PM No.33387484
>>33387473
I know I'm disgusting, how do I fix it anon? I know is a gay post, but I'm kinda feeling down as it all feels kinda pointless.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 11:10:39 PM No.33387567
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>>33387336 (OP)
>I wanna settle down. Never had a gf, khhv.
lmao how the fuck are you gonna "settle down" when you never got started to begin with

>been on disability my whole life, really starting to think about retirement...
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 11:40:31 PM No.33387696
>>33387336 (OP)
>because fucked up values.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:35:25 AM No.33388778
>>33387384
67 mangoes
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:39:10 AM No.33388788
>5’11
>tall
Who wants to tell her?
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 2:04:38 PM No.33390353
>>33388788
Not from US, thirdie in thirdie land.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 2:17:13 PM No.33390392
>>33387336 (OP)
>My standards are too high and I don't want to change myself or my standards, wut do?
Thread #2,445,967 in an ongoing series.
You have two options and one requirement
either
A - improve yourself until the women you want ignore your obvious autism and social retardation, or
B - settle for a woman in your league.
Mandatory,m however, is to fuck off and never post here again
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 2:32:08 PM No.33390431
>>33387336 (OP)
Get over yourself, loser. That's the kindest piece of advice I have for you.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 2:45:19 PM No.33390479
>>33390392
Im not rich enough and have to settle for a roastie or a fattie. Its all so tiresome anon.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 2:46:27 PM No.33390489
>>33390431
Be unkind, I can take it.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 2:52:21 PM No.33390523
>>33390479
No one's fault but yours, after all.