Thread 33388982

>>33389575
I don't feel guilt. I feel betrayed, manipulated, and ruined. My grievances are not sins, they're confessions.

>>33389578
>so now I wait. If she doesn't reach out by november, I'll try my luck again

oh shit when did you last talk to eachother? november is a long time

>not the way that she loved me

how did she love you? what made it special

>>33389572
Which one?

>>33389578
>maybe you could try reaching out to her since it's been a decent amount of time?
I have tried on several platforms. No response.
She promised we would talk. And we didn't.
One day at a time...

>>33389581
goodnight anon !!! sweet dreams

>>33389584
no that's -_-

>>33389573
aw cutee

they have that lightskin stare it scares me

>>33389585
We are all sinners.
>I feel
I mean... this is clearly a different topic, is it?
Wanna talk about it?

>>33389560
I am asian but I am in the america

>>33389588
oh anon. i have so much i could say to you, having worked through what you're already working through, knowing where you're at, where you still have left to go. it's rough! and it gets easier. but life never gets less bittersweet!

>>33389592
lmfao that lightskin stare? go on? i'm extremely lightskin, if i do end up having children they'll likely all be red headed with MANY freckles

>>33389594
filipino people r goated ngl

luv my flip flop friends

>>33389587
The light skinned ones her skin looks like boiled chicken compared to mine she was biting my biceps and screaming on my cock saying cum in me lol

>>33389594
they got gud food no?

>>33389572
Seriously, which one? I don’t want some fag here giving me AIDS

>just fapped
>there's blood in my cum
I'm gonna die aren't I?

>>33389593
I'm just being bitter and cryptic here because I'm powerless to do anything irl. I'll eat it. And probably a bullet. I appreciate the offer, anon.

>>33389604
oof tmi

prob did it a little too hard ?

>>33389597
I don't regret loving her. And I don't think I will ever stop loving her.
I don't know what will happen in the future.

Women, why on dates do you tell your date "I get loads of matches". Do you think your date wants to hear this? My last 2 dates have both told me this. I think if my next one says it i'll say "Every girl I date gets loads of matches, bitch"

>>33389599
They’re cut but their pussies smell like garbage juice probably from all the pagpag they consume
>>33389603
Nobody having sex with you so I wouldn’t worry about that incel

>>33389605
Now I'm curious.
Talk about it, faggot.

okki goodnight everyone

>>33389609
in what context do they bring it up? are you whining about not getting any matches or so? lol

>>33389608
yep. you have to move on without her, and accept that she'll make her way back if that's what is meant to be. it fucking blows, but it's just kinda how it has to be, for now

>>33389613
night

>>33389602
no

Women, are "tradbros" willfully blind in regards to dating and behaviors? Not even going to expound on that, I just need you all to take this question as it is.

holy shit is this ‘the i miss an ex hour’ why so many fags struggling to move on

>>33389550
Remember Video Game High School? It was almost a good show

>>33389621
no, they actually think they cooked

>>33389594
I'm Filipino too you mong, just stay anonymous and enjoy it.

>>33389623
>struggling to move on
Because I really loved her.
If you wanna talk about something else, bring up a new topic.

>>33389613
Gnight

>>33389612
I'm a stupid person that dug their own grave by making excuses for someone else. I'll turn back around and do the same thing as soon as I see them again, and then return here later to whine about loyalty. I just need to be put down like a dog because I can't trust myself to not make bad decisions around them or have self preservation.

>>33389586
>oh shit when did you last talk to eachother?
2.5 weeks ago. I'm giving her that much time so she can reach out when she's ready and if she doesn't do it, it gives her enough time to, at the very least, develop decent coping mechanisms to deal with whatever personal stuff she's going through. Also this gives me time to ease myself back into her life and then ask her out around the same time I did 4 years ago in December (assuming that when we reconnect, there's still a spark there)
>how did she love you? what made it special
She just rooted herself into my life and integrated into it so well. She became family, an honorary wife practically. Even tho we never lived together, we always took care of each other if we ever needed anything, she spent time with me and my grandma and helped me connect with her more because she was the closest person I had in my life but I was too autistic to speak to her often, but my gf broke me out of my shell. She also had the most lovely smile and she would give me the most heartfelt, well thought out gifts. She always listened to me and tried to understand me. She was good at communicating how she was feeling and even if she was blunt at times, I loved how honest she was. She had the softest skin and the warmest lips, kissing her was the most heavenly thing I could do on this earth. The sex was amazing and I'll never forget her face as I fucked her. She had so many photos of me that she would take and show to me and tell me how cute I am. We also enjoyed sharing music with one another, drawing together (even tho she's way better than me), she has a lovely singing voice that always kept me awake and happy when we'd go on car trips together. She was smart and I liked how she'd challenge me sometimes. She has great taste in movies and video games too and we really hit it off when we learned that about each other. She's also very generous and helped me set up my fish tank when I started getting into fish keeping

>>33389627
That's fair, pointless to hold onto beliefs if you don't expect anyone to follow them.

>>33389621
I haven’t met any, only seen the online ones and they are so deeply insecure

>>33389631
That doesn't make much sense, anon. Why would you make excuses for a bad person? What do you value in them?

>>33389637
no, they hold on to them because they think it makes them better than others

>>33389609
I’ve only answered if they asked or talked about it. Have you been on any dates, anon?

>>33389632
She also had an amazing sense of humor and there was never a 15 minute period that went by where one or both of us wasn't laughing. She was so tender. She has a lovely speaking voice and beautiful skin. She's a pale brown but sometimes, if we've taken a lot of trips and it's been sunny out, she'd develop the most gorgeous tan and she'd always ask me if it was okay that she became darker lol. Of course I told her she looked beautiful and then she'd kiss me. I also just liked sleeping next to her. She'd let me engulf her body with mine and we'd watch horror movies together or our favorite adult swim cartoons. She also had really big boobs and would let me squeeze them without leading to sex or anything, just for fun, and she'd always giggle and call me handsome n cute

>>33389609
M but they're just making small talk to clear the air. They know you know they have 359 other guys on the app.

Femanon with big tits, PLEASE give me a chance.

>>33389650
never

>>33389614
Nope, definitely not. What happens is they'll ask me how I'm doing on the apps (and they seem to understand apps are worse for guys) and then they'll tell me how they get loads of matches. First one was an Asian woman in her thirties and she said she had 1200 matches or likes and the 2nd one was a white woman who recently joined the app and she just said she got loads of matches. Also, the 2nd one told me to be honest but when I was honest with the first one she used it against me and said I only wanted her because I didn't get as many matches so I just said 'I do okay' to the 2nd one

Where do I meet clingy gf

>>33389609
Not a woman, but the charitable interpretation would be that they're trying to say you're special. The less charitable take is that they're saying THEY are.

Either way, what the fuck do you expect from a dating app, retard? Of course they're sluts.

>>33389638
I'm asking because I'm wondering if religion is hindering me from forming truthful ideas about relationships and women. I dislike the shit they parrot over on Twitter and social media, it's clear that the ideas come from here with the edges filed off. I would rather not be prey to marketers.

>>33389642
Nah I just think they're holding onto the good ol' days. That's just my read on it however.

>>33389455
>what makes vaginas smell like fish?
Bacterial vaginosis.

>>33389641
Because they aren't a bad person, and I remember too much of the good. It's cope.

>>33389621
What even is a tradbro

>>33389652
>never
:(
Why? I'll do anything.

>>33389572
Gare is white btw. Do you fuck white women? I mean I just dont like how they suck me off. Indian women are far superior

>>33389653
>women want to know if you are desirable or not
>mad as fuck they found out you are not
lol, thats funny

>>33389666
exactly

>>33389676
>exactly
Hmmm
What did she mean by this? That I'm too desperate? I am. But I won't betray myself. I doubt you'd ask something like that of me.

>>33389671
Nta but I like white women as a fantasy, it's just not fair to them

>>33389663
Basically a manosphere guy, wannabe alpha guy

Why wouldnt you just walk up to pepole and have sex instead of pretending a relationship online

>>33389628
Its a blessing and a curse
>>33389602
Depends on who you ask. Of course I'd say yes. Everyone knows Adobo and Lumpia but the next level that people need to get into is Kare Kare.
>>33389599
Thanks <3

>>33389661
They betrayed you and lied to you. They made you cover up for them.
What do you value in them?

>>33389677
>is a slave to his animal instincts
>willing to sacrifice his dignity to satisfy them
>not even that is enough to do so
>keeps humiliating himself for nothing
>wonders why it gives women the ick
yeah, truly the mark of a great man anon
very inspiring and enticing, almost irresistible

>>33389685
Misses sex most likely. Or even having company

>>33389679
Women's favorite man is Andrew Tate, haven't you heard?
They recently gave him a couple more awards, like Feminist Ally Giver Of The Year

>>33389685
Everything they were before that (to me) and everything they could be in their future (just in general).

>>33389689
>>willing to sacrifice his dignity to satisfy them
I said I wouldn't do this. Just now, in fact.
>>not even that is enough to do so
Idk what this means.
>>keeps humiliating himself for nothing
I don't feel humiliated.
> very inspiring and enticing, almost irresistible
Give me a chance then

>>33389691
No one talks about that guy anymore. I guess his beta boys jumped ship

>>33389690
Don't speak for me. I don't operate on the same nigshit that you expect everyone here to.

>>33389696
Dignity and sex are two different things. You have one or the other.

>>33389696
>I wouldn‘t do that
>I would do anything
>begs every thread
>I don‘t feel humiliated
I know it‘s a joke but good god anon

>>33389692
They aren't anymore. They never were.
They lied.
>could be
Could it tho?
>was
You don't have to regret what was. Just like how I don't regret loving that girl.
But what you valued is no more.
I forgot where I was going with this...

>>33389698
Then go fuck 10 more girls there all basically the same anyway >:D just different more stupid interests

>>33389699
Interesting. I believe that there is dignity in trust.
>>33389701
PLEASE just give me a chance, anon

State sex
Are slutty, submissive cosplayers who also like doing goth the hottest type of women?

>>33389706
objection, leading question

>>33389702
How old are you anon? In the whereabouts, no need to be specific

>>33389706
M and if you put me in the same room as the sluttiest, most submissive goth cosplayer in the world, she would probably come out of the conversation an asexual dominatrix.

>>33389709
Heh. Based.

>>33389706
F
It’s up there

>>33389706
Loaded question. You're too horny anon

>>33389706
No, they have OnlyFans and end up doing b/g to afford a Maybach GLS and a mansion.

>>33389707
>>33389713
It’s a simple yes or no question

>>33389709
You got some magic skills.

>>33389707
>>33389713
I just woke up with a boner, as always.
The only thing loaded are my balls.

>>33389714
Whataboutism.

>>33389715
He obviously has a type. Nothing wrong with the archetype, mind, but it's a terrible question for sure.

>>33389714
objection, more prejudicial than probative

>>33389723
>has a type
That would be pale with dark hair.

>>33389703
They all have different lore but they’re pretty much all the same mechanically speaking (dps)

>>33389721
You don't know what a female cosplayer is, then.

>>33389708
24. Why?

>>33389733
You've got a lot of years to find peace over her. Don't waste them letting her eat away at all that potential

>>33389729
Cosplayer is indeed a type. A sub-class if you want to be pedantic.

>>33389731
Keep spouting more utterly irrelevant shit.

>>33389730
You mean your mechanics are the same with every woman then? Cause every girl I've fucked has been shockingly either a starfish and shit or really fucking horny and good at fucking.
Like have you even taught a woman how to fuck the shit out of you?

>>33389600
Basically you’re saying you touched my cock, and you put your penis somewhere I put my penis, hoping our cocks would touch?

>>33389738
Show me a cosplayer without a linktree.

>>33389742
I can also show you a loaf of bread, it would be just as irrelevant, little incel bro.

>>33389485
Male
I have AI and my cats
Just bitching doesn't really help

>>33389739
I don’t trust men who say starfish. Nobody describes sex like that unless it’s rape

>>33389736
One day at a time, anon. I won't date anyone out of just loneliness. I am not interested in anyone else. Just like I can't force myself to love someone, I also can't force myself to not love her.
I'm a khhv anyway. I don't know and have never known anyone that made me feel the same way. I'm already wasted.

The are many things wrong with me.

>>33389747
At all? There's no reprieve from the AI?

>>33389746
Bit pissed, aren't you?
>Are slutty (...) cosplayers
Yes, they're also slutty for cash. Obviously.

>>33389742
Plenty of cosplayers who ain't in it for porn. Gooner that I am, there are too much of the former for me to heal.

>>33389751
nta, but damn, there are a lot of virgins who have had relationships here.

>>33389755
OnlyFans doesn't necessarily mean porn. It just depends how fast they want to buy the luxury cars.

>>33389756
Online. Lmao

>>33389757
Want to being the operative. It's funny how much of a scheme it is, with most of those women never having the chance to earn even a portion of what the big content creators do

>>33389650
>Femanon with big tits, PLEASE give me a chance.

>>33389751
Maybe so. And that's a good way to think sbout it. Just don't let yourself lose out on the opportunity if it comes

>>33389752
Not really, it kind of just makes me feel worse because I'm just throwing a pity party during the conversation

>>33389742
>Show me a cosplayer without a linktree.
You understand that this is a selection bias, right?
Most cosplayers aren't social media "personalities".

>>33389748
I dont believe you've had great sex then. Prove you've had great sex gare.

>>33389763
Do you ask it for solutions or anything?

>>33389764
They don't even have Instagram?

>>33389762
>Just don't let yourself lose out on the opportunity if it comes
I doubt. But sure. I don't really help myself lol

>>33389758
Ah. Maybe it's for the best i was never good at talking, then, even over text.

>>33389768
I'm sure some do. But they aren't popular or it's private.

>>33389765
I can’t prove it anecdotally

>>33389771
Feelings were real, though. And I was willing to do all it took to make it work.

>>33389761
I dindu nothin'!

>>33389753
Again, irrelevant.

>>33389679
Those dudes are the opposite of trad

You guys are the biggest simps

>>33389782
Not me. I fucking hate women.

>>33389767
Sort of? The solutions aren't really helpful either though, my issues are extremely complex and I while I have ideas of how to solve it, I don't know how to get to the steps in between

>>33389782
If that gets femanon to give me a chance...

>>33389775
Yeah, I understand. Just so hard to see if the girl's willing to do the same.

>>33389781
The venn-diagram is a perfect circle

>>33389784
What make them complex?

>>33389782
I love women, I will not hide it

>>33389786
I am just very frustrated.

>>33389782
who you talking to? I'm guilty for sure, but it doesn't matter.
it's the closest I'll get to taking care of a woman that's mine, anyway.

>>33389765
My room smells like a girl

>>33389761
For what? Vandalism?
CATCH!

>>33389789
It's a mixture of broken trust and a conflict between how I behave vs how reality works
In short, I'm naive and also have severe trust issues

>>33389794
One of your baby mama's or is this a new mistress

>>33389773
Tell me what you think great sex is then gare.
I think a woman working me until theres no cum left is great I take all her holes until she's passed out

>>33389799
Lolol same. Gaslighting yourself, finding out that it might have actually just been intuition?

>>33389781
It's all the same trash.

>>33389801
I heard hes got a new one.

>>33389807
Good for him, bad for her

>>33389804
Based that’s exactly it. I like when they pass out while holding onto it inside

Atonga? Isn't that an island?

>>33389815
yo momma an island

One day at a time...
I know she's depressed, just sitting in her room all day and at best talking to her annoying sister. She'll reach out eventually and if not, when the time is right, I will be taking this into my own hands

>>33389813
How many girls have you been able to do that with.

>>33389805
Maybe? I'm not exactly sure what you mean
But basically I feel like kindness and general friendliness should be an innate feature of society but instead my experiences have been the polar opposite, but I also refuse to change

>>33389820
shes already having sex your beta af

>>33389820
Hey that's what I said.
> if not, when the time is right, I will be taking this into my own hands
I will be taking my own life shortly.

>>33389813
Then gare has had anal sex? What did it feel like? Is it as tight as everyone says

>>33389822
I think you're right, and yes, it's usually the case that society is deeply disappointing. Why consider changing at all when it's not yourself that is the issue?

I'm so glad I won't be taking overnight accelerator shifts, long bus rides, spending 2 hours on the subway everyday, so I won't be so bored out of my mind that talking to you retards seems worth my time.

>>33389839
See you tommorow morning

>>33389839
>grown ass man using anime girl reaction image

>>33389839
Rude...

>>33389843
Nah, I'll be asleep when the morning comes, thank God.

>>33389832
Exactly
But then it just leads to disappointment and depression, that I am unable to make connections like other people do

>>33389844
Nta but where do you think you are

>>33389821
All of them

>>33389014
Are Americans this bad
>>33389116
Having your own place must be nice
I'm jealous
Fucking hate living with other people

>>33389829
Who the hell told you that my ass is tight?

>>33389853
Not on r9k.

>>33389435
>When I'm awake, everyone's asleep
Isn't that ideal?
>>33389485
M, I already use these threads for that
>>33389581
Goodnight anon

The lack of my presence will be suffocating for her. I’ll give it a couple more weeks before she reaches out, a month at most

>>33389863
You're on 4chan
I'm sorry you had to find out this way

>>33389820
why do you want to reconnect so bad? just move on

>>33389609
>tell your date "I get loads of matches"
That's hot, I wish a woman told me that
>>33389706
>submissive
>hottest type of woman
No

>>33389866
Ok, hairy grown ass man who uses anime girl reaction images to get more reactions man.

>>33389820
>depressed, just sitting in her room all day and at best talking to her annoying sister
She's literally me
Anyway just try to move on buddy

>>33389839
Or just take a book or listen to music

>>33389869
Are you frustrated?

>>33389873
Hit a nerve, huh.

>be me, millennial in his 30s
>spent my entire childhood and all of my formative years dicking around and playing vidya 24/7
>never developed any useful skills/hobbies/talents but still got into a decently ranked university based on grades alone
>college kids these days whom I’ve interacted with are incredibly skilled, talented, and smart
>they all have multiple hobbies and skills that they’ve been cultivating their whole lives since they were kids like playing an instrument, arts & craft, drawing & painting- all at an impressive almost-amateur pro level
>every one that I’ve talked to was active in extracurricular like clubs and sports, traveling to conventions for competitions and etc all throughout middle to high school
Am I just the only retarded millennial with nothing going for him or are kids nowadays just in general more skilled?

>>33389876
The kids these days are cracked
Millennials are cap in comparison

>>33389872
I have to keep my ears peeled for alarms

>>33389867
Because she is perfect
>>33389870
I’m trying to move on but then something comes up (like getting a notification that she added something to her wedding Pinterest board that she shared with me forever ago that we added stuff to) and then it just leaves me confused. It would seem like she does want me still but that she’s just not mentally there to be in a relationship or really talk with anyone she doesn’t have to rn, like her family that she lives with. When we broke up she said not to wait for her but that she “isn’t going anywhere” so it’s like wtf

>>33389879
Well book or listen with one ear then

>>33389881
>she added something to her wedding Pinterest board that she shared with me forever ago that we added stuff to
Then mute it or whatever, sounds sucky but stuff like that is gonna happen
My ex is also giving me mixed signals, I cba to try anymore

>>33389878
Gen Z girls are canonically better at giving head and have tighter pussies molded for my above-average millennial cock

>>33389881
no one is perfect you dumbfuck reminder you have to be at least 18 or older to post

moids itt think pinterest wedding board notifications mean a mixed signal holy shit

>>33389881
>When we broke up she said not to wait for her but that she “isn’t going anywhere” so it’s like wtf
That is an insecure asshole move by her.
But then again, many mentally ill people do that unfortunately.

Sex is the best core workout, I literally can’t even walk with a straight back because my abs are all locked up, doggystyle is the real ab cruncher bros

>>33389889
Lmaoo
Nah by mixed signals I mean my ex saying that "maybe" we could date again, and still spamming me with life updates, and wanting to go out Friday night but then flaking

>>33389887
>>33389889
Samefag
>mean a mixed signal
Yeah if you’ve broken up but they still share everything with you besides their physical presence, those are mixed signals you retarded nigger

>>33389886
>i have the sex trust me
No you don’t favour you are genetic leftovers

>>33389889
My ex blocked me on everything but DM, she reads everything I send to her but refuses to respond, women need us more than we need them but their pride will always let them down

>>33389896
I’ve clapped more Gen Z cheeks than I’ve ever imagined, no cap. Your gen’s women are total sluts

>>33389891
It is but she hit me with the “it’s not you, it’s me” and if she said that in earnest, then I think it isn’t an asshole move

>>33389895
stfu you retarded ass japandi nigger those aren’t mixed signals move the fuck on and fuck a new woman

>>33389899
Why the fuck would you give her that kind of attention...

>>33389901
It doesn't matter.
You're also retarded for sticking around like this, but everybody is retarded.

>>33389899
men need women more than women need men

>>33387876
I'm awake and sober now but damn, I think they at least liked the food (though they said it was a bit spicy, fucking white people) and drinks and were having a fun time
But I wasn't enjoying myself at all, got blackout drunk, ran to the bathroom to puke and then just went to bed kek. Ew I need to brush my teeth
Fuck my gay life
>>33389899
>women need us more than we need them
Nah the girls I dated seemed to move on very quickly and are thriving, I am the trainwreck
>>33389903
I still do everything my ex asks me to and send her money

>>33389905
Don't fucking reply to me.

>>33389905
so much for acting all dramatic about killing yourself eh

What is your favourite magazine?

State sex

>>33389908
That's just me having a bpd moment
I'm dramatic about everything
>>33389907
Oopsie

>>33389911
i often wish youd go through with it so we dont have to suffer your stupid shit here

>>33389910
Is that Cameron Diaz
>favourite magazine
Helical, as found in the Calico M960

>>33389903
>>33389904
>>33389905
Fuck off
>>33389907
That’s my line ENTJ

>>33389915
Yes it is

>>33389913
Well that's just rude
I do too though
>>33389917
Hot
>>33389916
Damn

>>33389904
true

>>33389860
I cant believe it? Was it his jail stays that he got it in the ass? Damn gare did you like it?

>>33389918
You are such a fucking disginenuous liar.
Go ahead, keep hurting the people in your life since you love it so much.

moids would you impregnate the last woman you dated?

Wow didn't know gare was a bisexual hot would you date a avg 4channer man who's into capeshit and vidya?

>>33389920
What the fuck?

>>33389923
He'll blow you under a bridge for $20 and a pack of smokes

>>33389918
You two should just make out already you’re literally the same poster
>>33389922
I did she a mental breakdown after she miscarried and will probably never do that again

>>33389922
If we stayed together for life then sure
>>33389921
Broken record

>>33389929
>Broken record
Right back at you, buddy.
Right back at you.

>>33389925
So hot. You even posted something on that Cosmo about ass.

>>33389928
>you’re literally the same poster
Nani
Me and who

>>33389929
You would be a horrenduous father
never procreate

>>33389933
You and ENTJ your posts are exactly the same hateful garbage

>>33389932
Tongue my anus

>>33389931
I don't understand how I'm hurting anyone right now though? (Besides myself kek)
>>33389934
Well yeah, that's why I don't want kids
I don't think I'd be a terrible father though in all honesty, I would step up

Have I become hypersexual if I constantly hallucinate about having sex with beautiful women before I wake up? I say hallucinate because I'm half aware but I'm locked in the cutscene and the women won't let me go until I've completed it. Never let me cum tho.

>>33389936
I would if you be my bf gare.

I slept less than 3 hours total, waking up to a day full of bullshit. In fact the bullshit started before I even woke up.
Have a happy one, chins

>>33389937
you would be an utterly horrific father
a complete mess and absolute trash
you have no morals and abuse others for your own satisfaction then pretend you didnt know you would hurt them
you have actually no value

>>33389939
What the fuck? Like.. sleepraping?

>>33389935
Wtf he's literally the opposite of me
He posts his IKEA meatballs and bank statements incessantly bragging about how successful he is
I post all the time about being a broke incel, being depressed and suicidal

>>33389922
>last woman you dated?
heh, good one

>>33389941
next time sleep more nigger

I remember my old ex used to do that I would wake up with her with on top while I came or felt a really wet and warm tongue on my dick cumming. God I miss her

Install the horse game anon, replace tinder with it. 2D horse girls will treat you much better than real women, you'll feel the same fuzzy feelings

No gaslighting
No wasted time
Only fun

Install Uma Musume pretty derby right now and be happy!

>>33389943
Hmm, no, I can feel them on my dick but I know I'm awake because all I see is black. I can hear them tho which is weird.

>>33389942
>have no morals and abuse others for your own satisfaction
Oh piss off you don't know me kek. I might be a fuckup and make mistakes but I make a lot of effort for other people
>you have actually no value
This is how I feel though, why do you think I'm suicidal

>>33389935
The are not the same person, but definitely are the same type of reckless narcissists.

>>33389952
What are they saying

>>33389952
So a incubus? Actually raping you

>>33389949
need a bf so i can wake him with me on top

>>33389956
Gare didnt you have a voice that originated when you met your ex? And told you the future

>>33389961
No I do not hear anything

>>33389954
>why do you think I'm suicidal
so you can attention whore with it and your narc mentality tells you this is how you farm sympathy from others, which is also why you are perfectly fine with hurting others
you enjoy not doing anything ever for others and just take take take

>>33389941
Picrel is hilarious
Forced happy shit just makes you feel worse when you're depressed
You got work or something? Hope your day isn't too bad bud
I'm gonna put my earplugs back in cause the neighbour keeps playing the same shitty normie song over and over again, I want to go strangle them

>>33389941
What’s with asians and committing suicide, literally the worst min maxed skill tree build

Gare I'm a good guy I think we should date

>>33389950
Based
I would do but the whole horse girl thing is a bit weird icl
>>33389964
>you enjoy not doing anything ever for others and just take take take
What? I spend like half the day trying to do stuff for and help other people

>>33389922
I never dated but I dont want kids so it would be a no regardless

>>33389972
I’m super straight

>>33389974
damn you keep staying utterly delusional but that is just the norm for narcs

>>33389977
OK Mr. Gaslighter

I doubt your straight after jail

>>33389980
What did Gary even get locked up for?

>>33389978
hey I am not the one who keeps not using a trip because he hates that half the thread filters him out

>>33389950
Based, the game has the deepest lore

So gare became gay ? This is a brand new arc

Girls

What are your opinions of curved penises?

>>33389939
Can't say what you describe sounds common/familiar to me but if it's just a thing for when you go from sleeping to being awake, no, you're not hypersexual. Hypersexual people seek lots of sexual outlets and tend to use horny feelings to soothe themselves. Like if you realize if your boss told you off, you have an instant urge to lock yourself in the bathroom and watch porn (even if for half a minute) to take your mind off things, that's a red flag. Or if you very often find yourself going "I'm not horny at all but I do FEEL like being horny??" and masturbating/watching something until you get there. Those kind of things, using sexuality to drown out uncomfortable emotions.

>>33389982
You tell me I'm a narc yet want me to use a trip
I can't win kek

>>33389993
You can be hypersexual in other ways. Like having actual sex

>>33389990
I thought they were all kind of curved and the more or less straight ones were the exception? No real opinion, just normal to me. Also not like vagina is a road straight up so I doubt a pencil straight dick would even be a great fit honestly.

>>33389994
We just don't want to read your stupid shit and you know that.
But as the other anon said, you hate that others aren't forced to read your garbage.

Sorry, couldn't reply immediately I was having my hair cut.

>>33389956
Shit like just letting it happen, that it'll be fun. Aside from that they usually just moan and breathe on my skin when it's over. It's kind of nice when they're not being mean. I've tried to speak some times before I wake up but they shush me and go back to doing their shit.

>>33389957
Don't think so, I'm a Catholic I didn't summon shit. Besides, wouldn't they feed on sexual energy? I have to rest a bit in bed because I'm too sensitive and tired by the end of it.

If anyone has some tips to stop this I'd be glad to hear it.

>>33389997
I get that, I just used these examples because they show quite clearly that the relationship with sexuality is disturbed a bit. That is a lot less easy in a relationship. Fucking your partner thrice a day can be a sign that it's an unhealthy outlet, but it doesn't have to be, you could both legitimately have such a high libido in the honeymoon phase that it's just healthy and fun.

Zoning in on your private sexual habits makes it easier to see if something's off or not.

>>33390001
>you hate that others aren't forced to read your garbage
No lol I just don't like using a trip, defeats the point of this site imo
Well hopefully I get a job soon and will be posting less

>>33389990
eew

>>33390010
>>33389998
Hm

>>33390006
We don't care what you do irl.

Atoga Uma club when?

>>33390013
You don't care what I do IRL yet you constantly criticise me for it ITT?
I can't win

>>33390016
Because you keep shitting up our thread with it.
All I want is to not need to read your garbage and I don't care what it takes.
bye now

for women

If sex was better with your ex compared to your new boyfriend, would that change anything? Your new relationship is better than your ex, but the orgasms with your ex were significantly better than your current boyfriend

>>33389080
'sfine
Adorable baby is adorable.
It's a biological defense mechanism.

Gender
If your parents were put into a position to choose a spouse for you do you trust they would make a good choice? Putting aside if their choice makes you feel butterflies or not.

>>33389865
dude, she specifically tried to get away from your presence because it was a burden to her

>>33390039
f, yeah
which is why wether or not a guy gets along with my parents or not is important to me

>>33390031
I don't think so personally. For one thing as long as the sex is also at least good enough with the new partner, I think you would typically get there as a couple. Climaxing intensely has a lot to do with trust and intimacy, love, being able to let go and relax. So someone having a really good relationship with you and loving you really well outside of the bedroom, also has consequences for the intensity of the sex.

Anyway granted I have never personally experienced this so I am just speculating. But I can tell you I had a very good sex life with my first partner and we were also together short (like two months) so our sex life never became normal/stale either, only honeymoon phase stuff. When I was super sad after the break I was 110% convinced I would spend the rest of my life masturbating to those memories.

...but no. I did until I moved on and no longer missed him. Then I stopped caring about the sexual memories too. Now it even makes me vaguely uncomfortable to remember specific details. It's like I remember I loved it at the time but I can no longer be inside that feeling, it's like remembering how much you loved a food that now grosses you out as a kid - you know it to be true but can no longer feel it.

Basically memories are also hugely impacted by shifting feelings. They are more a reconstruction of the past than objective footage of it. If you no longer miss your ex I don't think it's hard for most to not miss sex with them either.

>>33390022
>you keep shitting up our thread with it
Sorry I didn't realise you owned the thread now
>All I want is to not need to read your garbage
Then scroll past it
>don't care what it takes.
Kill me then
>bye now
Bye xxx gonna try sleep a bit more
>>33390039
M, my mom would just pick the girl she could get the most money from

>>33390039
F, absolutely not, no. They both come from generations of fucked up shit and people choosing poor partners. I have often doubted my own ability to pick a good partner but my parents sure are worse, both of them.

I'd rather have my sister pick someone if I couldn't pick myself. She would pick someone I'd have nothing in common with but she would not miss red flags for sure.

>>33390039
>do you trust they would make a good choice?
M
Yeah, but I would hate such a system.

>>33390031
sex isn‘t that complicated
it would just be a matter of figuring out how to make sex with the current bf even better

>randomly feel like crying
what is wrong with my brain

>>33390061
just because you are too dumb to see the pattern doesn‘t mean there is none

>>33390039
M
I think they know me well enough, so I think they would.

>>33390061
Just let it out bro

>>33390061
>randomly
Probably not random.

>>33388982 (OP)
>Go to a stag party
>Got carried away and egged groom on to fuck the stripper as a joke
>Even offered to pay the stripper $200 to do it
>She agrees and the madman actually went through with it.
>Get home feeling guilty about it and confessed to my wife
>Paranoid it's going to get out and that it will be known I was the source

As a woman, what the likelihood that she will tell someone? She's already mad at me for encouraging it and blowing $200 on a prostitute but said I did the right thing to tell her so she forgives me.

What do you think is going to happen from here?

>>33390061
Nothing. Just two options
>you generally suppress your (negative) emotions so they come up by surprise when you let go of control - when you get into bed, when you get home from work and drop on the couch, idle moments where your inner monologue halts for a bit
>you saw/read/remembered something that made you sad

The second option can go a lot faster than you think. It is often half-conscious, like you hear a few seconds of a song that reminds you of another song that was played at the funeral of your grandmother. If you're not even consciously registering the song, you will not realize that, but your body will now and you might feel a bit of tightness or an ache or a desire to cry "out of nowhere".

If you want to stop feeling emotions you don't understand, the only way is to observe yourself more closely and get to know your emotions better overall.

>>33390070
you‘re 100% fucked and you deserve it
also, this is bait but whatever

>>33390070
>What do you think is going to happen from here?
I hope the bride finds out before the wedding.

>>33390070
Yeah, they'll know. Maybe they'll pretend that they don't, but you'll know by the way they treat you.

>>33390070
How likely it is that she tells others depends on how "juicy" the news is to her, basically how integrated she is with these people. If she's close to the bride the temptation will be serious, if these are all just names to her then probably not.

That said I would be more worried that she keeps thinking of how her own guy nuked someone's almost-wedding for shits and giggles. It doesn't really bode well for what it's like to be your own partner... at all.

You are also an incredibly poor friend as I'm sure you realize.

>>33390070
Why the fuck would you snitch on your friends like that? Especially after you egg them on?

I hope you get ostracized

>>33390039
Male
Not really. My dad would probably be able to if he treated it like a logical problem after I told him what I'm looking for, but neither of my parents would truly understand things from my point of view.
I don't think they'd want to choose a spouse for me, either, because they wouldn't want to presume.

>>33390031
the absolute state of fornicators

Girls, it's hot as hell, why aren't you enjoying sweaty cuddles

>>33390080
because it‘s gross

>>33390070
>stag party
>stripper
It was peak degeneracy to begin with, even if you didn't show up. Sure, you pushed him further, but it's academic at that point. Like stabbing someone unprovoked 17 instead of 16 times.
All of you were worthless garbage from the start. Your actions didn't change anything.

>>33390076
Nta but I would, he got his friend to show his true colours. Better that he cheats now than before the marriage. I would tell the bride to be and stop being his friend personally

>>33390039
F, eh, I think my mom would chose someone suitable. My dad would chose someone he thinks is based, and he thinks someone is based, the more they are like him. So he would chose the guy thats most like him and honestly, that doesn‘t sound very tempting.

I didn't know what a stag party was until now, interesting.

>>33390080
My boyfriend's not with me and even if he were, sweaty cuddles are his least favorite cuddles so I probably wouldn't have lucked out either until it cools down.

>>33390086
Also different anon but I really don't think a guy cheating under the "last night you're not married yet"-social pressure, direct intense peer pressure from one of his best friend and copious amounts of alcohol combo, means that one way or another he was guaranteed to step out on his (future) wife. At the very least OP robbed anyone of the chance of finding out if the guy could remain loyal when not literally bullied and bribed to fuck someone else.

>>33390083
Why are girls such prudes these days, you seem to hate ejaculates of all sorts

>>33390094
>sweaty cuddles are his least favorite cuddles
What a nerd, sweaty boobs are the best
>>33390098
Cheating is cheating, doesn't matter if he was drunk or it was a stag-do. People like this who are that weak-willed will cheat one way or another

>>33390102
yeah, all bodily fluids are gross

>>33390098
nta but yeah, both are awful people. OP for literally trying to ruin his friend's relationship for the lols, and the groom for agreeing to fuck a random stripper before his wedding.

>>33390103
>People like this who are that weak-willed will cheat one way or another
I don't believe this personally, especially because I think in a situation like this the motivation to not seem like a bore or pussywhipped or let down your friend or whatever, is at least as big a motivation as drunken sex with a random person you didn't even pick yourself...

>>33390103
It's not sweaty boobs he minds, he just gets really hot himself and cuddling only worsens that obviously.

>>33390109
>I don't believe this personally
Then you are just potentially a cheater too.

>these are the types of people getting married
scary

>>33390109
NTA
It's true that there was pressure, alcohol and other external circumstances. But I think that your will to not cheat should be more powerful than that.

>>33390107
Absolutely. What a worthless friend. "Now go enjoy the wedding we just tainted with guilt." It being a lousy impulse crime of opportunity only makes it even worse.

come on, are you guys really going to give this lame bait this much stage presence?

>>33390109
>motivation to not seem like a bore or pussywhipped or let down your friend or whatever
By cheating on his fiance??
>drunken sex with a random person you didn't even pick yourself
Presumably the stripper was hot and knew what she was doing, he just didn't want to turn down a good shag lol
I appreciate you trying to play devil's advocate but I have no sympathy. If I was the friend I would tell the wife-to-be ASAP
>>33390117
Could easily be b8 but this kinda shit happens unfortunately

almost every time i walk past a group of women they're talking about men. the bechdel test is just sour grapes from a lesbian.

>>33390112
I just don't think it's that simple. Loyalty is quite important to me and I have never cheated for what it's worth.

>>33390114
Absolutely, I'm not saying the groom was not to blame for it. Just that I think the idea that if he cheated under those circumstances, it absolutely would have happened one way or another, is really reassuring but doubtful.

He absolutely should've had more of a backbone and organizing a stag party I think he should have been somewhat ready for a scenario like this too, knowing he would have to shut that down right away.

>>33390117
Like we have anything better to do. At least it brings up topics to discuss like cheating.

I would not fuck a stripper if I was to be married because that's how loyalty works. Why hurt someone I love?

>>33388982 (OP)
Both genders

Due to unexplained convenient rules, you can travel in time, but only to wars. You can choose to travel to any war in human history, but you are forced to participate and can't choose a side, you're assigned at random. What war do you choose?

>>33390119
>By cheating on his fiance??
I know, unfortunately yeah plenty of social groups are like this. Look at the tone OP used ("what a madlad!"). He was a legend to them. That's VERY important to some young men.

>he just didn't want to turn down a good shag
Doesn't compute with OP saying he both offered to pay for it and pressured him though.

>I have no sympathy
I don't feel I have more sympathy for the groom than you do, just less for his friend.

>>33390110
Ah fair enough, I get similar, but don't mind it especially if the girl is also sweaty
>>33390121
>quite important
Only quite important?
>>33390121
>if he cheated under those circumstances, it absolutely would have happened one way or another
If he fucked a cheap stripper just because you egged him on, he'll be tempted to do that kind of thing again lol

First girl I had sex with and fell for was a stripper. God I love strippers, they're so hot and wholesome. Words can't describe the social good they bring into the world by stripping and talking sweet things to men

>>33390124
engish civil wars. i'd be equally keen fighting for both sides.

>>33390125
>That's VERY important to some young men
Guess I'm just too much of an autist and too much of a snake to relate. I'd throw the cunt under the bus without thinking twice lol
>both offered to pay for it and pressured him though
So he was getting a free good shag kek

>>33390127
Need Anora gf

>>33390130
Same

>>33390126
>Only quite important?
As opposed to? The only thing that matters? I'm confused.

>he'll be tempted to do that kind of thing again
We will never know but this is just really doubtful to me. A lot of people are in a weird headspace right before getting married. It was a celebration hyped for him to be a once in a lifetime thing. I think most people are never around strippers other than for a stag party in the first place...

Again I get it's really reassuring to be like if the bad thing happened, it would have happened one way or another, I just don't buy that it's that simple. Groom is responsible but his friend sure fucked him over.

>>33390127
I dated one who had BPD and not really "wholesome" kek but she had her sweet moments
Also out of my league looks-wise
Eventually she just offered to be fwb (before blowing up at me over something else), in hindsight I should've just accepted kek

>>33390132
>As opposed to?
As opposed to very/extremely important lol. Not the only thing that matters ofc but loyalty is the foundation to marriage
If he was truly loyal to his fiance/wife, he wouldn't have cheated, it is that simple imo
Would you want to be with someone who would cheat under the "right circumstances"?

>>33390124
f
for maximum absurdity:
1838 pastry war
for maximum moral ambiguity:
the thirty years war
for maximum kino: trojan war or wwII

>>33390124
This would literally take at least a year of research for me.

>>33390124
korean war

>>33390138
just chose some, it‘s not that deep

>>33390124
>can't choose a side,
Nigga, what? Am I fighting both sides?

>>33390145
nta but you are probably just assigned a side randomly

>>33390123
What if your wife really, really wanted you to?

>>33390135
>As opposed to very/extremely important lol.
Right, to be honest English isn't my first language and I cannot really distinguish to that level, "quite" and "very" are synonymous to me. But no absolutely, if I felt no desire to have my partner's back and be committed/loyal to them no matter what, I would leave.

>Would you want to be with someone who would cheat under the "right circumstances"?
If I can choose then obviously no. But just because I know my partner is faithful, has been faithful, doesn't mean I would put a gun to my head that I would vouch he would 100% never ever cheat, no matter how hard he was pursued, no matter how sick or drunk or high he was in the moment. There are other things I would vouch he would absolutely never do no matter what, but not that. And he has never given me reason to doubt, you just don't always know. Ask a decades long married couple how often they were surprised to realize something about their partner even after many years, they will always have examples.

>>33390145
What part of "your're forced to participate" and "you can't pick a side, you're assigned at random" is unclear?

imma be honest, people that get so pressed about cheating are weird

>>33390152
I don't get it either. Which is better, letting this guy smash someone else ONCE before committing for life OR ruining the whole marriage?

Women are weird and kinda evil

>>33390149
Nah then I'd be committing moral injury on myself. Not worth it. Pussy ain't worth going mad.

>>33390153
You don't think emptying his balls in another woman actually rid him of his desire to be with anyone but his wife for the rest of his life right?

I agree it's possible to be too intense about cheating. It baffles me when people say it's the very worst thing you could ever do to a person in a relationship when there are people that literally find ways to physically hurt their partner all the time without anyone being able to tell. But still the idea that last-minute stepping out "solves" anything is delusional. Either you don't really care about spending all your sexual energy on one person and then the stripper was pointless. Or you very much care and then one final shag with someone else won't make decades of monogamy feel any less monogamous.

>>33390153
no, I agree, this guy and his friend are both shitty people, if they are even real, but what weirds me out is these people that think there is people that aren‘t shitty if given the right circumstances
they really think they can get a partner thats super-human, flawless and they also need them to prove to them in every possible way that they think they are gods gift to humanity and nobody could ever come close or tempt them in any way
it just reeks of immaturity, insecurity, naivety and self centeredness
but to each their own I guess

>>33390152
I agree in principle but now is not the time. Women need to be corrected until they slow down cheating and moneky branching.

>>33390160
oh so it‘s just empty virtue signaling to get others to fall in line and do as you want them to? got it

>>33390150
>"quite" and "very" are synonymous to me.
"Quite" generally means "moderately", except when the adjective that follows it is one that doesn't have degrees. "Quite tired" means moderately tired or fairly tired. But "quite exhausted" means completely exhausted, because there aren't really degrees of exhaustion. "Very" means highly, or extremely.

Morning faggits

>>33390165
it‘s 1pm

>>33390162
It's harmful behavior. When women start pushing to normalize something, the results tend to be poor. Serial partner hopping shouldn't be normalized.

>>33390168
I never said anything about normalizing but the fact you project all cheating on women and only talk about female disloyalty is very telling about what kind of person you are.

>>33390163
Unironically thank you for explaining, I will file it away in the long term memory!

>>33390167
Not in America

>>33390170
Female disloyalty can't exist in a vacuum. But it seems to exist almost everywhere and people are being gaslit into believing that it's not ACTUALLY disloyalty.

>>33390150
>, to be honest English isn't my first language and I cannot really distinguish to that level
Oh okay apologies, no worries
>If I can choose then obviously no
So at least OP's friends fiance in this case is able to choose, if someone tells her lol

>>33390124
>What war do you choose?
F
Emu War. If the Emus need a stealth soldier, I'll put my hand on the hibachi hotplate at Benihana and burn my fucking fingerprints off.