How to get over events from my past?

This stuff happened over a decade ago but it still paralyses me for the future and makes me afraid if anyone were to find out

I just want to get on with my life and be able to be myself again

>>33389194 (OP)
Depends on the event. Sa? Abuse?

you literally don't get over these things

If you don't provide more details, no one here is going to be able to help you out. The best I can say is go to therapy, or find God.

>>33389194 (OP)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TkZZHKSqDWs

>>33389617
I had sex with a trans escort and had a relationship with a guy even though I'm not gay and I'm afraid of anyone finding out or these people showing up in my future and ruining my life

>>33391409
You're gay.

>>33391409
I think that's beautiful

>>33391416
No I'm not I was just really mental ill and lonely
>>33391466
What? I'm afraid if I ever get famous she might show up and try and blackmail me or ruin my life or that guy might try and make things awkward