Thread 33389601

My girlfriend broke up with me because I am too autistic, I feel no emotions, and I am very introverted and antisocial.

you had a gf, dumbass. you have zero reason not to be a loud confident asshole. the only reason is because girls will judge you, once one likes you, you don't have to hold back. what the fuck are you afraid of? a bully can't do shit when you can go home and get you dick sucked.

congratulations on wasting a real inflection point in your life you had to change

>>33389601 (OP)
This is why I never had a gf in the first place. How did you even get into a relationshit?

Also, do you really feel no emotions, or are you like me in that you feel deeply within yourself, but you just don't react to people with emotion, like talking is just a manual process of verbally enunciating words, and you can't do that while also paying attention to nonverbal communication in real time.

>>33389620
>be a loud confident asshole.
This is really obnoxious normie behavior and not something that autists want to emulate. When they do, it's really cringe, like in your face neener neener chicken weiner

>>33389649
>How did you even get into a relationshit?
Tinder, met, progressively escalated and got sexual with each other, most of it she initiated. And I have emotions I was being hyperbolic, I just never express them and a lot of emotions connected to romance and love I just genuinely do not feel whatsoever. And talking is a bit exhausting yeah I've sometimes been told I talk like an autist but other times I'm told I talk like a normie so idk and idc anymore.

>>33389601 (OP)
Jesus he looks like Charles Bronson had an allergic reaction.

>>33389668
Yeah, talking is exhausting and mostly pointless.
Such is the conundrum of being an autistic man who is highly heterosexual but mostly asocial.

When I imagine being with a woman it's a scene of us lying together cuddling mostly, hardly imagining any words being spoken at all.

>>33389601 (OP)
One of the things the autistic or merely emotionally closed-down have to learn as a general life skill is how to do by choice and decision the things that don't come naturally.

Having a girlfriend means doing and saying things to make her feel loved and valued. You know that intellectually. So you have to make yourself say and do things that express that, even if they don't come instinctively

>>33389601 (OP)
What advice do you want?

>>33391384
None from you, that guy

>>33389601 (OP)
Take some mushrooms.

>>33389601 (OP)
Is that what she said though?

>>33389601 (OP)
Yes

>>33392800
That is not what she said no.