>>33390063 (OP)most dating sites are scams in general. if your a guy its desert, if your a woman, its constant spam.it doesnt help that alot of onlyfans whores and scammers use the sites too, most of those are easy to spot but not always. if your a guy and not in a city and know how to write a perfect profile, your fucked on tinder. also everything paywalled even if you pay gold, you get like 3 messages and etc.
i genuinly think part of the biggest issues with dating now is because most dating sites are like this. if your a dude, you will get barely any replies and if your a woman, you will just get all the spam and maybe someone who is interesting. all of this shit is nickle and dimed to hell and back.
weirdly enough facebook dating has been ok. i have met some women and had a hook up(it sucked) but the one lady i like i met on threads(probably wont work because her 64 year old chiropractor made a move) but i still talk to a couple women from facebook dating.