I've been getting back into dating and I've been experiencing something new that I'd say may just be a development in dating or it may be me.

For reference I'm early 30s, conventionally attractive, and get a decent amount of attention from women without even doing anything, so idk what's wrong. Though I guess I'm boring based on what's happening.

I ask a girl out, either in person or online, they give an enthusiastic yes, and then a couple days later, the magic seems to have worn off, and the date is never nailed down. The women in question will leave me on read at some point. I'm not having that much small talk with them over text.

I can usually restart the conversation, but I'm so turned off by that point I lose attraction. I'll usually restart the conversation only once before I lose interest. Recently I actually went out with a woman twice, and she randomly just stopped responding, and I'd usually restart the conversation but I just gave up. I got some angry texts like 2 weeks later about why I ghosted her and I said that SHE stopped responding and I gave up because I thought she wasn't interested. This explanation didn't fly, and 2 months later she's still so mad she told me not to talk to her when we ended up at the same event. That's an extreme example but yeah. These women are in their mid 20s and mid 30s

I met a women at an event last thursday, and asked her out and she gave an enthusiastic yes but told me she'd reach out on sunday with her free times. She, ofcourse, hasn't reached out. And I'm left wondering if it's my "job" to do that even when she said she would.

Idk what my problem is. I have had girlfriends in the past. And when i think about it, it has ALWAYS been like this for me, until I fuck them, and thereafter the woman puts most of the effort in. I'm not sure if this is a universal experience too or a reflection of me being good at sex?

Am I just a boring dude who's good at sex? I hate this.

Women want ment to pursue them, that's something that's just ingrained in them from childhood. So essentially, yes they think it's your job to constantly reach out to them

>>33392226
were your relationships like that too? Honestly when I think of my relationships, they were pretty 50/50 but in the begining I was always being persistent.

If I'm not persistent I get 0 dates. I'm also only going for hot women, yes I could easily get a mid gf if I wanted to and it wouldn't be like this probably..

>>33392165 (OP)
It's just the female brain at work.
Metaphysically they cannot sense you until you create an impact on them. They are unable to move socially the same way a man does, they are like balloons constantly floating down until you send a gust of wind, which gives them a trajectory for a short duration but eventually gravity will send carry them back down

heh
for me it was always the other way around
they always wanted "something" from me and i was the one who ghosted them/didnt notice them/was dense/just not interested

now i matured a little, got some tan, am lifting doing sports ect and they are still interested but almost never try to strike up a conversation with me anymore.
probably because of my resting bitchface syndrome
i look like i would kill them the nanosecond they open their mouth. it is wild too. if theres a lady that i find interesting and divert my focus and attention on them they get nervous and drop their shit, like literally. (they dropped phones, keys, bycicle locks ect)
i notice that they feel somewhat uncomfortable so i understand that, so i just keep moving

>>33392165 (OP)
>t has ALWAYS been like this for me, until I fuck them, and thereafter the woman puts most of the effort in.
That's how it is, unless you have such overwhelming high value (e.g. famous) that they skip all of that stuff.

>>33392165 (OP)
Yes