>>33392859>even on guys who are respectful and polite.That doesn't make them not a creep though. Any unwanted advance can be construed as "creepy".
And as far as the girl knows, they're only respectful and polite as far as they've shown so far. We've all seen the cases where a guy was perfectly nice until he heard "no" and then got weird or hostile quickly. Girls have to think about stuff like this.
Pretend you're living in some max security prison full of the most dangerous inmates. Everyone there is unpredictable, much bigger than you or could kill and rape you at a moment's notice. Sounds like fun right? I'm guessing you'd be on pretty high alert at all times right?
Guess what, that's the world women live in every day.