Thread 33393941

I have a therapist that I saw telehealth that terminated our relationship, I never got to see her in person, I asked to, and she refused saying it was inappropriate.
Any advice on how to repair our relationship would be great as I need to see her again.

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>>33393941 (OP)
She terminated your professional relationship. What are you looking to get here retard

See an actual therapist (read : a male psychoanalyst who isn’t 25) that meets in person once weekly then actually go

you don't. you move on. don't be a creep, jfc

>>33393941 (OP)
>Any advice on how to repair our relationship
You can't, and you may get arrested if you try. Find someone else.

>>33393941 (OP)
No wonder she cut you off

>>33394057
please shut up you moron. I didn't ask any of that.

>>33394763
I absolutely can

someone who isnt a pussy moron please tell me how i can repair our relationship, i think she blocekd me on gmail

>>33395273
Are you legitimately this stupid, or just pretending? Is it your first day on the earth?

>>33395334
you are a pussy that hijacks threads to pretend you know anything about psychology or relationships. you should genuinely get a life or a clue about what life is about. fucking kys faggot

i didnt ask you to give your take on what im asking, i didnt ask you to give your take on what you think my solution is to a problem you translated through the lens of your own dumbass normie brain.

you are genuinely a fucking retard and should jump off a bridge into a pit of dildos that rape your stupid normie ass until you get aids, faggot. fuck off now thank you.

Need more context. What happened before this? Describe your last session with her.

>>33394057
It's almost impossible for people to afford analysis weekly for the rest of your life

>>33396115
I whipped out my dick on cam, I thought she would like it. But she made a big deal about it.

>>33396115
Ok.

I admitted that I've always found her attractive and that I'm in love with her. I also told her I masturbated because i felt power over her after one session where I went a little crazy. She changed my life and it's not just about love or sexual attraction at all. I would do anything for her, I need to see her before I die, I need to see her face I absolutely do I cannot stand her forgetting about me. I want to help her I want to help her in any way possible.

Don't tell me it's not gonna work, just tell me how to repair the relationship and get her to see me again please. She gave me a letter not to talk to her anymore. I don't know what to do.
I don't know what to do don't fucking tell me it's not gonna work I need ideas, and not jokes. Please.

>>33396045
You sound miserable kek.
I’m giving you the correct advice, which is foolish because the entire premise of this thread is severely retarded as fuck (how do I reverse a professional boundary within the context of a structured relationship), instead of actually working on your real problems through t actual effective modes of therapy. (read: not bottom of the barrel zoom ‘therapy’ from a new grad lcsw on betterhelp)

>>33396677
Analysis is eventually supposed to be terminated, chungus
>>33396784
>>33398625
Hahahahahahahahahhahahahah you’re gonna get into legal trouble if you keep this up. You’re retarded.

>sexually harasses woman
>expects to “repair the relationship”
Holy fuck, lmao
Is it your first day on earth OP?

if you have an answer go for it, ignore the guy and the other guy

>>33398625
I’m not telling you anything, but think about it this way: her getting involved with a patient could affect her license and career. Do you want to hurt her livelihood, if she means that much to you?

>>33393941 (OP)
op not the sharpest tool in the shed eh?

>>33398739
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>>33398773
>>33398769
Yeah im sure she needs your help

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just fucking tell me how to see her then.

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could i possibly repair the relationship by explaining to her that she helped me?

>>33398812
You ruined it permanently when you brought up the masturbation. Maybe it could’ve been salvageable if you only told her you loved her, but you’ve gone into creepy territory. She’s probably afraid of you

>>33398625
She's your therapist. You can't be in love with her. Like, it's not love, it's classic projection. The fact that you masturbated to her also means you're just fantasizing about what this could be. But you're totally off the rails, man.
The "power" you felt over her is also actually scary the way you say it, so it's understandable that she felt the whole thing was wrong in so many ways.
Just get a new therapist, and a guy.

>>33398649
>analysis is eventually supposed to be terminated
I'm sure you're in a place to understand Analysis that deeply

Let me guess. This schizo decided to be attracted to his therapist and he wouldn't stop even when she told him not to?
The schizo legitimately failed to realise that no means no and kept making a retard of himself by repeatedly trying to get what the therapist wasn't even offering?

Yep.
Fucking lmao dude you are fundamentally unlovable and you'll be alone for the rest of your life because you legit can't work out how to be normal.

>>33399223
A therapist is supposed to understand this development in their relationship. OP simply wasted his time and money with a moron

>>33399231
Nah fuck that. If a therapist gives OP a command that an average person would perform automatically and OP can't do it then the therapist is in the right to tell OP to fuck off.

>>33399237
You have no idea what actual psychological work between a psychologist and patient is. This was a turning point for OP's growth and understanding, yet his psychologist is a quack (as most are now) and turned him away. You're a moron