Thread 33394476 - /adv/ [Archived: 125 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/21/2025, 7:33:16 AM No.33394476
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Over a month ago, I tried Facebook dating. I was talking to a few girls at a time. One of them I was going to meet just to titty fuck, but she actually ended up killing herself. This other girl I found really attractive, but she was really hesitant to get closer and wanted to do the whole friend thing for a while first and got very bitchy. At the same time I was talking to her, I was talking to another girl on and off who constantly messaged me for attention and I had ignored her mostly. After I realized the other girl was going nowhere, I ended up talking to her more.

I started to like her and got really close. She is states away at this time. She lived with her grandpa, had a rough childhood, and so on. She is 25 and I am 30. We did a lot of texting and trying to figure things out. She talks oddly, I think she may be kind of autistic. Whenever we argue, she never really takes accountability outright and always ends up saying "well you did this etc". Sometimes she does say sorry for certain things. She meows a lot, like she's acting cute. When she texts she really just seems like a normal person. But through voice its different somehow.

I was planning to drive like 5 states away to pick her up and have her live with me and my parents by August. Her grandpa treated her like shit and she couldn't do anything. She lived in a severe country town. Well, plans changed. She got kicked out and decided to take a bus all the way up to my house, and I have been living with her for more than a month now.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 7:35:49 AM No.33394484
At first, it was great. I felt protective of her, and we went out to a lot of places. Fucked and I havent had sex in years. She isn't a very sexual type of person, but she likes to fuck it seems. She says she feels nothing when I eat her out and she kinda likes sucking my dick, but shes pretty mediocre at everything. I just do doggy and call it a day. My biggest issue with her right now is that she is very immature for someone her age. She still meows all the time, does this cutesy hand gesture randomly all the time. She really can't hold a conversation and doesnt really seem to know how to communicate properly, especially in relationship terms. I dont know, it almost seems like im dating a 17 year old? Sometimes she acts so stupidly cute that it's funny, but fuck it gets old. I try not to be an asshole about things like her mouth breathing, and tell her she should stop. Ive brought up the immature thing a few times, but maybe I should do it seriously. She just doesnt have anything intelligent to say about anything.

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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 7:36:50 AM No.33394490
Just recently, we went to a thrift store. She picked out a few clothes, and I said id buy her a top and a bottom. I was being an asshole and just hung back up one of the things she picked because I guess I didnt like it. She still had two things with her. saw what I did, hung them back up, and walked out without saying anything. We drove away without a word, she then says never take me there again and etc. I stop at wendies and a grocery store and I bought a coffee that was the same amount as the shirt I put back. She got extremely emotional, starting screaming that I dont value her because id rather get a coffee, mind you I asked if she wanted anything. She says to take her home. and I drive home. and she starts screaming again while im driving, and I say no wonder your grandpa kicked you out, then she tried taking my coffee to throw it and it spilled everywhere in the car. She threw her bag out the window. I said I cant do this anymore. Get out. because she was fucking screaming like a psycho. She then runs off into the forest. and I stop my car and get out and she just slowly walks away crying and screaming. People drive by asking if I was beating her and if everything was okay. She then eventually comes back and says she wants to pack her things and leave. Im kinda telling her not to without actually saying it outright, but im also not stopping her. She says she will just kill herself. (she is a big cutter, and i told her she needs to fucking stop) She leaves and comes back to grab her phone and glasses. and thats when my dad tries to have a talk with us. We made up, and are trying again.

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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 7:38:07 AM No.33394496
That same night, I told her how wrong it was to do all of that. I know I should've just bought the 3 dollar shirt, but everything after was just fucked up psycho bullshit. I really tried to get it in her head that acting like that just is not okay. I gave her a hug and said I love you and she hugged me long and said I needed that.

She hasn't acted that way again since but it still bothers me. And I have this problem where all I can think of is ass and I notice how attractive other girls are. I really dont have it in me to kick her out on my own, she has nowhere to go. I just cant stop thinking about other women all of a sudden this passed week or two. And she makes kissy noises when she wants to kiss me , and she is way too playful like a child. I dont know what the fuck to do.


also I didnt get to add it, but her taste in video games fucking sucks..
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 7:46:01 AM No.33394526
She has an ass and a good body. I guess I forgot to mention that as well.

Anyway, I just dont know. She likes to read so I figured id buy some good books on communication and emotional regulation. She's been trying to find a job. But yeah.. thats all I have to say. I needed to get this out
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 7:47:59 AM No.33394531
btw I meant to say "over 3 months ago" at the very start. shes been living with me for over a month. she is sleeping right now and im in the bathroom rn
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 8:03:23 AM No.33394579
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>>33394476 (OP)
>>33394484
>>33394490
>>33394496
>>33394526
>>33394531
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 8:06:28 AM No.33394588
>>33394476 (OP)
>Over a month ago, I tried Facebook dating. I was talking to a few girls at a time. One of them I was going to meet just to titty fuck, but she actually ended up killing herself.

Uniquely 21st century American experience.

>>33394490
>She got extremely emotional, starting screaming that I dont value her because id rather get a coffee, mind you I asked if she wanted anything. She says to take her home. and I drive home. and she starts screaming again while im driving, and I say no wonder your grandpa kicked you out, then she tried taking my coffee to throw it and it spilled everywhere in the car.

I don't know, I feel like I'd be pretty emotional if I threw away everything in my life to move in with a 30-year old and his parents multiple states away after a few months of talking, and he decides I can't buy a $3 shirt. I might feel like a sex maid or a slave. Probably going to be pretty unhappy if I feel like that's my lot in life
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 8:49:08 AM No.33394658
>>33394496
Grass always seems greener anon, never is though. I'd feel pretty happy to have an autistic girl who plays games. But yeah that bitch needs to be working, can't have her living off your dime and in your house.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:11:07 PM No.33395284
you sound like a very horrible person.
go fuck yourself this has to be ragebait
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:26:26 PM No.33395321
Did you want advice or?
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 5:19:34 PM No.33395521
>>33395321
well yeah, thoughts? I love her and i care about her. but her immaturity is a turn off and I wonder how she will turn out when shes 30