Sup, /adv/, so I decided last week to approach this girl at work, but it didn't go exactly as planned

My original plan was to go by her desk every day and say hello in a way that's not suspicious but rather friendly so that she'd remember me and build some rapport.

But the first day, she wasn't at her desk, was checking her phone outside, second day there were couple people shuffling on the floor, my hello got drowned out in the noise, third day (today) I got a little nervous so I barely whispered instead of saying it normally, she didn't even notice.

I'm peeved af that it's falling apart from the very beginning. She's frontdesk and I can't go too many times by her desk due to work

But, but, for my plan to work, I would need to move closer to her desk when passing by. Is there a way to do this like every day without looking suspicious?

>>33396134 (OP)
Anon you need to say more than hi.
Say hi, introduce yourself, say you were wondering if she likes an activity you do or something.
If you want to be cheeky about it, come up to her with 2 bottles of ice tea and say the vending machine somehow spat out 2 by accident and segway that into a convo.
No matter how stressed you are, if you can not talk to her for 5 minutes on something that interests you, you will probably never be able to have a 5 hour date.

>>33396134 (OP)
Tell her you want to dump your seed in her, fertilize her pussy and are willing to raise her spawn and wage your life away every day for her and her goylets. That's all women care about you cuck. Do you realize how many men there are like you there pulling this "hi" shit? Every beta male does that, you will not be impressing her, quite the opposite she will get the ick most likely because it's so common.

You have to stand out, grab her by the hair and drag her into the bathroom then dump your seed in her and tell her "BITCH YOU MINE NOW"

>>33396134 (OP)
Lol. By the time you "build rapport", she will have a new boyfriend. Just walk up to her and ask her out, if you know each other already, no matter how little. Otherwise, do as >>33396158 says.

>>33396158
Thanks, man, but hi is only phase 1.

She's fairly busy and I'm not sitting nearby sadly so it's difficult to catch a good convo moment.

I'll commence Phase 2 after around two weeks. Good idea with the vending machine story.

>>33396314
Anon you can not gaslight someone into liking you by being nice.
I am a decently attractive dude and I had women come to my desk and try to slowly build up something, some of which I reported because they were being creepy.
A woman being your type is not enough, you both need to be each other's types, and you do that by going up, having a chat, and seeing if you can even invite her for an activity you like doing.

also goes without saying, you need to have invested at least a little bit of time and effort into yourself
Being chubby shows you have little discipline
Being smelly or poorly dressed shows you do not take care of yourself
etc. You need to visually communicate that you are not a loser.

>>33396433
Pfff just tell me how to get closer to her desk and say hello without triggering any alarms

>>33396494
No clue. Attraction is specific to two people. You need to introduce yourself in a way that you think she would appreciate and shows your personality and see where it goes from there.
When girls like you they have a nicer tone, they try to be a bit cuter, get closer or even perk up when you speak to them. If you notice her actively being annoyed by you approaching it was not meant to be, let it go.
What I personally found creepy in the girls I reported is
>Persistence
If I make it clear that I am not interested and a girl keeps trying to approach or create "moments" that is obnoxious. Clearly understand hints.
>Vulgarity
If a girl makes any comment about my ass or my junk I will report her. Being called handsome is nice, fine with being called cute too but some people take it badly, I will report being called sexy unless it is a girl that is actually 95% of the way my type or more.

>>33396134 (OP)
Yes

>>33396134 (OP)
Its me again, I remember your first and second posts related to this issue, how do you not have enough confidence to say "hello".... Its literally just hello. If you can't say hello, you won't have enough confidence to ask her out. Try being friends with her for some time before asking her out, because asking her out of the blue will be weird.

>>33396134 (OP)
>building elaborate plans to "accidentally" pass by, say "hi" and walk away
this is the opposite of a good approach
>>33396158
that's more like it

I bumped into her near elevator when she was leaving. Maybe i should wait to her there at end of day?

>>33396158
Goated

Do this OP

>>33396433
> some of which I reported because they were being creepy
Based

>>33400373
Do what?

Approach her and start a convo out of the blue ?
What you fail to realize
- she's always busy when she's at frontdesk
- i can't go near her very much due to work
- it would be weird to start a convo without rapport, weird to ask her out, weird to offer her tea from vending machine
- i just need to hi/hello my way for a couple weeks before moving further. this is where i'm stuck currently

>>33396134 (OP)
Are you the same guy who thought it was a good idea to leave a bunch of fruit at some chick's desk?

>>33400939
No. Does it work?

>>33400942
Yes of course, remember to be anonymous when doing it

>>33400949
Tis a stupid idea
1. Office has fruits
2. I dont know what fruits she likes
3. Its frontdesk. Theres cameras

>>33396134 (OP)
people go to talk to the front desk person when they are bored all the time! Old ladies and stuff especially. I would blatantly just go up to her and talk whenever you get a lull and ask her small talk questions or whatever. People probably always do that. Just make sure not to interrupt her when she's on the phone or focusing on a task or anything. When it's slow, she probably gets bored, too.

It probably won't go anywhere because most people make it a policy not to date or have sex with coworkers, though. I always did. My female coworkers would always try to like set me up with men who we worked with when I would ask for a raise but I can't afford to risk my job just to fuck some dude that's fucking retarded. The pay at jobs like that is shit and it's always hard to get new ones because it's too easy and there's a lot of competition so no date or dick is worth potentially being homeless or on food stamps and working two retail jobs and temping over. But if you need practice, front desk people are safe girls to practice with.

>>33400939
No, that was me.
>>33400999
Don't mind him. People didn't understand what I was aiming for. I didn't want to talk to the girl, I just wanted to see her reaction to fruit appearing on her desk. (Which I didn't get anyway because I don't have a clear view of her desk, and a couple of weeks later, I still don't know what she did with the fruit.)
>>33400302
Not a bad idea, but DON'T wait for her. Instead, map out her schedule and "accidentally" meet her there. I'm doing something similar right now.

>>33401095
Her schedule seems unfortunately flexible. One day she's one time, the other day another

I can't believe this!!! I approached her desk, started saying hello but someone else started chatting her up. Today's try was ruined as she didn't even acknowledge me

>>33396158
I wanna mention any dates after 90 minutes start going downhill because we start getting bored and it gets awkward. Keep the first date for about an hour unless you both already know each other well.

>>33403695
There has to be some pattern. There is a pettern to everything. It might take some time to figure out, though, which, I agree, is a problem. But I still don't understand what's stopping you from just walking up to her and talking to her for a few minutes. Can't you leave your desk at all? Are there no breaks? Don't you come to work even a few minutes before your shift starts? I don't talk to women, but the opportunities are literally everywhere.

>>33404139
These are all signs that you are a low value male. If you were a high value male she wouldn't even have noticed the other guy or would have told him to hold on just so she could talk to you. She would also smile and her eyes would light up if she was interested in you. If she doesn't smile when looking at you, doesn't matter if it's just Hello or anything else, then she is not interested in you. Now sometimes they do smile because women are fake like that and it's how they operate, so it's not automatically a date you just have to talk to her and find out later if she was smiling out of fake kindness or if she is actually interested.

>>33404546
The value system is a fabrication concocted by troons and eastern euopeans to carounse themselves with a harrem of women while so called "low value" men troon themselves out of the gene pool

>>33404283
It's not easy. I work on a different floor and dont get many opportunities to get near her desk. It would be weird to come early.

>>33404546
Lol they were talking about boring, clerical stuff. I'll time my approach better. Come to think about it, maybe i should go to her with some clerical stuff as well. Hmmm. Thats an idea

>>33404546
>I saw this in a webm!

Kill yourself