Where do I go to meet and woo a girl who is into anime and video games and old movies other geeky hobbies?

I hear they are mostly in discord servers, but I have no idea what to do with that information. I've had poor luck finding them in public, unless they're autistic landwhales jingling with keychains and cat ears and rainbow hair at a coffee shop or something.

I have no illusions about the common body type or social skills. I've been a stable and entertaining boyfriend of multiple such types in the past but I made those connections through school, and I'm in the professional world now. And even if I went back to school they'd probably all be below my age range now.

>>33402780 (OP)
Anon, everyone wants a girl like that.
If they went outside, they'd have guys all over them and they'd have boyfriends.
You have to get lucky. The best way is through school and work (or family or friends if you can meet any that way)

>>33402780 (OP)
give up become a crab and pull down others so you dont have to suffer alone

>>33402780 (OP)
Thats a good question. Where do guys like you occupy?
I've been trying to find a nerdy lanky bf who actually enjoys anime, videos games ect. but it seems like my hunt sucks
I'm on hinge and I fucking hate it. A literal chad, named Chad liked my profile, and I realized that maybe hinge isnt where the lanky nerd boys are at

Only places I go are the mall, bookstores, pop up shops,gunpla stores and places that have those special food events like a ton of food trucks or speciality types like japanese food ect.

>>33403263
we are afraid of women and have given up on apps we dont go outside because people scare us also i dont believe your a woman because woman not existing in my space makes me feel safer

>>33403283
>i dont believe your a woman because woman not existing in my space makes me feel safer
You are not safe

But I'm sorry to hear that anon. I like sad pathetic boys

You can try my ex if you hang around Discord enough. KEK (_)

>>33403315
i have no reason to believe you because your a fucking woman even if you looked like gorlock the destroyer not only could you make men willingly give you money but you could also make then go out of there way too care for you

you are a liar or like this by choice

>>33403323
post hand
I need to know if scrawny boy hands posted this

>>33403334
they didnt im not scraawny im a depressed sack of meat and regreats no woman has ever looked at lovingly

i am a pig to quote my mother "what are you you disgusting pig i should've killed you when you where small enough" proof that i am not small or scrawny

Majority of these women are so fucked up by trauma that even starting a relationship is going to be incredibly hard. Men get into this shit because it's normal for us. A woman who is into this shit has been casted aside as a child that all she has is to be a recluse. Stop persuing these women.

>>33403263
I'm at school studying CS (no woman like you studies medicine) I'm stuck following the manchild group, asking out the hot girls between classes and getting rejected, the rest of my time you can see me with my mom at the mall, going to or from the supermarket or the bank, or I spend it learning instruments or doing calisthenics at home.

The mall has too many people to just say "the mall". Where in the mall do you hang? Why would you go to bookstores when you can pirate? gunpla stores don't exist here, the only hobby shop around went out of business (probably from online shopping and no marketing).

I also go to movies from time to time and sit alone in the centermost spot

>>33403351
>A woman who is into this shit has been casted aside as a child that all she has is to be a recluse
I can vouch for this. I was incredibly shy as a child and very anti social and used nerd outlets as escapism. I'm not that traumatized but I am very insecure and unsure of myself

>>33403348
Im sorry your mom is a bitch

>>33403364
>the rest of my time you can see me with my mom at the mall
This could be your downfall because when I see men with mom-age women I think hes either younger than he looks or he has a sugar mommy. Or he is with his mom and he's spending time with her, and it would be rude to approach that guy.

>Why would you go to bookstores when you can pirate?
I look to browse the different types of manga and see whats interesting, I never said I buy the books(I do tho I buy and pirate)

>Where in the mall do you hang?
clothing stores, those kawaii shops with sanrio and vinyl figures or general japanese imports

>>33403379
sugar mommys dont exist no woman will ever support a man

>>33403379

>Im sorry your mom is a bitch
she isnt she was right i am a fucking waist of dna but im not even important to my bloodline i have siblings on both sides nobody will mourn when i pass

i think this is the longest text chain ive had in 2 months

>>33403379
What kind of clothes do you look for? Would you find it weird if a guy is looking through Kuromi stuff (she's hot)? What do you imagine a guy coming into the sanrio store telling you? Do you prefer men with long hair (low ponytail), shoulder length (aragorn), kpop hair or short hair? I wear long hair in a low ponytail because I like to pretend I'm a british officer at sea.

Are you fat, skinny, chubby?

>>33403408
dude... wtf

>>33403414
What? What did I ask wrong?
I need to know what kind of girl to look out for. I genuinely want to connect with people and even though I really want to talk to one or other girl, I have NO reason to do what they're doing at the moment, so they get creeped out when I plainly say I like them. I need to know what a woman with nerdy interests looks like and what she wants to hear from a guy to not discard him on sitht.

>>33403420
No fucking wonder any woman is creeped out by you

>>33403389
>i think this is the longest text chain ive had in 2 months
Well time to beat your record anon
Anon most people aren't born with value, you have to make your own value and believe in yourself. And even so you don't have to have value you can just vibe and shit.

>What kind of clothes do you look for?
Depends, I feel like im always changing up my style. My little niece made me insecure, so I've been dressing up in summer clothes.

I would not find it weird if he was looking at kuromi stuff, but if I saw any guy in a sanrio store I would assume he was buying it for his mom, sister, or a girlfriend. I think I would like the guy to preface that if he were to say anything like "oh kuromi is my favorite character, I've liked her x amount of time." Or something along those lines to tell that he's there on his own accord and not for another woman.
Hair depends on the face shape, body type and general way you dress. I don't like super short crew cuts though. I think most women don't like ponytails on guys

>Are you fat, skinny, chubby?
in between skinny and chubby i guess

>>33403427
>>33403408
oops forgot to add

>>33403424
Fair enough. No telling women I like them. In fact, no liking women either. Straight business only, I'll just settle for the next single mother that tries to cling to me.

Most likely I'll just do prostitutes, only way to have a sense of control in this situation.

>>33403427
>Well time to beat your record anon

i meant in general not here i dont talk to or text people ever really

>Anon most people aren't born with value, you have to make your own value and believe in yourself. And even so you don't have to have value you can just vibe and shit.


thats litterally untrue aside from the obvious of "stemcells/organs black market value if your born to rich parents your porn with more monetary value then me nepotism is a think people born to status have more then those of us with none also when i vibe and shit i teeter between psychotic breaks and depression

>>33403427
Thanks for the answers.

Off with the ponytail then. Those cancer kids are getting fucked. Get a few girlish interests like light reading, say something that makes you suggest i'm doing this out of my own accord, and subtly suggest that I'm available.

Do you ever hang out somewhere like the typical "coffee shops"? I only see pensioners and middle age couples in those. If I see you messing around with your phone would you find it weird to be approached for small talk?

Man, I really need hangout spots. Wherever I go I feel like there's only men around, as if women are wild animals like birds and squirrels. Even to the few cons or activities I go to, the only women are some guys' invited partner.

>>33403437
escorts are cool. If you make art then it will add to that

art exhibits, book clubs, those gay anime cons

>>33403471
>Do you ever hang out somewhere like the typical "coffee shops"?
I will go with my friend, because she's still in college and her time is limited and coffee shops are low stakes. But recently I've been thinking of going

>If I see you messing around with your phone would you find it weird to be approached for small talk?
Depends on how you do it and where. Most of my feeds are fandom related, so I get pretty distracted on what I'm doing so I would get pretty startled if approached. I don't think it would be weird to approach a girl on her phone but don't do it if she's like the only person around, if its a coffee shop or somewhere public with other people she would probably respond and such.

>Even to the few cons or activities I go to, the only women are some guys' invited partner.
I went to anime expo this year by myself and spent the entire time in artist alley buying merch of my husbando. You may be looking in the wrong sections at Cons

>>33403471
I forgot to ask. Would you like it if a guy wearing custom print Tomoko/Kuromi/Pyra shirts approached you or would you find it creepy? I've been trying to work on myself and be more honest with the things I like, I would really like to have a less-than-subtle otaku shirt just to probe who reacts to it and show I sincerely like those things. I bet people usually show their interests through keychains, pins and buttons as well, but they only sell normie shit like one piece or pokemon accesories where i live. I need to meet people with powerlevel.

>>33403509
>Tomoko
Really depends on the character. I'm short af and very dorky so if I saw him wear a female character or a waifu shirt, I think I would he's only approaching me for that reason, If i found him hot and my type I would totally respond positively if he's not my type I would think he's trying to get a tomoko gf like as an example.
It's safe to wear general fandom shirts. If it's a cute character like kuromi it's fine, if its a waifu character like pyra or tomoko I would think that maybe the guy is a little weird. I would try a rose gallery shirt or like how some characters have symbols.

>>33403427
i have found more proof you are not a woman

i dont talk to women

checkmate male

>>33403520
Alright. No waifu shirts unless I'm preying on Tomoko gfs or pinging for other autistic men. I was thinking of printing this Kuromi in the backside of a shirt while having the front be a "backside view" of the pose for extra edgyness. What do you mean a rose gallery, like those shirts with the characters in a pie-chart-like layout?
https://files.catbox.moe/zwwef3.jpg
using catbox because of jannies.
Wew. "Being myself" sure has a lot of untold rules.

I have an idea ,OP. How about you see women as humans rather than your weird construct of your soul?

>>33403586
kys

>>33403590
Exactly

>>33403575
>rose gallery
Stuff where they got all or multiple characters from the things you like. Like how in dbz shirts with all the saiyans and shit.
The kuromi shirt is fine.

Being yourself fully comes when you are with your gf after like a year.

>>33403509
NTA but I'd be flattered if a guy approached me because I reminded him of tomoko (or any character he liked, really) and I think merch is a good way of getting the right people to talk to you. I get really autistic about seeing anime I like in the real world, the few times I've worked up the nerve to approach someone in public was to compliment their merch

>>33403520
>>33403697
Tomokofags be swimming in pussy.

>>33403263
you can find me at the asian grocery using yandex translate OCR on the clearance items

>>33403263
A/S/L?

Exhibit A: Revolving your identity around passive media consumption and literal escapism... Just another symptom or product of modernshit times

>>33403962
>A/S/L?
24f LA

>>33404021
Damn you live too far.

>>33403263
I'm 120 pounds so I'd fit your profile of "nerdy lanky bf." I've never been in a relationship before because I have had low self-esteem for the last twenty years and have never liked myself, so the idea of trying to put myself out there always felt like burdening someone else with my presence. I've been stuck in NEEThood for the last six years and can't leave the house because my family won't let me so I couldn't really put myself out anywhere except long-distance even if I wanted to.

>>33404180
Cute!

Post hand

>>33402780 (OP)
Most of the one's online either hate men or don't want anyone they meet online desu.

>>33402780 (OP)
> Escapist girls
I'm basically like that. My life is go to the gym almost every morning, then come home and play metroidvanias, watch tv/movies, and study mystical/occult stuff, occasionally trip on research chemicals from the darkweb to get inspiration for my slashfiction. Basically I got semi-rich from the crypto boom so I've been a NEET for years.
You'll hardly ever meet a girl like us because a girl who is into "into anime and video games and old movies other geeky hobbies", we are very good at sexually satisfying ourselves and getting romantic satisfaction from fantasy and creative hobbies and imaginary friends. We are like coomer AGP furry trannies but with less angst and naturally better hygiene. We have little patience for burdensome social customs, especially the stereotypical dysfunctional male-female relationship bullshit. Chances are, you are part of what we are escaping to begin with.
I used to like nerdy anti-social guys because I grew up around white trash so intellectual guys were a refreshing change, and we had common feelings of misanthropy but that got old quick.
A guy like you who is into "escapist girls" tend to be uptight passive-aggresive pedos who never want to try anything new, tend to be set in their ways, get mad when you see people having fun doing normal things like dancing, drinking, watching sports. Ultimately what truly excites a guy like you is "Stacy" or BPDDemons, but you want to be safe and "settle" for an escapist girl. But a relatively sane escapist girl is good at having fun by themselves with their imagination and creativity, so we won't settle for some boring lonely desperate yet picky guy who doesn't know how to have fun by themself and just wants to drain our energy.

>>33404979
Post tits or GTFO

>>33404904

>>33404979
Personally, I would love to have a Stacy BPDDemon but I just have no idea what women like that want. It seems a feeling of safety and trust is the bare minimum so I can't just tell girls I like them and want to get to know them. I guess they want something sexual, without the burden of responsibility, basically looks plain and simple, but If exceptions exist I just don't get it. It seems I'm just rolling in the path where no woman would ever cross. I'm destined to either be alone, or be unhappy, or cause someone unhappiness.

>>33404979
Based self sufficient Nona rejecting op as well as broader humanity and their petty trite ruckus

>>33402780 (OP)
> weak men with no personality seeking weak women with no personality

>>33405432
can't see the metacarpals, not lanky enough

>>33403427
>I think most women don't like ponytails on guys
This is the biggest lie of the century... many women like it

>>33404979
>Stacy
I never know what this means
what do people mean when they say that about men like they know what they're talking about

Holy fuck, you know what guys.
After reading this thread, its very obvious that we hate each other's guts, and the archetype you people are looking for don't exist.

Maybe before the internet. Any time a nerdy shy cutiepie is born, her mind is exposed to the internet and then brutalized into the unpalatable form you see itt.

Just like there isn't any man born today who was not exposed to hardcore pornography or incel shit. Simply put, there is no innocence left in this world and we need to adapt.

I think I am cured of this nerdy gf notion. I missed my chance, never knew I had one, tough luck. Personally I no longer desire a nerdy gf. Hell, I'll find a gf and make her watch anime, or I'll force an escort to watch non non byiori with me, I mean why not? Those girls are genuinely nice caring people, and when you go to them for other things unrelated to sex they are often very receptive to it. You can even go to a cosplay event together if you know her well enough. Who knows, maybe it will even be cheaper in the long run to pay someone for intimacy. Based on the age old adage "If there ain't one, I will make one".

The nerdy girl you're looking for is already happily married. What's left is what you get itt.
And no matter how lonely or full of hate for yourself you are, meeting them can't be good for you.

Still, I genuinely enjoy reading femcel posts. The sheer unapologetic brutality that always permeates them is exciting. its mind-blowing. There is no hatred like female hatred. There is no desire like female desire.
I was always attracted to the grotesque. I was always curious how far can the rabbit hole go, and with women its to infinity. I am only partially joking when saying this - talked with actual real pedophiles on dw decades ago when pedo support forums were still a thing there, and at their darkest and most evil, they cannot compete with your average kpop fan.
Good day.