Does ignoring workplace bullies work?

actual bullying or just banter

>>33403004 (OP)
>adult getting bullied

>noooo don't bully me at work!!
>c'mon that's my lunch! i made it for me
>noooo you can't just tell the pretty girls lies about me

>>33403881
>>33403876
Least obvious samefag

>>33403876
>>33403881
Samejeet

>>33403004 (OP)
Just ignore them, they'll never grow up, they'll act like they have but in fact they wont. Try writing down things that you remember them doing in private ofc. When you quit snitch on them to the hire ups no not supervisors, other higher ups.

>>33403004 (OP)
Workplace bullies? How immature are they?

>>33403004 (OP)
>>33403876
extremely funny
>>33404143
and no, ignoring bullies is exactly what they want.

The whole point of bullying is to make fun of someone to their face, disrespect them, do le epic pranks, and they just sit there in frustrated silence absorbing all the insults and mischief.

t. was both bullied as a child, and then pivoted to doing bullying as a teen.

Also you're probably just a hyper senstive sperg who misinterprets cheeky banter as bullying

like they're not beating you up for your lunch money and throwing your stuff in the toilet or anything like that

right

>>33403004 (OP)
How the fuck do oyu get bullied at work?!

>>33403004 (OP)
Public humiliation works better.

>>33403004 (OP)
There is no real solution to bullying, if you stand up you get fired or In jail, if not you keep getting bullied

There is no winning

>>33405165
you must be 18 uears old to post here

>>33405165
>file an HR complaint
>YOU'RE GOING TO PRISON, MISTER

lol
Is this what kids think the world is like? No wonder they're afraid to work

>>33403004 (OP)
Cut your losses, admit defeat, accept humiliation, and find a safer work environment that you can live with

why is everyone pretending workplace bullying doesn't exist

>>33403932
objectively not you fucking retard

>clapping back almost 24 hrs later
Kek

>>33406472
07/23/25(Wed)01:34:56 to ...Anonymous
07/23/25(Wed)17:39:06 is nowhere near 24 hours, retard.

>she keeps coming back to get the last word
Lol

Tell your mum

>>33403004 (OP)
kill the bastards

>>33403004 (OP)
>>33407517

>>33406395
Because I can't imagine how TF you could bully a grown ass man at a job.
The bad Guy
>You're an ugly faggot and I hope you die
Everyone in the office
>He needs to be fired
The bad Guy
>[is fired]
or
The Bad Guy
>Shoves a co-worker
the police
>Arrest the bad Guy for assault

>>33405165
This is retarded and wrong. If the bullying persists, record it, detail it, compile it, go to HR, and get them fucking fired. Ive done it before. Fuck them.

>>33408652
I have to believe that youre a teenager thats never worked and had rarely socialized because this is just the most retarded shit ive ever heard in my life and screams that you have zero real world experience

>>33408699
Quite the opposite, little fella'. I probably have more work experience than years you've been alive.
Of course, I also have a spine, sufficient testosterone, and actual social skills.
Do tell the class how you think a grown man can be "bullied" at work, kid.

>>33408765
Bet im bigger and stronger than you, old man. And you seriously can only imagine the setting of bullying being the bully doing his misdeeds in front of the entire group? You cant imagine the bully saying things discreetly in a one on one setting out of everyone's earshot? Do I need to elaborate more or are you starting to understand??

>>33408844
Oh my GAWD!
SOMEONE SAID MEAN THINGS TO YOU?!?!?!?!?!
You poooooor widdle BABY!
How hard did you cry yourself to sleep last night, you delicate little thing?
I mean - someone said *mean things*!
And everyone KNOWS HR never, never, ever, never, ever listens to complaints about stuff, ever.
I can't believe you had the courage to write down that someone might say something mean!!!
I'm sure you mommy is very proud of her brave widdle fella.

>>33408908
God damn you are dense dude. I really dont like you at all.

>>33408912
YOU SAID MEAN THINGS TO ME! STOP BULLYING ME, YOU MONSTER! MOMMY! MOMMY!
Seriously, how hard did you cry when the teacher told you to stop talking in class?

You
>>33408699
>I have to believe that youre a teenager thats never worked and had rarely socialized
Also you
>>33408844
>I'm bigger and stronger than you
>>33408912
>I really dont like you
The most common thing is the weak is projection

>>33408697
I am the chronic victim of workplace bullying and discern that because of depression or something I don't have enough ordinary confidence to feel fine around people and this leads people to the conclusion that I am socially weak.

So I have trouble fitting in with people because I want to take myself seriously, but others seem to pick up on my emotional sensitivity and put me down a lot.

I have complained to HR people about workplace bullying and I have been basically pressured to quit at least two companies for trying to get something done about serious workplace bullying problems.


It's not worth the trip to HR if you think your boss will not side with you.

don't go to HR because they most likely will not help or tell you to quit. HR isn't on your side they are more like a company lawyer that stops you from suing over unfair work conditions.

OP the best thing you can do is start contextualizing other people as immature and realize the reason people do that is neurotransmitters. They get positive neurofeedback and the sensation of social acceptance from engaging in the behaviour.

Notice how every time they change their mind about what to argue about? They don't have a goal, they just get positive neurofeedback from messing with you.

Believe it or not if you are making them angry that means you are winning kind of. Learn to accept victory. Some people are bad and there is nothing you can do about it. It's neurotransmitters and mental functioning.

>>33409177
>I am the chronic victim of workplace bullying
Describe, in detail, what this is, please.

>>33409462
NTA, but someone who has worked a lot of jobs and seen a lot, so let me use two real-world examples.
First is a guy I'll call Adam.
Second guy is Bob.
Bob had been hired about 3 months before Adam.
Bob loved to call people what he called 'nicknames'. Robbie that had a glass eye? Bob called him Cyclops. Jerry that had lost a finger? Bob called him Frodo. Nick who was 6'5" tall? Bob called him Redwood.
No one really cared, but Bob was obviously upset that the 'nicknames' didn't stick. No one else used them just Bob.
Adam gets hired and comes in. Adam had some legit medical condition and had to take pills that made him not just gain weight, but swell so he was not just a little chubby but had a huge chin and so on, very odd looking.
About 10 minutes after getting hired Bob called him "Slim".
Bob laughed.
About 20 minutes later Adam called bob "Stretch".
Bob was 5'4".
Bob didn't laugh.
Bob went to HR and complained that Adam was bullying him. Said it was totally inappropriate to mock people in the workplace.
HR knew all about Bob calling people Cyclops and Frodo and told him they'd 'look into it' and essentially blew him off.
Not too long later Bob called Adam 'Peter Griffin' and Adam laughed as said 'what do you want, Stewie?'.
Bob goes back to HR and complains he's being bullied. HR suggested he wasn't a good fit.
So.
yeah.

>>33409462
Bullying is when people frustrate and belittle you for an ego boost. You would have to be an autistic person to not understand how this works.

>>33409625
No, you stuttering sperg, exactly how are YOU being bullied at work, with details?
Because I'm betting money that you're a sniveling weakling.
I can hear it now
>"I fucked up a delivery to a client and lost the company money, and then I made a billing error that cost the company money, and my manager said I need to stop being a fuck up and THAT'S BULLYING!!!"

>>33409646
Acting immature is not going to get you the information you want.

>>33409826
>I am lying and everyone knows it
FTFY

>>33409826
So you have zero examples of bullying?
OK

>>33403004 (OP)
No. Buy a balaclava and break his fucking legs.

>>33409612
Brave of bob to be bullying anyone at 5’4 lol