This is a girl I met online and I think she's amazing, we spend almost all our time together in voice and we play a lot of online games. But she has already said once or twice that for her the age difference was impossible for her, it happened when our friends told us that we were in love. But yet she continues to be close to me and I have the impression that it bothers her less and less that I get closer to her. What should I do?

16 and 19 isn't bad at all, just don't make a big deal about her age.

>she continues to be close to me
So you met her IRL? Or are you just in love with your computer.

>>33406364
Yes but for her it’s seems to be a problem

>>33406375
I didn’t met her IRL but if i can be in couple with her i can met her very often

>>33406385
Meet her IRL first, she might not be worth it if you don't click IRL

>>33406385
Why ? And i don’t think she wants to met me irl if we’re not in couple

Wait until she's 18 then make your move desu.

>>33406418
I just don’t want her to get a bf and for me i’ts hypocrital

B

>>33406359 (OP)
>What should I do?
Back off. Even if you are not too old for her, she is too young for you.

>>33407806
I just love her don't care about her age desu but it's for her i don't if this can block her

I don’t know if i should say my love to her

>>33409434
>I don’t know if i should say my love to her
that'll get you a one way ticket to the friend zone, regardless of her age.

Children can't consent anon. You are doing mental gymnastics for a child. You are an adult, she is not. It's not complicated or up for debate.

If you can't wait 2 years then it's feet first through a woodchipper for you predator.

I want you to know you are trying to justify romancing a child. Which is evil.

>>33409448
But if i just keep flirt with her like that for 2 years it’s even worse for us because if’s even more mental gymnastics

>>33409442
Why that ?

>>33409493
I know what you are
I saw that subtle attempt to Downplay your disgusting actions
>flirting is even worse than actually doing something
Reminder anon. You are talking about a CHILD. You are an ADULT.
You can't run from this realility and no amount of evil justification will convince anyone else in this world to pass your sick and disgusting behavior. You need professional help or a bullet, there is no inbetween.

>>33409499
We have just like 2 years and half of difference

>>33406359 (OP)
I honestly feel sympathy for all of you that only interact online and convinced its real

>>33409561
Why this can’t be real ?

>>33406359 (OP)
First, how are you in love with someone you never met IRL?
And second, just wait at least another year, 17 and 20 is much better
And lastly, you need to see her IRL, there is no point otherwise

>>33409613
Because she’s litteraly my ideal type of girl i’m in love with her character. I really don’t understand why waiting she’s 17 because like in six months she will be 17 like she will change a lot just because she’s 17 now ? And i don’t know how to see her IRL without be in couple with her

>>33409575
Can you eat an online meal or take an online piss or hold an online hand? You cannot

>>33409695
Yes but if i’m in couple with her i can met her

>>33409633
At that age 6 months are like 3 years lol. Also plainly put, it looks better socially. Idk where are you from, since that would vastly change the reactions (not the same if you are from the US than for example latin america).

I also recommend waiting because people mature, change, and stuff happens. You still don't know who she is.

Believe me anon, don't commit a mistake and blindly get in a couple with someone deep down you know you don't know. People IRL are much much different than online, so hold on those feelings a little bit longer, and make the effort to know her better.

>>33409733
I’m from France and desu i want to spent more time with her and say how much i love her and i’m scared if i wait too much she find someone

>>33406359 (OP)
You should ask your parents what they think.
I bet they would be disgusted.

>>33409747
have no idea how it is in France, is it well seen?
I would prefer to wait and be sure than risk it and lose it forever. Also chances are getting with someone at that age will not last long. So yeah, wait

>>33409777
It depends it can be well seen and the opposite. I see what you want to say by that

>>33406385
Lmao this nigga talking to an e-girl. If you meet up with her, YOU ARE GOING TO JAIL. DON'T

>>33409797
She’s really really not an e girl

>>33409789
>It depends it can be well seen and the opposite
isn't that the case with almost everything? Idk dude, don't dig a hole you will have a hard time coming out of is all I'm saying.

>>33409808
Is it legal in France?

>>33409808
Bro you're actually so stupid and in denial that you're a fucking predator, you're talking to a girl that doesn't even know what math integrals are.

The amount of mental gymnastics you are doing right now is actually insane, if you can't tell your parents or friends about this without fear of backlash it's clearly a stupid idea, pedo

>>33409831
He's in France. Probably a Moroccan predator

>>33409867
KEK

>>33409892
I'm not kidding

>>33409494
"saying your love" my ESL friend, or "confessing" or "telling her how I feel" or any other variation of that is extremely cringe and immature.

You're telling a girl all about your extremely intimate deepest feelings for her - and you haven't even gone on a date yet.

You tell a girl how you really feel about her AFTER you've gone on several several dates and you're an established couple and it's been like 6 months at least.

It's colloquially known as "love dumping", same as how other people might be into "trauma dumping" or anything else where you dump a whole lot of one-sided unexpected and unasked for emotional baggage on someone you're just barely friends with.

>>33409747
mec, (excuse mon accent québecois) jte dis - fait pas ca. ya rien de bon à garocher toutes tes émotions personelles sur elle. Dis y qu'es belle pis drole pis cool pis full cute pis intelligente pis quoi d'autre mais jte jure qu y dire que tu l'aime ou bein que genre tu pense a elle quand tu dors etc ca vas riend donner de bon.

Dumper tes émotions sur elle c'est genre "enwoye attrape ça, c'est toute mes émotions - jsais pas quoi faire avec mais peut être que toi tu pourrait arranger tout ca a ma place, pis si tu m'rejette beins jvais me crisser à terre du top dla tour eiffel"

>>33409935
OP, listen to this advice. Idk french so I translated using deepL, and agree completely. Please do this

>>33409973
I was just repeating what I said earlier, because it's worth repeating.

Tell her she's cute funny, cool smart, whatever. Just don't lovedump your one-sided feelings on her out of nowhere. At best it's a one way ticket to the friendzone for coming on way too strong and seeming emotionally immature, and at worst it could be seen as creepy and desperate and get you blocked and ghosted.

I used to do that when I was a young teen, and every now and then as a grown ass adult I still get that impulse every now and then with some girl I'm really into and I have to consciously hold myself back and play it cool.

>>33409985
Yeah the same happened to me, it's a matter of controlling your impulses and emotions. It ends up being a difficult game where you have to balance how cold/loving you are, and when and what to show of yourself.

>>33406359 (OP)
wow, what a disgusting paedophile

but honestly, I am genuinely concerned about the state of things if these threads are not bait threads. There are a lot of them.

>>33410036
The amount of discourse about this online is truly staggering.

>>33410068
>>33410036
Alright after reconsidering, I don't want to be yet another bad actor here, and I would not like to agree with people that would be my enemies in real life.

Especially since OP is a dumb teenager.

>>33406359 (OP)
Nothing wrong with the gap, there is none. You are her age group. Age gap relationships is when she or he is 10 years older and stuff, you would literally be in the same school different grades if you knew each other offline.

There is some deep madness brewing about dating, and its perpetuated and maximized on social media channels. I think we're finally nearing the collapse of the matrimony and demographics as a whole in the western world, and this screeching is yet another symptom of it, strengthened 100-fold by the social media echo chambers. This is probably where she learned of "the agegap" in the first place, or her friends told her.

The idea that those 3 years are significant felt so ridiculous to me that I had to do a little bit of trolling, I was expecting that majority of the post like mine was in similar vein but I am not so sure.

So I wish to affirm you, there is no agegap issue. Social posturing I would guess, but its not my (future) gf. I don't know her. Unless she is lying about her age and the true agegap issue is that she is actually 12.

There is a dating issue, the getting a girl issue, as you are a dork experiencing your first love. For this you already got an excellent advice from two french anons, so listen to them.
Good luck!