How do I stop making my penis the center of my sexuality? I have psychological and physiological ED. The former is because whenever I start masturbating I notice how underwhelming it is, especially in comparison to porn and hentai (even the hentai manga made for women by women), and lose my erection within 20 seconds. I also don't get morning wood or full erections anymore. One reason is whenever I get an erection I think
>wait, that's it? Why won't it keep growing
And that dejectedness sabotages my libido. As soon as I see or touch my penis I lose an erection. They don't feel stiff either but that might be a cope stemming from the psychological problems.

>>33408211 (OP)
>underwhelming
Are you fat?

>>33408232
No I'm skinny. My fat pad is non existent. There is no extra dick hiding from me.

>>33408238
Then you're an effeminate dude, are you gay?
Women will humiliate you in so many ways for your small dick.
I mean many told me I have a big dick 8.7 but I feel like I'm not like those dudes in porn, no way, a lot of porn is shot that way from that angle that makes the dick even bigger.

When I fuck them women you can see on their faces they know it's something, when I shove it in instantly then I really get a surprise reaction on their whore faces.
I was like
>No I don't have a huge dick, it's normal
and she said
>Are you kidding me I can see it through your pants.
I was thinking
>wtf is she on about?!
All said and done I still have a problem with finding women and am a loner so maybe dick size doesn't really matter, even when you get a lot of whores really sweating, know what I mean?! No you don't.

>>33408304
I am 100% straight. I have a somewhat effeminate body but not twinkish. Your post was nothing but a humblebrag and did nothing to help me.

>>33408317
>I am 100% straight.
Dude, I am 7/10 athletic, decent size dick, money, job and I'm telling you it's hard to get a decent girl out there.
And yea when it comes to dick these women have 50 shades of insulting you, I mean they compliment me quite shamelessly but mostly older women, fucking gross, know what I mean?!
Don't base your sex life on dick and don't blame your dick, women are terrible these days in general.

>>33408333
>just give up and stop caring lol
Terrible advice

>>33408344
You're like the prosecution for your dick and I'm the lawyer!
And I'm telling you that the culprit is the MODERN DAY WOMAN!

>>33408346
Well there is still a question to address
>how do I stop making my penis the center of my sexuality

>>33408356
You see it is the center because of his bad rep.
Just look at it with better kinder eyes and the pressure will ease.

>>33408373
What use is the penis if not to pleasure a woman. Who cares about my own pleasure. The male fantasy is to conquer a woman. Rape is out of the question so all that is left is sexual satisfaction.

>>33408382
I'm more selfish than that.
But most women get pleasure from the clit so get good at that.

>>33408386
I still can't masturbate.

>>33408399
Never had that problem, I mean I used to masturbate like 2 days in a row gooning then the third day I'd visit a hooker and my dick was up instantly.
My dick was raw that was dumb of me cause that's how you catch diseases from those whores.
So many times I beat my meat until it was red and swollen.

>>33408411
are you going to give me advice or keep sharing boring information about your life

Update: just tried masturbating. When penis became fully hard I began to cry
I've probably measured my penis at least 200 times in the past 3 years. Sometimes I think of cutting it off entirely because of the stress it brings me. Haven't cum in 3 weeks.

just read the stupidest cope
>umm your body keeps growing in your 20s bro. second puberty haha!
the final cope. waiting for the growth spurt that will never be

>>33408211 (OP)
also just learned that stretched flaccid is pretty much the same as erect length, so no more ED cope. boring ugly body and laughable baby dick