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Anonymous No.33416090 >>33416244 >>33416268 >>33416276 >>33416993 >>33417004 >>33417026 >>33417425 >>33417430 >>33419017 >>33420148 >>33420240
>22
>Living with parents
>Never worked
>No perspective of life
>No plans
>Spend all day in my room
>Scared of the outside world
>Can't keep friends
>Doesn't exercise
>Porn addict
>Time is passing
How to fix?
Anonymous No.33416213
https://youtu.be/CfBRlm9o4xU?si=K0zB11thbm9yul98
Anonymous No.33416244 >>33416251
>>33416090 (OP)
>22
I'm at the same position.
>Living with parents
There is literally nothing wrong with living with your parents if you can't afford to live Outside of them.
>Never worked
This is probably the reason why you and I both aren't getting a job. My last. Work experience was over two to three years ago. Still don't stop applying hell I found out from a friend of mine that those work at home jobs are still going on. They want people who speak English fluently. To be on the phone lines and they'll pay you 20 bucks and provide you the computer and headset. You might as well do that. I'm telling you.
>No perspective of life
>No plans
This and the one above it can easily be changed Just start small. Make a list of things you want to read or do or activities you want to fulfill and then just go out and do it. I'm against doing it myself a lot too. Hell, I love being at home most of all, but yesterday I went to. The mall and to the museum, two small places, both on the way home. But just going out for that little bid. Made me feel. Better about myself
>Spend all day in my room
>Scared of the outside world
There's nothing wrong with doing this. But if you are this way, then just start with cleaning up your house, organizing stuff, et cetera, et cetera, I can guarantee you because I'm in the exact same situation as you, man. That if you just. Do some minor stuff, or even write out a couple of things you want to do and then try and do them. You would feelfulfilled.
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Anonymous No.33416251
>>33416244
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>Can't keep friends
>Doesn't exercise
>Porn addict
All three of these can easily be fixed. Go to the gym, talk to somebody there. If you don't know what you're fucking doing, don't be ashamed. 9 times out of 10, most people at the gym are. There to get their pump on too. They don't care how you look or whatever, and if you ask them genuinely for help, they will help you. That might just be how it is down here in the south, but still.
>Time is passing
The inevitable march of time is something that none of us can avoid. But if you spend your time doing things. When you get to the end of the day, you will be happier for doing what you did.
Anonymous No.33416268
>>33416090 (OP)
Start by getting a job or going back to school. If you want to end your NEETdom, then you have to do one of the things it says you aren't doing. You're still on time. You can do this, but you need to start asap.
Anonymous No.33416276 >>33417425
>>33416090 (OP)
I'm exactly the same, but I'm 25 and have a wfh job with shit pay but too lazy to get a more prestigious one.
All I have to show for my life is 50k in savings, but I'm too retarded to know what to do. I just spend it on the occasional video game, food, and trips. I'm lost in life with no direction. Lonely too
Anonymous No.33416993 >>33417425
>>33416090 (OP)
I’m 35. Same situation. Gonna kms.
Anonymous No.33417004 >>33417425
>>33416090 (OP)
Have you ever seen a psychologist about this? I don't want you to end up like me. I'm 11 years older than you. And that's literally how I was at your age.
Anonymous No.33417026
>>33416090 (OP)
Fact: Anger needs Oxygen.

Know the difference between rational anger & irrational anger (my hands are ugly, i hate rainy days, etc).

Know the words that start with "L" and end with "N". One is hidden in the rainbow!

Finally, there is a guy named "Jesus" who is super rich and arrogant. Just know he exists.

Good Luck!
Anonymous No.33417425 >>33418468
>>33416090 (OP)
>>33416276
>>33416993
>>33417004
-Go to the gym, meet people there and do friends.
-Go and study either a career or a trade, and start working from that
-Start leaving your house. Feeling depressed? Bored? Lost? Go out for a walk, be lost, but outside. Also bring a book with you and read (outside). Be every moment possible outside your home and take some sun.
-Again, meet people. The gym is the easiest place ever. Just ask a rando for help, boom, you met someone. Do the same at class/job
-Make yourself a long-term objective that you need to meet, doesn't matter how stupid it is. But something that motivates you, so you have a clear path ahead of you. Want to travel? Start earning money for that, start learning their native language, learning their culture. Do small steps. But something like for next year or two. In fact, make objectives out of everything. Make an objective in the gym (I want to achieve X weight in X exercise in X time) or reading (I challenge myself to read X books in X time).
-Go to therapy, vent all your troubles there and search for a solution.

All these stuff helped me get through the same stuff you guys have been living, and helped me get out of depression. Hopefully it works for you too, but change needs to come from you. Move, do something. The solution will not be a miracle but yourself.
Anonymous No.33417430
>>33416090 (OP)
Register with the local euthanasia center and wait for the cremation van to collect you.
Anonymous No.33418468 >>33418501
>>33417425
>All these stuff helped me get through the same stuff you guys have been living, and helped me get out of depression. Hopefully it works for you too, but change needs to come from you. Move, do something. The solution will not be a miracle but yourself.
You don't know what I've been through or am going through. So fuck you and your advice. Probably works for dumbass Gen Z happy go lucky retards like you though.
Anonymous No.33418501 >>33418525 >>33418623
>>33418468
>You...You don't know what I've been through. I-I've been through so, so much. I-I can't ta-take it anymore!! I will kill myself!! I'm such a faggot and a retard!

then grow a fucking spine and stop being a crybaby.

>B-But you don't get it. I've been through so much...

cry me a river. Or otherwise stop crying and complaining about your inability to change and do something

Surely laying in your bed all day will fix your problems

>It's... it's the only thing keeping me alive! I didn't even ask to be born... Why me?

then fuck off
Anonymous No.33418525 >>33418606
>>33418501
>then grow a fucking spine and stop being a crybaby.
Fuck you.

>cry me a river. Or otherwise stop crying and complaining about your inability to change and do something
Fuck you.

>Surely laying in your bed all day will fix your problems
Fuck you

>then fuck off
Fuck you
Anonymous No.33418606 >>33418618
>>33418525
kek someone is malding

No but really do something instead of complaining, otherwise you will never improve
Anonymous No.33418618 >>33418656
>>33418606
Mind your fucking business, faggot.
Anonymous No.33418623 >>33418662
>>33418501
Also, I'm not suicidal. More like homicidal.
Anonymous No.33418656 >>33418658
>>33418618
you literally just came to this fucking thread asking for advice retard, you can't just say mind your fucking business. Go to and finish school at least since you clearly haven't even done that
Anonymous No.33418658 >>33418667
>>33418656
This isn't my thread, you fucking dumb faggot. I'm 33 lmao eat my ass and die
Anonymous No.33418662 >>33418757
>>33418623
oh the whole package of being a cute little edgy guy.

>beware of me... I'm homicidal... I want to kill people...

you are so fucking funny. I got the solution for you, go work as a clown, maybe you were born for it
Anonymous No.33418667 >>33418757
>>33418658
imagine being 33 and still being such a crybaby, you are hilarious. Post a thread then of how not be end up like you and be useful for once
Anonymous No.33418757 >>33418804
>>33418662
Do something about it then, pussy.

>>33418667
Imagine being Gen Z. No wonder Kohberger killed your little girlfriend lmao go die in a fire
Anonymous No.33418804 >>33418829
>>33418757
>Do something about it then, pussy.
You are the pussy, doing nothing in your life because you are scared of the world

>No wonder Kohberger killed your little girlfriend lmao go die in a fire
You made me search who the fuck he was. Don't accuse of me of being a gringo retard, as if I would give a fuck what happens there
Anonymous No.33418829 >>33418929
>>33418804
>not american
Then shut the fuck up. You're not white.
Anonymous No.33418929 >>33418955
>>33418829
I'm whiter than you could ever dream of being. But who cares, only retards from the us
Anonymous No.33418955
>>33418929
prove it
Anonymous No.33419017
>>33416090 (OP)
Get a job. Any job. Then go to school.
Anonymous No.33420148
>>33416090 (OP)
I know you were born with C-section. This is normal.
Anonymous No.33420240
>>33416090 (OP)
Bruh you're 22. You have your whole life ahead of you. Start by figuring out what you even want out of life and then make a plan for how you want to obtain it to the best of your ability. Give yourself some direction.