Thread 33442409

How do you fix a loser mentality that most people would find revolting? I constantly think in terms of putting someone down and have a hard time appreciating and showing gratitude for things due to this mindset.

My character is very poor and I have no friends because of it.

buy the respec and follow a guide when allocating your skill points

>>33442409 (OP)
No-one speaks of themselves in such terms, so you are an imposter and I won't read any further.

>>33442433
>No-one speaks of themselves in such terms,
How?

>>33442409 (OP)
>I constantly think in terms of putting someone down and have a hard time appreciating and showing gratitude
Stop marinading your mind in 4chan, for one thing.

>>33442648
>Stop marinading your mind in 4chan, for one thing.
I've been like this for a very long time. it's my default mode of thought at this point.

>>33442684
Then it's even more important to stop reinforcing that mindset. If you feel resistance to getting off this swamp of human misery, that should tell you something about your problem.

>>33442409 (OP)
be of service.

>>33442409 (OP)
I think developing yourself and just remembering all the little rules you learn about socializing as you go.

Bump

>>33442409 (OP)
you probably come from being pushed down.
work on yourself, learn how difficult is to get good at something.
you'll learn to appreciate the time and effort people put into something.

Embrace it.

>>33442409 (OP)
This likely is rooted in your childhood in someway. You should reflect on why you started acting this way, then start working hard to find ways of socializing that are healthy and mutually beneficial.