How true is this? I'm a 21 year old virgin and I've never had any obvious signs either

Nah

>>33451746 (OP)
Very probably. But it shouldn't concern you, even if you don't live to appease women but live for what's right.
The world rejected, the world hated Him first.

>>33451746 (OP)
im a severely shy/socially anxious woman and throughout my whole life (im 28 now) whenever I had a crush on somebody I couldnt even look in their direction and tried to avoid them completely
it got somewhat better over the years, but that is why i had only a few boyfriends
some girls might be acting in a very obvious way
but this post is demoralizing and pointless, and not even true, because if im like this, more women must be like this. besides, you shouldnt wait for signs, dating as a man seems almost impossible, you should take any chance to ask a girl out, even if there are 0 signs, otherwise you dont have a chance

>>33451746 (OP)
It seems like bait to me.

>>33451780
men and women live in completely different worlds
you can't even fathom what this post is talking about
just shut the fuck up

>>33451790
what do you fucking mean? the post states that all women give obvious signs
im telling you ive never given any kind of sign in my life
how is that something a man would know better
op, btw my first boyfriend was a shut in 21 yo virgin, we met on an online forum

>>33451790
Also bait. Kill yourself.

>>33451790
just because i was born with this extreme privilege of having a pussy im not so out of touch with reality as you think. i had a shit life, schizophrenic mum, home was an absolute mess, abusive grandparents raised me, in school i was the ugly girl and everyone bullied me quite hard, when i got home my grandma laughed at me for being such a pussy
but im sure not getting pussy is just as bad man
fuck you

>>33451746 (OP)
They're only obvious if you've learned, seen, heard, or read about them before and can now recognize them. If you're anything like me, as a dumbass 17 year old, I couldn't see shit. And some of the signs were really blatant. Lol

>>33451746 (OP)
>I have never received le signal

by the way, the guy who makes those posts made out with like 7 different women at parties
The girls who gave him plenty of signals, the girls who asked him out over datng apps, the ones who straight up asked him to be his girlfriend - he ignored and ditched them all because he was scared that he might be humiliated in one way or another.

>>33451746 (OP)
basic crab bucket demotivational thread. Yet virgins have no way of knowing if it's true or not, so its very effective.

>>33451746 (OP)
>How true is this?
It is very true- but only for women who have had extensive socializing skills/prior relationships. They would be the ones to actively open themselves up to strangers for new flings. If they're the oldschool, traditional type- they might actually be more secretive or would only let their feelings be known by letting you know. I've had both types.
>I've never had any obvious signs either
that's why there's that viral meme short video about how women give hints they want you to approach in public- they would literally only give you a quick eye-contact or a smirk. It can be as simple as being in close-proximity to you purposefully or being overly friendly in conversation.
>what is "The Three Second Rule"?
once they give you this signal or hint, you have that much time to decide to initiate an approach or reject it. Guys fuck this up and think they can come back days later to a cashier somewhere because they showed signs in the first meeting. If you get this sign, you can even get her contact info right away and stop wasting time. This is too much free game already.

>>33451780
>you should take any chance to ask a girl out, even if there are 0 signs
You cannot be serious

>>33451746 (OP)
>How true is this?
Not true at all. You've had women interested in you and didn't notice, I guarantee it.

>>33451746 (OP)
It's probably true. If they like you, they'll give you a pass for many things. You can be pretty weird or retarded to them, and it'll still be fine.

>>33451746 (OP)
I have been in situations where it was obvious and ones where I was oblivious. I think it depends heavily on the girl.

>>33451942
>they would literally only give you a quick eye-contact or a smirk.
some of them but some do more. I'm honestly 6/10 or less and have gotten sustained staring and smiling and her angling herself towards me to see if i smile at what she says

it's not all super secret and subtle

>>33452208
>If they like you, they'll give you a pass for many things. You can be pretty weird or retarded to them, and it'll still be fine.
Literally just touch them on a shoulder or elbow and see if they make you move your hand. You don't have to ask them out and you'll have an answer

>>33451746 (OP)
Not true. Girls rarely, if ever, give signals.

It is on you, the man, to initiate. I say this as an attractive guy who has bagged a fair number of girls.

>>33451746 (OP)
absolutely true. I used to imagine all sorts of signs from women, then I met this one girl at a party who was practically hanging on me, laughing at even the stupidest of my jokes, you know that friendly way that women do, and then she stuck her hand down my pants and started playing with my dick while telling me how wet she was and that's how I knew her signals weren't a figment of my imagination.

>>33451746 (OP)
wrong, and biased.
My last ex complained that I ditched her twice befre we get together. I never even realized that she was into me more than a friend. Not just me not any other who saw us at any given time. So yes. the "signs" are not always obvious.

>>33451746 (OP)
“Instantly know” i have several times been hinted by girls. But several times it has taken me months to figure out.

>>33451746 (OP)
It can be a bit of a ping pong thing. You as a guy can let her catch you checking her out, then she shows receptiveness to your interest.

A lot of incels have the problem discussed in the meme about the 'I don't desire you energy' that I can't find right now.

>>33451780
>Few boyfriends
Classic

Im too autistic for these meme 0.3 second signals.

>>33451746 (OP)
Got with a girl relatively recently for the first time. Asked me after about an hour of sex if I get with women often. Tells me she hasn't been with a guy for 4 years. Doesn't really believe me. Next date after sex again, asks the question in another roundabout way saying I haven't had sex for a while, I say 2 years again, she says its been a while.
Women just know

>>33451780
Lady, men get called disgusting pigs who only think with their dicks and who don't think in a sophisticated way like women. If us men can handle that and still have a positive attitude, you can too if we talk about women. Yes it feels off and degrading, but when you are with your friends talking about how dumb men are, it ain't that different. The only exception that we have you don't is a small tough group of the opposite gender supporting our oppositional views. Trust me if you go back to your girl friends telling them how much pigs are we won't give a fuck.

>>33452253
>I'm insecure so i need to lie on 4chan for superiority points
kek

>>33451790
basedola

idk, some women do all those obvious signals (smiling, laughing whenever you joke, touching arms, etc) and still hit you with "oh i just want to be friends" or "i have a boyfriend".

women are generally more sociable, bubbly, and friendly but there really is no guarantee they're into you until you are literally told straight up.

>>33451746 (OP)
Old fag here, it's very true. Once you hang around with an attractive guy friend you will instantly see women checking him out, it's about as obvious as it gets. It'll break you though.

Yes it's true but only from ugly women.

>>33451746 (OP)
Yeah, because when a woman really wants you, she will pursue you, not the other way around.

>>33451746 (OP)
he's talking about "the look"
girls are kinda obvious when they think you're hot/cute
even the meme about when girls just give you a little cold glance instead of actually engaging in a smile, even that is kinda obvious

>>33451780
>i had only a few boyfriends
lol cute larp