>>33452223 (OP)
>How the fuck do I stop being husband material?
You got it backwards. Husband material men actually have sex with their wives. The women stop fucking the man the minute he stops acting like husband material. Right around the time the man gets comfortable and lazy in the relationship; stops taking her on dates stops creating fun diversions to attend together, stops with the loving gestures that show thoughtfulness or effort, stops with actually getting shit done, either around the house or for the home, usually stops helping with cooking or cleaning or keeps putting off DIY/repairs. Basically when the man stops acting as captain of the ship, and the woman has to take the wheel, her pussy dries up.