Thread 33452255

>Be me
>female cousin invites me to clubbing and pays for it 50$
>Go to the place
>Wait for 3 hrs standing to be let in(we have line skip things)
>music stats, its literal noise
>Offered some drink from her friends, refuse
>take smt light and some wine
>2 female i dont know approach me while im dancing
>Asks me to show them some moves, calls me her friend, and teaches me etiquete about proper toasting dith drinks
>Female cousin sends them away because they were filming me

you have someone that cares about you being normal and is a woman. you have one shot to get this right, most people never have this opportunity. stop being obstinate. just do whatever she says you need to do, drink what she gives you, just go with the flow for 3 or 4 outings

>>33452255 (OP)
>Wait for 3 hrs standing to be let in
LOL. That is too retarded to continue reading - standing in line for 3 hours like a slave waiting for the privilege of paying for over-priced drinks in a deafening, crowded dungeon. It's over for someone that stupid.

>>33452255 (OP)
>You looked retarded
>Female cousin wants to try make you normal
>You probably looked retarded at the club too, probably as you danced
>Two NPD's are going to make their evening exciting by entertaining themselves at your expense
>Interact with you as they film your retardation
>Female cousin has your back
Nothing actually happened except an awakening. You need to address your shit. You have a cousin who's trying to help, but I would blame her equally much. You don't take an awkward retard out clubbing, that is not how you "make them normal", that is how you're "doing your part" in a superficial way and potentially causing them more trauma (as she did you).

Look into mindfulness, become more aware. When your female cousin asks you if you want to go out clubbing, ask yourself what you WANT to do. Do you want to go clubbing with her? No? Focus inward on your emotions and express yourself, "I don't want to go." When she insists, insist back, you don't want to.
Let her reveal her true colors, if she has your back for real or if she is trying to impress someone else by "fixing you".

TO KEEP IT SHORT, just look into mindfulness in order to build internal strength and stop being pushed around.

>>33452272
This anon is probably right

>>33452272
She has 20yrs more than me.
Im asking about whetever the girls were friendly or wanted to make a fool of me

>>33452255 (OP)
They thought you have special needs anon.

>>33452255 (OP)
Impossible to know what that was all about without asking the other females and your cousin. There are two sides to every story.
Maybe your cousin sent the girls away because she wanted to keep you in reserve, and the "filming" was just an excuse.
Maybe the girls are known sex offenders (or they sell time shares) and your cousin didn't tell you to avoid scaring you.
Don't give undue importance to the word "friend", strangers will often say it as a placeholder because they just don't know or remember your name.