Thread 33453972

Before I say what I say let me make it clear that I like women, both sexually, as people and as whatever else you can think of. And I did have female friends before I started isolating myself and gave in to mental illness.
However, I feel like pandora's box has been opened for me in terms of how I view women in that despite them still being people with dreams, hopes, ambitions, fears, desires etc., deep down they want to get railed and bred by male model looking mfs until their brains turn to mush and are willing to debase themselves and twist their morals just to achieve that goal.
>inb4 men are the same
I know, but somehow I always used to believe that women were our fairer, more pure, and wholesome counterpart that would counteract our savage animal ways, but no. They're essentially just men without testosterone and with a crippling and chronic anxiety disorder that can only be fixed by stuffing your holes with cock.
My specific problem is how do I cope with this information? How do I go from learning that to being a normal, socially active human again? Once you see the patterns you can't really unsee them anymore.
Anyone get advice for this?

You can get off social media and the internet in general for a while, brother.
This is a twisted an inaccurate take. 'Women' don't fit neatly into a box unless you're letting big corpos algo-feed you boxed types of women.

>>33454022
I don't have social media. I don't even go on the internet all that much anymore except for visiting this mongolian basket weaving forum once a week like a newsletter.
It's more so that this seed has been planted in my brain that I can't get rid of.
>This is a twisted an inaccurate take
I'd be inclined to disagree. I think the only reason people think women as a whole can't fit into this specific niche is because they are not all that good at hiding it/use different avenues to express their "inner slut". But it's there.

>>33453972 (OP)
The only way to cope is to find a woman who loves her father and her father loves her. Thats literally the only way. Not a fake superficial love where he doesnt care and pays for her to get gangbanged by a new fraternity every night, but actually loves her and knows how to raise a human being the right way. In my experiences, researches, travels this is just about the only criterion that matters when it comes to women. If she doesnt have that relationship with her father then she is just a sexmate, whether you know it or not...she'll let you know soon enough.

>>33454060
I mean, you guenuinely just wrote some twisted and wrong information which is making you angry, sad. The patterns you are seeing are not reflective of reality. It is not a failing to recognize this and actively nurture your thinking away from it....

>>33453972 (OP)
>until their brains turn to mush and are willing to debase themselves
learning how shallow women really are is part of growing up as a man. It is important knowledge and you will understand why women were treated like they were even through the beginnings of human history.
>How do I go from learning that to being a normal, socially active human again?
grow up, faggot. Women desire men who put them in their place, not supplicate them or put them on a pedestal. The sooner you learn this the better.
>Anyone get advice for this?
stop being a beta simp bitch nigga for one? Why do you think Tyrone gets so many chicks even though he treats them like shit? Wow- its almost like a biological imperative to do so which can be observed in the animal kingdom when it comes to mate selection. If you cannot cope with this reality, maybe you deserve not to be with women. Yes, they really are trash and shallow. The more feminine and "trained" ones know to inflate their attractiveness by being well-mannered and reserved.

>>33454137
>it's all in your head
it lines up with what I've seen irl though. In fact seeing female behavior in that light is the only way it makes sense to me. It's not like that information strips them of their personhood or anything, but you can't in good faith argue that that's not true. It's a very naïve way of thinking.
I was simply asking for ways to cope with this.
Or alternatively can you present me with a reason why what I've said is incorrect?

>>33454164
I have no trouble getting a woman to go home with me and have meaningless sex with. That's just jacking off with extra steps though. A waste of time and effort.
I'm looking for something more meaningful, but the amount of women that want the same is depressingly low.

>>33454201
Once you understand what women are, what's the appeal of being with one outside of sex? Companionship is a sham.

>>33454201
>I'm looking for something more meaningful
men look for romance in the relationship, not women. Despite what media and what your parents taught you. Yeah, its a harsh reality. Bringing her flowers and buying her dinners? Why? When they sleep with a homeless bum who hasn't taken a shower on the first meeting. So where does that place you?
>but the amount of women that want the same is depressingly low.
yeah no shit. Why do you think it even says in ancient documents from past societies that finding a worthy woman is incredibly difficult? Plenty of trash out there. But it wont help your case if you are too nice- you'll just get used by these manipulative women. Talk to enough and even they'll tell you most just want to get off just like men.

>>33454170
sure
"., deep down they want to get railed and bred by male model looking mfs until their brains turn to mush and are willing to debase themselves and twist their morals just to achieve that goal."
This is just throwing a huge blanket over 'women' I am sure women like this exist out there but if you really believe this statement is accurate then I have good news for you

its not


also this "They're essentially just men without testosterone and with a crippling and chronic anxiety disorder that can only be fixed by stuffing your holes with cock."

Is a twisted take. I personally don't know any women that manage their chronic anxiety with cock.

You're stuck in a cycle of wrong think, my friend.

>>33454205
If companionship means nothing, then why bother with sex? You can just jerk it crazy style and probably get even more dopamine than if you were to go out of your way to deal with whatever you have to deal with to get a woman to come back to your place.
This is melanin-coded, low IQ, hedonistic pleasure seeking behavior that I have 0 interest in.

>>33453972 (OP)
How do you cope?
Stuff thier holes with cock.

>>33454219
>what you said is not true because...IT'S JUST NOT, OK???
ok
>I personally don't know any women that manage their chronic anxiety with cock.
then you don't know a lot of women, which is why I said it's a very naive world view to have.

>>33454236
see>>33454201

>>33454243
I noticed a lot of your quotes have been re-written to paraphrase inaccurately. Perhaps take this as a clear signal that you are not addressing reality, but rather you are addressing your twisted(read: inaccurately and negatively changed) view of it

>>33454275
that's what you said though? All you sated is that not *all* women are like that and that what I said was wrong.
How am I misquoting you?

>>33454297
Alright listen I'm not that guy you were going back and forth with but it's clear that you have your mind set on this view of women.

And you asked for advice on how to cope with this information so that you can be a "normal, socially active human again?"

I'll bite.
I too am a guy with not a lot of success with women. I've been single for a year and not for a lack of trying. It's very easy for me to get jealous because women do get to pick, they have such an easy time when it comes to getting guys and love and relationships and affection and care, it's a totally different life and organism I agree, but being jealous isn't doing me any favors. Doing something about it to level myself with the ladies is the only thing that will land me a lady. So. My advice is the cliche meme of - work on yourself physically and mentally to be the best version of you, so that hopefully you get ladies but EVEN IF YOU DON'T - you're still better off than gaming and cooking and browsing 4chan. And I'll also say -
If THIS is the piece of info that stops you from being a normal - you're just making excuses. If you truly believe this fact is fact - then it's a fact, and you can't control this fact, you can only control your own actions. So please do yourself a favor and be a better person, for you!! For your own mental and physical well being. That's what I'm trying to do too and I sincerely hope you succeed anon

>>33454297
I mean, altering what I wrote in your own reply DOES give me a clearer picture of what you're /understanding/. But you're simplifying and twisting what was written.

You asked for help coping with an unbearable reality. The help I can offer is that your reality is unbearable because it is inaccurate. Change the way you are thinking, assume the best of people unless proven otherwise. Get off the internet and heal your brain with healthy relationships.

No.33454364 has good advice. Work on you, get out of the algo gutters. I have no idea where you found the vid you posted but you don't come across shit like that unless you are up to your neck in the shiternet.

>>33454060
And how is this any different to saying that all men (no matter if they disguise or shy away from it via meaning, self-imposed ethics, abstinence, power, etc.) are shallow beings fundamentally driven by lust and male insecurity. Not that it strips them of personhood or anything.

>>33454364
Projection. But I never said anything against self improvement. That's a given at this point.
>>33454419
>The help I can offer is that your reality is unbearable because it is inaccurate
>"Water is wet, how do I cope with it?"
>"Ok then simply stop thinking that the water is wet. Problem solved"
??
>assume the best of people unless proven otherwise
That's how you get played/conned/scammed thoughbeit.
My point is that even if I were to socialize again, it's not like what I came to realize suddenly becomes untrue. Unlike most anons here I have my fair share of actual irl reference points, not all of my knowledge comes from the internet. And when put in the light I described in my OP it perfectly lines up, idk what to tell you.
>>33454436
They're not. I said that in my OP too. It's just depressing to think that the yin-and-yang idea of completing each other is untrue and that women are the same irratioinal, retarded, impulsive, self-serving animals like us with maybe a hint of bitterness about how easy they have it to fulfill those animalistic needs.

>>33453972 (OP)
The end of this webm was priceless

>>33454585
Alright this is my last reply because its clear you're not interested in 'coping' or thinking critically about where you are.

Changing other people's statements into something different and then arguing against your own twisted interpretation of that statement is a \clear\ sign you are not thinking stright.

The grim view of women you posted is depressing and incorrect. I hope you can grow out of it some day but it will take uncomfortable effort on your part.

>>33454631
You keep saying what I said is wrong, but never why that is.
I could also say that whatever you think is inaccurate and never provide an explanation as to why and just keep saying that you need to touch grass.

>>33453972 (OP)
>deep down they want to get railed and bred by male model looking mfs until their brains turn to mush and are willing to debase themselves and twist their morals just to achieve that goal.
You're describing whores and bitches. Not women. You're taking a sampling of the loudest bitches in existence and applying that to every woman. You've made a huge error here.
>I know, but somehow I always used to believe that women were our fairer, more pure, and wholesome counterpart that would counteract our savage animal ways
That was always a lie. Women can be just as animalistic, depraved, and degenerate as men. Honestly, they have the potential to be much much worse. But don't be misguided by a seemingly contradictory stance from my first point. Women have the *potential* to be that. But not every woman is anywhere near that in reality. But again, however, the *potential* is there based on morals, past experiences, upbringing, etc.
>They're essentially just men without testosterone and with a crippling and chronic anxiety disorder that can only be fixed by stuffing your holes with cock.
Again, you're taking the subset of massive whores who are loud on social media and applying that to everyone. Fucking stop that, lol.
>How do I go from learning that to being a normal, socially active human again?
Get the fuck out of your house. Do the shit you were into *before* you went full retard. Go back to experiencing *real* life and stop watching your smartphone or television screen which is only a half-assed representation of what life is actually like. Stop feeding into the psyop which is "humanity is unsalvagable. Look at how all our women are whores!111!!!!1"
>Once you see the patterns you can't really unsee them anymore.
No nigger. It's "once you've created a false feedback loop of piling bullshit logic on top of even more bullshit logic, it's hard to undo all the bullshit I keep projecting."

>>33454884
Continued

Life is literally what you make it. It's based on your own assumptions and projections. It's kind of like how when you or someone you know gets a new car and all of a sudden you start seeing that same car everywhere? You're not seeing them any more than you did before. Your mind is just filtering for that particular variable. Likewise when you keep feeding yourself with "all women are whores" or whatever other topic you like, you see it everywhere.

I know that there are a lot of whores out there. I also know that finding genuine women is becoming rarer. But I don't have your problems because I (and I know this is gonna sound super simplistic) literally choose to ignore it. Whores are invisible to me, irl. I know how to vet women. I know how to read them and determine their value. I also know my own value and don't waste my time. So despite the seeming "sea of whores" i've dealt with nothing but high quality and genuine women. I keep track of but don't get engulfed in politics because it's fake and gay. I keep track of but don't get engulfed in "modern women" and "redpill" shit because while some principles are true, I know I'm finding what I want in life, women and otherwise, so it really doesn't matter. If you have your own mind and life set straight, none of the external shit you're quibbing on about matters.

>>33453972 (OP)
>with a crippling and chronic anxiety disorder that can only be fixed by stuffing your holes with cock.
Yeah. Ain't it great?

>>33454060
>I don't have social media
What site do you think you're on. Where do you think your video came from.

>>33456118
You know what the fuck he meant.

>>33453972 (OP)
>my specific problem is how do I cope with this information?
Find better information to focus on. Find better values. Read a book. You can even like women like this by having them as friends (maybe with common values) or having sex with them without any attachment.

>>33453972 (OP)
>deep down they want to get railed and bred by male model looking mfs until their brains turn to mush and are willing to debase themselves and twist their morals just to achieve that goal.
I mean, to the same extent that you want to rail super hot big tit swimsuit model chicks. And obviously this is to a different extent per person. You've been spending to long watching doomer demoralization shit online that just shows the worst in people.

>>33456517
Implying 4chan is not toxic & distorted social media.

Before I say what I say let me make it clear that I like men, both sexually, as people and as whatever else you can think of. And I did have male friends before I started isolating myself and gave in to mental illness.
However, I feel like pandora's box has been opened for me in terms of how I view men in that despite them still being people with dreams, hopes, ambitions, fears, desires etc., deep down they want to rape and breed female model looking mfs until their brains turn to mush and are willing to debase themselves and twist their morals just to achieve that goal.
>inb4 women are the same
I know, but somehow I always used to believe that men were our fairer, more pure, and wholesome counterpart that would counteract our savage animal ways, but no. They're essentially just women without estrogen and with a crippling and chronic rape disorder that can only be fixed by stuffing cock into underage holes.
My specific problem is how do I cope with this information? How do I go from learning that to being a normal, socially active human again? Once you see the patterns you can't really unsee them anymore.
Anyone get advice for this?

>>33457182
gold