Thread 33458935

How do I cope with being a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 29 years old, despite doing everything in my power to avoid this fate?

>>33458935 (OP)
Play video games
Do BJJ
Bodybuild

By knowing that you'll be a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 30 years old

>>33458935 (OP)
>posting this thread again
it was established, by you, in your last thread that you are not kissless at all, several girls have been intimate/sexual with you and have straight up asked you to be their gf and/or go out on dates.

https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/33419261/#33419261

You expect women to come over and make out with you when they're sober, and you refuse to flirt with them and go on dates.

You've done very little to avoid this fate, practically nothing at all. In fact you've constantly sabotaged yourself at every possible opportunity.

>>33459219
I am kissless.

And all I want is for a woman to express clear and obvious romantic interest in me. That hasn’t happened yet. Is that too much to ask for?

>>33458935 (OP)
>despite doing everything in my power to avoid this fate
This mentality is exactly why "incels" stay incels. Compared to your average man, you have done fuck all to "avoid this fate". It's so fucking easy to get laid its stupid. Sure you might not able to pull 10s but 99% of guys can't. Doesn't mean you can't land a hot 7. I have known so many guys that, by incel logic, should not be able to get a girlfriend. Fat, ugly, stupid, boring, poor, uneducated, the list goes on. And yet these people continue to fuck. And you don't. And you honestly think it isn't your fault. As long as you are blameless you will NEVER evolve.

>>33459551
I can’t land “a 7”. I couldn’t even land “a 2”.

Trust me, if I could, I would. But literally no women in my entire life have ever expressed romantic interest in me. So I have no options.

>>33459569
Yep you're a lost cause. Sorry not wasting my time.

>>33459582
Why though? Literally what did I even do wrong??

>>33459589
I already told you. You disagreed with my fact meaning arguing is pointless as you aren't ready to open up to change yet. You're still at the denial stage

>>33459589
A man looks at his actions, sees his mistakes and plans out how to correct them in the future.

A child looks at his actions and sees no mistakes. He thinks everyone else is to blame. Instead of plan, he just cries all day about how unfair it is.

Which one are you?

>>33459536
>>33459569
This is the core of your problem.

You're waiting on a woman to more or less come after your or clearly signal she wants you because you're too scared to mak a first move.

It will never happen. Ever. Give up on that idea entirely as soon as you can.

>I've done everything in my power to avoid it
Really?
Are you going to bars 5/7 nights a week, approaching women, asking for their numbers regardless of how they "signal" you? Are you going to churches every Sunday to scout out the congregation and try to talk to those women?
Are you going to local meet up events, singles events, festivals, parties, every week and again, actually going up to, making the FIRST MOVE, and asking women out? Are you on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge/PoF/OKC swiping and chatting daily for months at a time?

If not no you're not doing everything, you're probably in fact doing nothing. You have a core misunderstanding of how getting a girl works.

You think: meet girl > girl shows me she likes me somehow > now I have the go ahead to ask her out or engage.
That's not how it works

Try: meet girl > ask her out> go on dates > flirt and get to know her > kiss her >then see if she likes you.

Problem solved. A woman is not going to signal shit, or say shit to you, or show in any way she likes you until you actually have some balls and make moves on her

>>33458935 (OP)
do you understand what the word COPE means?
do you want to solve the problem or do you want to just COPE?

>>33458935 (OP)
>doing everything in my power
have you anon? have you really?

>>33458935 (OP)
I'm probably heading the same way, tell me if you get superpowers once you hit 30, okay?

>>33459536
>And all I want is for a woman to express clear and obvious romantic interest in me. That hasn’t happened yet. Is that too much to ask for?
YES you fucking faggot, that unironically IS too much to ask for because that's not how any of this works. God you're pathetic.

>>33458935 (OP)
>How do I cope with being a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 29 years old, despite doing everything in my power to avoid this fate?
Genshin Impact
https://genshin.hoyoverse.com/en/

>>33459627
>>33460692
Sorry, but I refuse to play nonsensical games to get sex. Ideally we should be fucking the same day we meet. I won't put up with it.

>>33460810
And there it is. You don't want the same basic treatment every other guy gets, you want VIP treatment. And think it's some great injustice if you don't get it.
Well it's not.

>>33460847
How would it not be an injustice? I have to do 10x the work for a worse reward?

>>33459536
You've kissed like 5 women by your own admission

>And all I want is for a woman to express clear and obvious romantic interest in me. That hasn’t happened yet. Is that too much to ask for?
It has already happened, multiple times, and each time you ignored them.