>>33460840 (OP)
Define "getting owned".
If you started some shit but got beaten, then you deserve the humiliation. Either get the skills to back up your bravado or check your ego.
I don't play sports. Will you ever see me talking shit and acting like I'm amazing at football? No, because I'm not. If someone tells me they're better than me at it, I'll say "yeah probably", I don't really care because it isn't my chosen skill. But I will talk trash at certain vidya or verbal jousting because I'm actually good at it and have the skills to back it up. And if I do get rekt then I just acknowledge they're better than me and learn from the defeat. Getting super assblasted is immature. You should always seek to learn from your betters. And someone is always going to be better than you, so just get over that.