Thread 33464282

Should I text her?
>had a crush on girl for years
>told her this
>didn't really reject me but told me she had a boyfriend and so couldn't date me
>tried hard to simply stay friends
>eventually she opened up enough to send nudes gave me a handjob
>treated me like a side ho
>i still wanted more of an actual relationship
>long story short I felt if I couldn't respect her wishes I should go
she told me she was okay with my feelings but I didn't like how I was acting
>ignore her texts for a month or two before sending one last telling her I never want to see her again
Its been maybe 7 months since I talked to her. She probably isn't even thinking about me but I miss her. Should I reach out?

>>33464282 (OP)
For the love of God no. Block her on everything and get the fuck over this slut holy shit

You gotta move on, bro. She never liked you romantically, and she never will. Don't let oneitis get the best of you. Don't spend your effort chasing someone who isn't reciprocating.

>>33464282 (OP)
Absolutely not. Block her on everything. Also, if she was giving you handjobs and sending you nudes when she was in a relationship, she'll be doing the same with you to someone else. She belongs to the streets, my nigga.

>>33464282 (OP)
A woman won't date you but sends you nudes.

This is not the world I live in.

>>33464282 (OP)
that's the worst textual exchange to a 0/10 wife material I've ever seen

>>33464282 (OP)
>>eventually she opened up enough to send nudes gave me a handjob
>>treated me like a side ho
Treat her too. She is not serious at all and keep you as orbiter. occasionly your trajectory get close enough to mess up but never will be lose enough to catch her gravity. Good for fun but nothing more.

>>33464282 (OP)
No, she doesn't like you. She's lame.

>>33464282 (OP)
She wants to keep you close by as a backup but she won't actively choose you

>>33464725
At least she seems to be flirting back

>>33464282 (OP)
>didn't really reject me but told me she had a boyfriend and so couldn't date me
That's a rejection, idiot. Leave the poor girl alone.

>you're too fantastic and gorgeous to be alone
bro...

Bump

>>33464282 (OP)
Kek

This is one of the worst things I've seen here that I actually thought wasn't a troll.

Seriously anon, this is pathetic. Stop complimenting people that treat you like dog shit.

Amd like others said, if she did sexual things with you while she had a bf, then she would do the same with others even if you had her. It's not worth it even if she chose you.

Guys. I appreciate the advice. I do. But I've been do lonely without her. I think i want to at least talk to her even if it doesn't bloom into anything more

>>33464282 (OP)
I understand why when she said she didnt want to be lonely you didnt ask her to come over or hang out. That isnt even game or anything, its just common sense if you liked her.

>>33464282 (OP)
So she cheated on her partner with you? What exactly makes you think she won't do the same to you? Massive red flag here OP. Don't let your feelings get you into a terrible situation. Wolf in sheep's clothing.

>>33467548
Have you considered meeting other women?

>>33464282 (OP)
>"not to simp"
Dear Heavens, OP. And I thought I was bad.

>>33464282 (OP)
>Should I text her?
No
>treated me like a side ho
You were.
>She probably isn't even thinking about me but I miss her.
Probably True.
>Should I reach out?
No. You should move on. You made the right decision in distancing yourself. The way you were acting was not reasonable nor healthy. You're expecting more and acting as if it's possible when it's clear she's not gonna break up with her boyfriend. Said another way, and no offense: it was not worth it to leave him for just you. This is the same exact thing that women who are side hoes go through, thinking the man is gonna dump his main. He never does. And she, in your case, never will.

You've got to work on your self confidence. You've got to realize that there are literally millions of women out there. If you can get one, you can get many. You've clearly got enough game to not get friendzoned which is way better than most. She sent nudes and gave you a handjob. (things that promiscuous women don't consider cheating unless YOU'RE the one getting them behind their back). You need to make connections with other, available women. You have the skills. You just keep replaying memories of this chick like she's the only one to ever walk the face of the earth. You need to make good on your words and move on.

>>tried hard to simply stay friends
>>eventually she opened up enough to send nudes gave me a handjob
>>she already had a boyfriend
You cannot trust these hoes man, you just can't.

>>33467592
I've known her longer than the guys she dated. (She broke up with one and I thought I would have my chance but this was before I told her how I felt so she moved on)

Dubs and you have to tell her to go fuck herself

>>33469527
Re roll

>>33468542
To be fair these days a woman who leads a guy on doesn't go as far as the one in OP. And thats what I feel was happening. She was stringing OP along while milking her boyfriend. I'm just surprised at the sexuality. On a scale? A handjob is like an 8. The most you hear of is a kiss which is like a 6.

>>33468574
I have never been able to trust women after I had sex with a married woman a decade ago. I wish I had never done it. It just did myself harm.

>>33471619
>To be fair these days a woman who leads a guy on doesn't go as far as the one in OP
Yeah, but the only problem is he wanted something more and she never indicated that would ever happen. He was running on hopes and dreams, meanwhile the girl is just cheating. If he saw it as a semi fwb situation, it would be fine. But I hold that OP did this to himself. She never once said she'd break up.
>>33471629
>I have never been able to trust women after I had sex with a married woman a decade ago.
It's called vetting. It's on the man to validate why the woman is with him to begin with. And it's also on him to not be a goofy "happy wife happy life" pedestalizing simp. He needs to have life goals and a backbone. If you do those two things, it's pretty hard to end up in a situation like that. Because you're starting with a woman who's genuinely into you and you're not sacrificing your masculinity and attractiveness to "do what she wants" even though that exact thing makes them lose complete respect for you. You have to know: most women don't cheat...

>>33471629
No one wins in modern dating. The incel is bitter that he can't get any action, and the "winners" become cynical when they see how women will go through lengths to cheat on their boyfriends / husbands just to be with a more attractive male

You know what? Fuck it. I'm texting her. I will update whenever she responds if the thread is still up. The worse she can do is ignore me.

>>33471629
>deliberately seeks out whores
>starts to think all women are like the subset of garbage he specifically chose to associate with
Retard

Well I texted her. Its her Birthday so I sent her a cashapp.
I said "I miss you. Sorry for being an asshole. Can we still be friends?"
She says "Its been a long time since we've talked. Thanks for the Birthday money. We're still friends."

>>33473790
You think that married man sought out a whore, or ended up with one?

>>33476085
You could've paid her onlyfans

>>33476430
Sadly she doesn't accept that as a valid form of work.

>>33464282 (OP)
>>33464282 (OP)
I wanna say there's a 100% chance this is bait, but OP could be in college and I made a similar mistake during my freshmen year. If a girl is treating you like a side piece and cheating on her current bf with you, run away and never look back. if you're young it's probably exciting to have a girl care about you for once, but you don't realize in the moment that you are completely debasing yourself by ignoring how shitty she's treating you. just because she sends heart emojis and shows you physical affection does not mean she actually cares about you. there are plenty of decent women out there just be patient

Do women naturally lead on weak men?

>>33464282 (OP)
>not to simp

>>33464282 (OP)
Send me the nudes please

Discord: svenkuong

Fuck

>>33476085
this has to be the biggest larp ever, i refuse to believe this thread is real

is this print real? no, like, for real, is this OP or a meme? I´m asking for real, please. Reply me urgent.

>>33481696
>>33478500
>>33466479
I don't understand why this seems like a troll. Is it because its a screenshot? I didn't see any similar threads on ifunny or Reddit. Is it that someone here is talking to a woman? Oddly 4chan has seen an uptick in people who aren't virgins. So whats wrong?

>>33482773
its because its like a parody of a clueless simp cuck, but i believe its true, sadly

What did OP do wrong?

>>33464282 (OP)
If this is actually your texts, youre a fucking simp, a faggot and a redditor. Omg you guys nowadays are such fucking pussies, no wonder youre simping over some whore, fucking weak pathetic fucker

>>33485305
Lets see your texts, friend.

>>33464282 (OP)
>>33485276
>>had a crush on girl for years
>>told her this
and it was over, the end.

It's amazing that kids (20something year olds) still do this ultimate cringe move of emotional dumping all over a girl before you've even gone on a first date

and then all that "you won't never be lonely you are far too gorgeous and and fantastique~"
bro is texting her like he's trying to put a ring on it, go on a fuckin date first.

>>33464282 (OP)
>>eventually she opened up enough to send nudes gave me a handjob
>>treated me like a side ho
lucky boy

>>33464282 (OP)
Post her nudes

>>33464282 (OP)
dude why not tell her boyfriend this shit? jesus christ what a hoe LMAOOO

>>33464282 (OP)
you are putting in much more effort than she is bro, have some dignity and give it up already

>>33486519
Would you tell Jesus to give up on Mary Magdelane?

>>33479000
Yes. This should be obvious, if you look around even a little bit.

>>33479000
You can literally meet a woman and have no attraction to her and you get on like a house on fire. But that woman will use you like an atm if you let her.

>>33487141
well no but is she mary magdelane or are you just lonely?

>>33487501
Why not both? I mean look at this thread. Everyone is telling me its a bad idea. I have friends in real life and they say the same. She doesn't have friends I mean she keeps to herself. Us getting to know each other was chance. But I like her. Someone like that is perfect for me.

>>33487938
>She doesn't have friends I mean she keeps to herself.
that's her problem, it sounds like she keeps people at arm's length and you're no exception. i mean yeah you can keep torturing yourself and idealizing her but it's not gonna work out for you.

>>33464282 (OP)
>chasing a girl for commitment
The most cucked shit imaginable. Let her go. I’m not anti monogamy, but chasing a girl around saying “please, please I don’t want to sleep with anyone else” is pathetic. Become powerful.

>>33489542
This. Life isn't a movie or a fairy tale. You can't court women and I daresay that was never a thing. Its always been men settling or women shooting for the most attractive/wealthiest man

i asked when the last time she had sex was. She said it was fairly recent. I told her I hadn't had sex since last September.

This is becoming a disaster. I should have listened to you /adv/. I'm so mad I could punch a whole drywall factory.

>>33468574
I felt depressed and demoralized by reading this crap, really. I can't take it anymore. Is it too much to ask for honesty in this flawed world? So frustrating.

>>33492140
So cucked I can see horns

>>33492140
>sneaky link
>women who openly talk about hookups and fwbs
aside from everything else this should be the nail in the coffin and hopefully an important lesson for you.

>>33494029
This is how people who aren't terminally online are. This is what they do.

>>33494532
there are normies with values and morals believe it or not, don't be so prejudiced

>>33495126
Spoken like someone who's never seen a female co-worker. They will casually say they've hooked up with a male co-worker. This shit happens so often...

>>33464282 (OP)
You're a faggot.

>>33464381
Yeah this exactly. I also don't think it's realistic to keep messing with her and not take her serious

>>33495787
Yeah can you imagine talking to a woman? Real gay behavior.

>>33496691
Not for talking to her. For acting like a fucking simp.