Thread 33471669

Is life really that different if you look beautiful?

>>33471669 (OP)
It's worse.

>>33471680
and in either case it's because men who are attracted to you won't take a hint

>>33471669 (OP)
Not really.

>>33471669 (OP)
Being attractive man has its perks but I decided to use my brain to my advantage instead because getting by on looks is for women and faggots.

>>33471669 (OP) (OP)
Being an attractive man has its perks but I decided to use my brain to my advantage instead because getting by on looks is for women and faggots.

>>33471827
Yes I realize I failed to use my brain to correct a grammatical error and make a clean repost but that's okay. Everything is fine. I am not on the cusp of a mental breakdown.

>>33471669 (OP)
Yes. I was really fat, like so fat that my face was really puffy, and I was basically invisible to women.

Lost a bunch of weight, gained a bunch of muscle, and it's like I'm living in a completely different world. Women just kind of end up near you and in your life. I'm talking to 3 different girls right now, I don't even really know how it happened, it just did. But for the first time in my life they are making effort in the conversation and chasing after me, which never happened before.

I am starting to understand why a lot of people don't understand incels. It's obvious why women don't understand them, but for men who are decent looking, they don't really have to do much to end up with girls, so they can't understand how incels can't get girls.

>>33471904
They don't understand BC they are retarded. It's not hard to use some basic cognitive empathy to imagine an incel's plight

And it's different with perks, like the other anon said
But hedonic treadmill or whatever, living experience is just same anyway in the end, equilibrium by the end
But people like to overdramatise

>>33471904
>When I was really fat women never thought I was attractive, but now that I'm not they do
no fucking shit, really?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
How old are you now?
How old were you when you lost the wight?

>>33474955
>no fucking shit, really?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
lol I phrased it that way to explain that I've been on both sides of the aisle. I was 29 when I started losing weight, I'm 32 now. So that's 3 years of lifting weights and getting shredded

People commonly think I'm in my mid 20's and then get genuinely surprised when they find out my real age. Also I work in a Big Tech company which is filled with young people fresh out of college, and they all think I'm only a few years older than them - I never corrected them

>>33471904
Im in your shoes, how do I stop being jaded as fuck towards people knowing that they didn't like me back then? It makes me want to isolate or "get back" at the world by just using them.

>>33471904
Can confirm.
Got surgery. Way easier than before.

>>33471669 (OP)
yes. You live life on easy mode.

>>33471669 (OP)
Life is beautiful if you are different.