Thread 33474668

So a year ago I dated this woman who was perfect for me in everything but one way (she wanted me to be confident and I lacked that). But now I’m medicated on antidepressants and I feel like I should try again. Thing is that she fully moved on and is married. And I don’t feel like can fully approach her about it. I’m not in a place to provide like her like I used to. But at this rate I’m worried that when I am, I’d get the obvious no and keep going. I’ve been trying a lot of things from focusing on me to trying to see other people. I need suggestions.

>>33474668 (OP)
Best I can do is stop thinking about her
It strengthens neural patterns of her and feelings for her
Not telling you to forget, but let it go. Maybe you're gonna end up alone, sad but true.
Dating someone else just to forget is statistically not working
YOU CAN DO IT CHAMP!

Best I can do

I choose you over all else, as you choose me over all else. No doubts Maria. Everything and everyone else is outside of us. Let's let go of everything that tries to push us apart.

>>33474668 (OP)
Christ, I hope this is bait. Anon, if she's married then back the fuck off. /thread

>>33474668 (OP)
She's married, dipshit. It's over. Even if you stole her back, do you want to be with a woman who is unfaithful? No, you don't. Also, getting married within a year of a breakup is wild. She either barely cared about your, or was desperate to get married and just jumped into this thing with this guy, which is also a bad sign. All of this is bad, all outcomes are bad.

Best you could hope for is she gets a divorce before they have any kids and uses you as her backup. In the meantime, try to move on and find someone else. Yeah yeah, I know it sucks and isn't what you want, but that's life. We fail, we miss opportunities, we fix things way too late. Move through the pain and salvage what you can.

More empty words. I trust you and know you over that

>>33474668 (OP)
I won't read yet another how to move on thread. A human would simply turn his attention to something else, but OP, being a subhuman moron devoid of agency, is blown about by random impressions. There is nothing that can be done about this other than euthanasia.

>>33475753
Jeez, I won't read guy, you evolved into a real jerk.

>perfect
>dated her one year ago
>now married