Thread 33475765

Yesterday I went on 2nd date with girl I met at local festival like 11 days ago. Basically it all went chill and when we came to talking about former relationships she told me 5 years ago she had boyfriend who was into swingers.
So she attended those swinger parties about dozen times and tried combos like female only orgy, foursome with 3 guys etc. Of course now that she's 30 she's talking about hoping to get serious and orient towards family building. I'm 32 and also looking something serious.
She cute and all but I'd like to know if you guys think she might be serious relationship material and should I continue with her?

she's the best you'll get anyway

>>33475765 (OP)
>if you guys think she might be serious relationship material and should I continue with her?
Hell no anon, her past just shows she has no morals, self worth, or standards especially if she does not appear to regret it. If you yourself had any dignity you would walk away, you've only had two dates and she's already sharing stuff like that who knows what else she has done. Additionally, people don't get into that kinda stuff unless they've got serious issues or are degenerates without any moral compass, if you stick around (which no one would recommend) you'll see the numerous red flags over time.

>>33475765 (OP)
Don't even think about it

Keep her as sex partner. Don't commit

If you love her then why does it matter?

I started dating a woman that I'd seen at Sheri's Ranch multiple times beforehand and we're still together three years later.

>>33475765 (OP)
I won't read yet another is this normal thread posted by some formulaic, autistic moron who needs a guidebook to wipe his ass.

>>33475765 (OP)
Here's the hard truth. She is absolutely whore and a slut, she was in the past, and likely will be in the future.
HOWEVER, it is up to you to decide whether that is a deal breaker or not. Believe it or not, for some people it actually isn't surprisingly enough. Sex, and someone's sexual history, arent the end all be all of any real relationship. Maybe you decide to date her for a bit and figure she is worth it despite this flaw, that's fine, maybe her other traits outweigh this one. Nobody is perfect after all. But on the other hand, you have other considerations to make, for example does she have any STDs? That is a big deal breaker for me. I wouldn't mind if a woman has a bodycount, as i am not a virgin myself, but STDs are a huge no no for me personally.

I don't know why others think this is fake, shit happened to me with a girl too 8 years ago, bitch was actually PAYING MONEY for swinger club membership (imagine being a woman, being taken advantage of like a prostitute and willingly pay money). I lost all respect for her the moment she told me this. I mean I would have more respect if she were an actual prostitute, but paying money for sex is a women is beyond retarded.

As for OP, I have no advice at all, I married a woman who had only one partner before me, she has low libido and we have sex once every few months but she would never cheat on me.

Consider the pros and cons.

+ She was honest with about her past, and honesty is a huge part of a functional relationship.
+ Sexual depravity isn't a mystery to her. She won't wake up 4 years from now wondering "what if..."
+ If you ever get bored with each other, you have an option for novelty
+ She's expressed interest in building a family, which makes her more sane than 50% of modern women

- She has low standards
- If you start a family, you'll always wonder if the kids are yours
- You'll have to live with knowing she's been run through by several trains
- She might, at a later time, want to get back into the life style, but you might not want to

Also consider, what was it about that previous relationship that caused it to end? Was that scene unique to that one guy? Did she express interest in return to that lifestyle? Are you ok with that?

>>33475765 (OP)
>another frog thread on /adv/
haha, very interesting. I'll get right back to you soon

>>33475765 (OP)
>girl I met at local festival
what did you expect