Thread 33476207

(23 M), i've been talking to this cute girl who's studying in a neighbouring country. We text a lot and seem to have a lot in common but i can't help but feel like i might lose her. We've been texting for close to 6 months now. My main concern is should i tell her i love her or is it too soon? Help a brother out will you?

In general, it seems like it's a bad idea to tell her over text. I confided this to a close friend and he said she might be waiting for me to say something. I also don't know what signs show she wants me to say it.

>>33476207 (OP)
Fee fie foe fum, I smell the blood of British scum.

>>33476207 (OP)
Instead of confessing love for soneone you've never actually met, why don't you arrange a trip to visit her and tell her in person. It will also be easier on person to gauge whether she feels the same romantic feelings towards you

>>33476235
I can't teavel cus i'm at school too. We are planning to meet in December

>>33476261
I would recommend waiting until December

>>33476207 (OP)
>another frog thread on /adv/
yeah idk maybe just masturbate or whatever. Go get her, champ

>>33476301
Ok
>>33476323
Kek

people are going to reply to this thread not knowing it's just lee-bait. sad

>>33476207 (OP)
you're talking to an old man

>>33476207 (OP)
>should i tell her i love her
That is a recipe for disaster, you don't love her you love the idea of her.

You don't know how she is when she's not online, you don't know her true self, only the version of her she likes to show you.

Just ask her on a date, take things from there. Imagine you're a girl online you think you've found a cool friend to share stuff with, six months in they confess they've been in love with you the entire time and now you just feel like they've been talking to you not because they're your friend but because they want to get in your pants.

>>33476207 (OP)
>LDR
No such thing, and OP is delusional.

Why's everyone saying it's fake? I genuinely need help.

>>33476500
Lol, i highly doubt it. We've done audio and video calls and she's a real girl
>>33476518
Thanks anon, you're right. I should wait until we meet

>>33476207 (OP)
Why have you not switched to online face time?

>>33476641
the last time a girl I texted started sending lovey emojis and telling me when she's showering and going to bed she was in to me.

How far away is she anon, plan a weekend break together, if she jumps at the opportunity you're in the money. If she hesitates or makes up some sort of excuse then cut your loses.

have fun anon

>>33476717
>how far away is she
Very. We've agreed to meet in December and she's enthusiastic.

>>33476831
Well, that’s a good sign but don't over hype yourself, let the situation come natural and don't overthink anything.
Thinking about it 24/7 until December will almost guarantee you'll be disappointed with the outcome

>>33476841
I intend too. I don't think about it too much honestly. We just chat everyday about other things. Any tips on how to ensure there's a spark before we meet?

>>33476879
>Any tips on how to ensure there's a spark before we meet?

response time for messages, context of messages

If she responds fast and with a good reply and not one word things, closer to the date of meeting up. Context of messages is a good indication, asking about you, how you are, your feelings etc. If she says she's going for a shower/sends you photos of her in the bath/shower or in a towel afterward, if she is wanting to spend all her time with you. If she pays attention to what you say and engages with what you say more than just oh that is nice. Humans in general are very self centred beings, if someone is willing to learn about you, put time in to asking you things etc they're more likely to be in to you. Some people are just like that though so be careful she's not like this with everyone she meets.

You can drop subtle hints, also you need to pay attention to her, what she says etc and ask her about it later on. When you're actually with her IRL make strong eye contact with her, if she reciprocates then it's also a good sign but don't take it as 100% some people are shy when they meet irl for the first time.

Make some jokes about taking her out for a nice date when you're together, then actually go through with it and ask her out for reals, something like that. If she's super engaged with you and wants to do so many things together it is a good sign, take her to a theme park with rides etc, sharing strong emotions like adrenalin and being scared etc together with someone strengthens bonds with that person you're sharing the experience with. Just make sure to share some unique experiences, make sure to do stuff she likes without her saying directly and then say to her you though she'd like it.

sorry for rambling.

>>33476946
Thanks anon. Generally, she responds pretty quickly to my messages unless she's at school. She's shared pics of her place and her at school too. I haven't tried asking for pics of her after a shower, lol. That seems a bit much

>>33477237
>I haven't tried asking for pics of her after a shower, lol. That seems a bit much

I didn't mean ask her for the pictures, but if she's sending or telling you about going for showers/baths she's in to you for sure.

>>33477253
Neat, she's told me a couple of times and i've flirted with her saying we should shower together

>>33477739
Brother I've just let go of a girl because once again it's just some user who finds comfort in finding online relationships, making them all think they are the only one, and discarding whenever comfortable. All just so they can feel alive.

Fuck online relationships. But if I had to give you advice - if she seems real, go meet her asap that's the only chance

>>33478025
Ok