Thread 33476997

>femanon
>lonely because of social anxiety
>meet my bf
>my first bf
>he's gentle, caring, and shares my views on everything
>I want to marry him and have kids
>he says he wants the same
yesterday
>he tells me that if he dies, I should be able to move on
>start crying like crazy, ask him why he's saying that
>"just something I thought about"
>can't get it out of my head now
He's the most precious person I've ever met, but now I'm stuck obsessing over the idea that he might leave or die. I just want to stop thinking about it. I was already anxious about losing him because he's too good to be true, and now it's only gotten worse.

>>33476997 (OP)
woman are born to suffer.

>>33476997 (OP)
I wish I had women's problems

>Have problem
>stop caring
>problem gone
99% of women's issues are solved like this.

>>33477572
Holy shit, this
Women's lives are so easy that they have to invent problems in their heads just to have artificial drama in their lives.

>>33477572
This. Every female I've ever known always complains about something and they get pissed when I tell them that they're the source of their own misery because they give a shit about x or y that doesn't fucking matter.

>>33476997 (OP)
Find something else to think about. Read a book, watch a movie, go out with your friends, whatever - just give your brain some input that isn't your own thoughts

>>33476997 (OP)
yeah that's weird, does he have cancer or something?

>>33477572
lol this is so true.

>>33476997 (OP)
Kek, no one is pointing out the obvious:
He is thinking of killing himself, but one thing holding him back is how much it would hurt you.

>>33476997 (OP)
Is he suicidal? If he is you need to take action. Listen to the first episode of "I can't believe this is actually happening" podcast, and learn how to NEVER do that.
Take action. NOW. Do not let him fall apart, save his life.

>>33476997 (OP)
>Suffering from success
Hey, how about you jump off a building and shut the fuck up?
He's not the only man that exists and you're not the only woman that exists.
If you do get married, one of you faggots has to die first unless you have a murder suicide pact and die together, hitler and eva braun style.
>I have social anxiety
>I have a bf
Non issue, kill yourself

>>33476997 (OP)
lol i threatened to kill myself mulitple times to girls i was dating. Good times

>>33476997 (OP)

It's okay, you'll eventually get bored of him anyway.

>>33483401
>noooooooo you can't actually love somebody, you have to optimize, read game theory bro

>>33476997 (OP)

Stop fucking crying. You live life on tutorial mode.

>>33483384
I'm not OP but can you post a link to that?

>>33483672
They're complaining about "social anxiety" but have a bf. They're saying the bf is saying things that make them upset but one of them has to die first.

>>33483681
https://audioboom.com/posts/4602907-what-if-your-boyfriend-lit-himself-on-fire

>>33483896
What even causes a person to go on a downward spiral like that?

>>33477593
The problem with this flowchart is when the answer to "Can you do something about it?" is "I don't know, and/or I don't know if I should."

>>33484259
If you're so depressed and dislike yourself so much that you're willing to set yourself on fire to die -- um a lot, anon. A lot of really bad shit.

>>33484281
You can't answer a question with another question. Moral decisions don't have a binary yes or no answer and therefore can't be right or wrong. So at any given point you're always reliant on your experiences and your gut instinct, regardless of whether or not you have a problem. Moot point though, because worrying doesn't improve the situation either way.

>>33476997 (OP)
he sounds suicidal, u should talk to him or something

>mfw no gf whos obsessed with me
I hope you two have a long fulfilling relationship...ha ha ha