Thread 33481193

I try to work out 4-5x a week doing gym, running, yoga and sometimes climbing. I also play the piano as a second hobby, trying to practice an hour every day together with weekly lessons.
However, I have been debating in my mind to give up the piano and do more exercise. I have an okay body but it did not improve my dating life at all, like I am still attracting 0 (zero) girls. Maybe I am not in good enough shape? Should I quit piano and just work out 6-7x a week building an insane physique?
I am in this weird middle state where I am not fit enough to get a fit girlfriend and not good enough at the piano to get a smart girlfriend. What should I do?

>>33481193 (OP)
No, neither. The question is simply are you someone that a woman would want to be with? It's all about how you make her feel, not your friggin hobbies.

>>33481193 (OP)
Girls don't care about none of that. Are you good in bed? Do you have a job? Are you a liar and a cheater? Are you an insecure, controlling, psycho? That's what matters. No one cares what your body looks like except shallow, airhead retards.

>>33481262
I mean, exercise keeps me in shape and healthy. Bonus if I could find an active girl to run, gym, climb, hike etc. together. Piano is because I am really passionate about it but yeah, it's more for me than anyone else. It's insanely good for the brain though, ever since I started playing my college grades have shot up.

>>33481193 (OP)
>Should I quit piano and just work out 6-7x a week building an insane physique?
Working out more than 4-5x a week isn't going to do anything. In fact you'll probably burn out and make less gains than before.

>>33481347
I am working out around 10 hours and that also includes stretching. College D1 athletes probably do like 20, mobility work not even included and they have harems of girls.

>>33481193 (OP)
>I have an okay body but it did not improve my dating life at all, like I am still attracting 0 (zero) girls. Maybe I am not in good enough shape?
You attract girls with your mouth-words, not with your body.

>>33481369
>College D1 athletes probably do like 20, mobility work not even included and they have harems of girls.
because they're also social Chads with several hobbies and lifestyles

>>33481369
>College D1 athletes probably do like 20, mobility work not even included and they have harems of girls.
1. They get girls because they are college athletes who are at the top of the status hierarchy. Not because they're fit. Take the same guy and remove him from the team and now he has to actually put in effort.
2. They have freak genetics and bench pressed 300lbs in high school, and they're on steroids to help them recover.
You could literally achieve the same effect by being a skinny nerd who DJs on the weekends.

>>33481402
Okay then I will stick with sports AND piano. But how do I leave this middle ground I am in, like I am not fit enough to attract fit girls but also not skilled enough on the piano to attract smart girls?

>I'm really passionate about piano so I'm considering replacing it with more gym to look hotter
You will struggle tremendously with dating if you are both stupid and a liar

>>33481451
I felt the same and wanted to do more creative things. So I signed up for bachata dance class starting in two weeks, and I joined a student choir which is on summer break so starting in 3 weeks.

Both of which have majority girls and you interact with them in an expressive way. I just deleted all of my dating apps today. I'm not going to bow down to ladies anymore. There WILL be a hot bitch there eventually who will make a move on me, because these are expressive, creative, and interactive hobbies with majority women. And even if I don't get anyone I won't be disappointed, because I'll be having fun and I'll feel good that I'm hanging out with nice girls and doing something expressive. I, personally, would recommend doing the same.
I'm also going to sign up for an acting group soon.

>>33481293
>It's insanely good for the brain though, ever since I started playing my college grades have shot up.
should I try picking it up to rewire my slop-fed ADHD brain? I've played brass instruments in the past so I have a background in music, just never learned piano

>>33481451
Just keep doing it. It takes 10 years before you get somewhat good at anything and women all line up at the finish line anyway.
The best you can do is what everyone else does and go to bars and hit on drunk girls.
>>33481501
>There WILL be a hot bitch there eventually who will make a move on me
Women don't make moves. I've done bachata for over a year, they don't do anything. They expect you to lead everything. Just letting you know so you don't figure it out the hard way.