Thread 33483636

If you have a small dick, how long are you supposed to wait before letting a women see it?
If you have sex too soon she's going to be turned off by it and ghost you because nothing is at stake, but if you wait too long, she'll lose interest and think you're too passive. So what is the right balance? Approximately at least.
>inb4 *insert cope about how size doesn't matter and women don't care*
Save it.

>>33483636 (OP)
How small

>>33483640
Idk how you're supposed to measure it, but last time I did it it was 12cm. But if you account for logistics and angles during sex and all that, only really 7cm of that will go in.

>>33483709
Isn't like 5.5 inches average? That's not that small all things considered I guess.

>>33483711
average =/= good, let alone ideal. Average may be average in terms of median, but not in terms of preference. Kinda like 5'9 is the average height, but it's considered to be very short, because the ideal sits somewhere around 6'4.

>>33483727
If it makes you feel any better my dick is like 17-18cm and I feel like it's small so I think it's mostly in your head.

>>33483709
You measure from the pubic bone to the tip of your dick. All of it goes in during positions like doggy style.

Lose some weight? I'm about 5.5" when fat, but about 6+ inches when I lose about 30+ lbs. That helped me out. I was surprised when my fwb told me I was too big for her and she pushed me off her.

>>33483727
Whenever someone posts that chart here I get depressed, thanks anon

>>33483742
I'm not fat
>>33483740
Not really, or at least not if the woman isn't compensating hard and contorting her body to get the right angle. There are very few positions where you can put all of it in, even when you make skin to skin contact. And even then you have to account for how far you can thrust, so basically for almost all positions I'm limited to just grinding on her if I don't want it slipping out all the time
>>33483734
According to the chart you're big and I'm not, not even by actual averages, let alone women's preferences.

>>33483636 (OP)
Your dick is bigger than that of most women. It is very well established that lesbians have far more orgasms and enjoy sex more than straight women. You do the math.

>>33483759
>According to the chart you're big and I'm not
I mean sure I guess, but that doesn't mean I'm happier or more satisfied than you. I'm 5'9" as well, and women prefer men taller than me on average. Nothing I can do about it, just try to make up with physical attractiveness.
My point is that your satisfaction and happiness don't have to be dependent on your dick size. If you find a loyal woman who's genuinely physically attracted to you then you can be happy and fulfilled despite your penis being a little smaller than average. In the grand scheme you should be worried about bigger things, like romantic love, art, science, politics, and family. I'm not perfect, I feel like my dick is small sometimes, because in an absolute sense it is. A "huge" penis is like 9 inches. A mountain is miles high. Set your sights on the stars anon.

>>33483727
This chart keeps me going in life because it tells me that my girth is above average and just slightly past the median female preference

>>33483760
>but what about lesbians
This might come as a shock to you, but lesbians aren't attracted to penises, or the person that it is attached to. And if they wanted to they could supplement the sensation that a penis provides with an assortment of toys in various shapes and sizes.
None of that matters though, because that's not what I was asking in my OP.
>>33483785
Look man, not to shoot you down, but I wasn't asking for coping strategies. I'm glad you've made peace with yourself or whatever, but none of what you said relates to my original inquiry.

>>33483818
>I'm glad you've made peace with yourself
No I haven't, and that's exactly my point. You probably wouldn't feel better if your dick was better.

>>33483824
Literally none of what you said is relevant to what I was asking.
That's like if someone asked how to fix a leaky faucet and you told them to worry about their life goals instead. I appreciate your little philosophy detour, but I didn't ask for it.

>>33483851
Because your original question is stupid.

>>33483727
So if I'm reading this right, doesn't that mean that about half of women would prefer a penis that is 7 inches or above for both one night stand or long term?

>>33484079
a little less than half, yes.

>>33483636 (OP)
You personally should stay away from women because you see people as meat, and women really despise that attitude, like it would drive any woman to existential panic if she found out that you thought 1 extra inch of dick was going to make her like you as a person

>>33484144
>you thought 1 extra inch of dick was going to make her like you as a person
Except that's not what I was saying. Matter of fact, liking me as a person to me is a prerequisite for her to not leave after seeing my dick, because then my personality will hopefully outweigh the lack of pleasure from penetrative sex for her.

not OP but while we're on the topic of dick size
>6.3 inches bone pressed
>probably like 3 or 4 inches of actual usable length when not

How can I cope with this, whenever I have sex my actual usable length is tiny and I can't get any decent strokes because I don't have enough length. I'm a bit overweight which means im losing length from fat, but I'm working on that, is there anything else I can do in the meantime?

>>33483636 (OP)
No idea, my cock is 7” long and 6.8” girth. I don’t even tell women about it lol. It took my Asian ex gf about a year to adjust to it.

>>33484272
>bone pressed
might as well measure from your tailbone to the tip of your cock. Measure again without pressing the ruler halfway into your guts and then come back.

>>33484158
Like I said, just stay away from women, it would horrify any normal woman to realize that you actually thought the way you do

At first she would think it was a joke, like, noone could take dick size memes seriously surely? But then when she realized you were serious it would disturb her on a deep level and she would want to get far, far away
Besides just being false, it also indicates that you are so beta that just having a small dick was enough to castrate you as a person, a man, it's beyond pathetic

>>33484328
I read that bone pressed is the standard for measurement though, it's what they use in studies.

>>33484334
>>33484328
the fuck even is "bone pressed"

>>33484338
you press the ruler into the fat pad around your dong till it's up against your pubic bone and measure from there.

>>33484329
Yeah, because there are no instances of women prematurely ending relationships because they were unsatisfied with the size of their partners penis.

>>33484342
So you're telling me that i've been leaving like an inch of length on the table because I'm basically supposed to press it into my body? I was happy with 7.25" measuring the shaft alone haha.

>>33484355
>>33484342
They only use it in studies because that's a consistent way of measuring, not because it's usable length you're leaving on the table.
The way your bodies are leveraged against each other during sex prevents you from even going truly balls deep most of the time and insert all of it. You're virtually never going to press your fat pad all the way in during sex, but a lot of guys will use that measurement as a cope because it gives them a little extra boost.

>>33484370
Yeah that's pretty much my problem, on paper measuring bone pressed 6 inches seems like it's alright but like I said my actual usable length, especially during sex when our bodies are pressed up is like a couple inches which really fucks with me because I basically can't get any stroke length, is there anyway to deal with this or basically just leanmax and hope being skinny gives me another inch or two and bumps my usable length up

>>33484379
having extra weight definitely does take away from your stroke length. Honestly that's the most straightforward way to start rectifying the issue bro.

>>33484379
Don't know, I'm in the same boat. Even worse actually, I'm 4.5 inches, so I'm basically reduced to just grinding on her.
I've come to accept that the only real pleasure she will feel is through oral and that eventually later down the line in the relationship she'll be asking for bigger dildos/cocksleeves.

>>33484394
>>33484379
Oh and also: the g spot is only like 3 inches. If you learn to hit that shit...no bitch will care how long or short you are. Knowing how to use it is way more important. But you should be doing everything you can to increase length (fitness)

my dick is pretty big and in reality it's way more of an ego thing than a physical thing. the idea that a woman can't really hit me there is satisfying because it is a trick they tend to use sometimes. secondly when you manage to bottom her out it gives a kind of feeling of total dominance. but I've had sex where I'm like half hard and only 5/6" and sex just fetlt as good physically

>>33484329
>it would horrify any normal woman to realize that you actually thought the way you do
Do you redditors not know women are shallow? Yes she's gonna make fun of your dick, maybe not out loud but definitely in her mind, especially if it's small, fuckin retarded redditors on this site I swear, always gaslighting people

>>33483636 (OP)
>>33483727
>>33484079
>>33483711
Polite reminder that a penis that is 5.5 inches long and 5 inches in circumference is HALF the volume of a penis that is 6 inches girth and 7 inches long.

>>33484744
>holy shit Chad
>you're DISPLACING so much VOLUME
>you're making quim stream out of my pussy faster than Archimedes getting in the public baths!

This is literally what incels believe satisfactory sex consists of

>>33484744
You fucking idiot. You made the radius what you intended to be the circumference. The first dick has a circumference of ~31.4 inches and the second has a circunference of ~37.7 inches. This fucking moron did the math of a dick fucking 3 feet around.

>>33484744
6" radius penis
Yeah, my dick isn't 12" in diameter sadly...

>>33483636 (OP)
I won't read dick threads. I won't read tape measure of doom threads.

>>33486006
It's over if your dick isn't a foot wide.

>>33483727
Why is the difference between 4.5" and 6.5" so staggering?
Are 2 inches really what separates an incel from a chad?

Try penis enlargement there is a whole subreddit and people actually had thier dick grow an inch or 2 some one even increased it by whole 3 inches

Women don't care as much as you think. Learn to eat out and finger and she'll be happy with whatever you have. Especially eating out. I love doing that.

They also care more about emotional attraction.

Penis size is overrated, although I'm not small so I guess my opinion is biased.

>>33488171
Because of the length of the vagina

>>33489981
>one even increased it by 3 inches
No they didnt. There is literally zero evidence of that ever happening and I challenge you to find it.

>>33493511
>ummm source???
>Yeah, I'm going to need a source for that bucko
>SOURCEEEE
>I won't believe it until this has been fact checked by a large, independent research group
>Nope, I won't form my own opinion, I'm going to wait for college nerds to spoon feed it to me
lmao even. Enjoy your small cock anon

This website and the internet in general was so much better before weak jeets with major self-esteem issues started shitting up everywhere online. Even slavs weren’t as pathetic.

I believe that if the entire world rangebanned all of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and all those assorted brown shitholes from the Internet forever, 90% of these crap threads would disappear.

>>33483636 (OP)
>If you have a small dick, how long are you supposed to wait before letting a women see it?
I usually don't let them see it at all desu
It sucks not getting laid, but it doesn't suck as bad as getting laughed at as she gets dressed and leaves
And yes, actual story

>>33493905
Kill yourself.

>>33493994
Isn't this just a demoralization thread though? I've noticed that OP and the guy who posts all those charts >>33483727 >>33484744 are the same person. There's no rational point in complain about dick size since nothing will change, at all.