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>>33484621 (OP)
M or F
How do you feel about your weight?

>>33484626
Male
Bad

Are men responsible for keeping their girlfriends entertained? Atoga seems to think so!

>>33484626
F. I want my 23" waist back again. I only look actually skinny and petite when my BMI is 17.

>>33484626
Dude
Used to be a real fat fuck. Now I've lost 40 pounds and am a somewhat fat fuck. Still more to go but it's getting better.

>>33484629
Male
Not responsible but I want to anyways
If your picrel happened she'd have a key to my apartment next

>>33484626
M
Gained a bit of weight recently. But I lost it once and I can do it again, so I'm not to worried. I'm still in a healthy weight anyway.

>>33484626
M
Girls should eat more, way more.

>>33484626
They could have just given it to a homeless person.

>>33484635
>Giving someone you barely know a key
Really?

>>33484626
First of all that was an appalling waste of food.
I’m happy with my weight. I have a BMI of 21. I’m healthy and I don’t have to be skinny like that to be. I have a little tummy, but other than that, I’m not complaining. I just hope I find someone who doesn’t mind it, or maybe even likes it.

>>33484629
>pic
I did that for my 4chan bf one time and he got mad as hell because it was my fault I ended up seeing him with another girl

>>33484644
women once again proving they have the most amazing ability of picking out the worst men

>>33484641
>barely know
She clearly knows where I live and is comfortable enough to buy groceries for the place, how is that "barely"?

>>33484651
She's your girlfriend not a wife kek

>>33484648
Male propaganda is everywhere online, they tell you that fat shy anime-loving gamer manlets are sweet gentlemen and husband material. In reality those types are mentally ill antisocial demons who date like they're trying to set a record in gender war crimes

>>33484642
Slightly chubby girls with a bit of a belly are really cute
I definitely prefer it to the skinny type like in that webm

>>33484642
>I have a little tummy, but other than that, I’m not complaining. I just hope I find someone who doesn’t mind it, or maybe even likes it.
We love tummy here.

>>33484652
Yeah so what's your point?

>>33484644
>>33484653
Nta

I'm sure there's another side to this story, maybe they were just friends

>>33484626
M
Why is she wasting food what the hell
Anyway, really bad honestly kek. Many years ago I was fit and somewhar muscular, now I'm an ugly skinnyfat beer belly fucker kek cause I drink way too much. I barely eat anything, but I think the alcohol and lack of proper exercise is what does it.
>>33484629
>Are men responsible for keeping their girlfriends entertained
Not 24/7 lol, but sometimes sure it's nice

>>33484661
I'd previously asked if the three of us could hang out sometime but he told me I wasn't invited and that it was controlling and jealous of me to even suggest such a thing

>>33484626
Also I just watched this video again and holy shit this girl is really thin lol. That does not look healthy. She really should be eating a whole pizza with a coke and fries...

>>33484626
No one, and I mean no one eats the pizza crust, throwing away the pizza crust after eating the rest is like filming yourself giving up red meat and then eating chicken to call yourself vegan. Beyond fucking retarded. Literally everyone throws away the crust unless it's lil caesars or papa johns and you dip it in sauce.

>>33484626
F
I’m skinny and I’m exercising to keep my butt nice and round, very happy

>>33484658
Picrel is perfect lol
Maybe even a bit more

>>33484666
Damn that is suspect, Satan.
>>33484653
You aren't supposed to date fat manlets if they're still good looking, you're meant to date ugly men regardless of body fat or height but you won't.

>>33484666
Oof, sorry

>>33484621 (OP)
Don't start new threads on page 8.

>>33484668
I've always eaten pizza crusts
Including friends' leftover ones kek
Feels like a waste to me of perfectly good bread, and they're a good snacc
I also knew a girl who cut the actual crusts off her bread and only ate white bread. I was like bruh...

>>33484630
Literally no one looks good at BMI 17.

>>33484676
nta That is not true.

>>33484668
>No one, and I mean no one eats the pizza crust,
Er, I do.

>>33484655
As long as they genuinely don’t mind it, I’ll be happy, just as you said. I don’t want my future husband to pretend to like it for the sake of avoiding hurting my feelings.
>>33484658
Oh wow, that makes me happy ^-^
>>33484674
Yeah, me too. I like the crust. I don’t understand why some don’t. What about it is not good?

>>33484671
>fat manlets
>still good looking
Pick 1 lol

>pale
>skinny
>dark hair
Nothing gets my instincts going like this combo.

>>33484673
>Don't start new threads on page 8.
I made this thread on page 9.

>>33484626
Jesus Christ, vidrel looks horrible!
(.Ó﹏Ò.)

>>33484681
>What about it is not good?
Exactly lol
I mean whatever everyone has their own tastes... but c'mon it's just bread... I love the crunch
> long as they genuinely don’t mind it, I’ll be happy
Hopefully you can find someone honest with you who genuinely likes it then (:
>>33484685
Tan, blonde and a bit chubby for me kek

>>33484679
Fine, literally no one looks good at BMI 17 without the benefit of some heavy photoshopping.

>>33484626
>me watching vidrel after eating almost nothing since Friday
I was going to bedrot all day but this has actually motivated me to get up and make a sandwich kek

>>33484692
Nope.

>>33484693
>anime reaction girl
Stop being this way, incel.

It is time to say goodbye to Bluey, Bandit, Bingo, and Chili.

The veterinarian is going to put them to sleep.

How does this make you feel?

>>33484683
You literally just proved my point, Leo is still better looking than most men as a fat manlet, in fact the guy never went below 15% bodyfat.

Would you ever sit upon The Pleasure Throne?

>>33484704
Someone stole my custom gaming chair idea wtf

>>33484710
Not yet they haven't we can make a design that makes the dildo vibrate each time you die in game or take damage, imagine the sales value, we can still make millions.

>>33484687
>Self-improvement implies you weren't already perfect, which means you are below Chad who is naturally perfect. It is the most raw and distilled form of eugenics imaginable
Migrated to new thread but is the dumbest logic ever...
Unless you are implying that personalities and motivations are genetically hard-coded too or whatever, but that's too fatalistic for me
If Chad decides to be lazy, and give up working, and his fitness, and socialising, and became a lazy fatass who dressed like a hobo, he wouldn't be "Chad" anymore, just some slob with wasted potential
The mid improoover would mog, and you see it all the time in public, guys who are not the best looking but you can tell they've got other things going for them they've worked hard for and are with cute girls
>>33484698
No
>>33484701
>Leo is still better looking than most men as a fat manlet
Lol I don't agree but to each their own
He used to be a real prettyboy, now he looks... fine, but the only reason he pulls fit girls is because he's famous (he same way Madonna dates young fit guys because she's Madonna but she's not all that now)
He looks like some dad that goes to the pub often, plays the fiddle in a band and has a nice chubby wife and kids if he were to just be a regular guy kek

>>33484711
If we can make it thrust when I start healing someone I'm in let's do it

>>33484704
1/10 product, 10/10 marketing

Sometimes I just crave a frail woman.

>>33484712
>Lol I don't agree
Women are literally complaining about a chopped man epidemic they themselves admit most men are incels, why do you lie?
Is it because you need to cope?
Quick question are you M or F?

>>33484721
>Quick question are you M or F?
It's an incel.

>>33484701
Also damn, Danny DeVito used to clean up good kek no homo, before he became the trashman

Sometimes I just crave a woman that can manhandle me

Girls, do you have a "I love BBC" shirt?

>>33484626
M
182 cm
78 kg
Not bad, could be a bit lighter maybe

>>33484722
Yeah I'm getting major incel in denial vibes but let's wait to see if they confirm it or lie.

>>33484726
No that’s a guy thing

>>33484626
F
Light, but could be lighter.

Femanons, you should smoke some weed and rub your pussy all day today.

>>33484731
This is true I'm a white guy and I go out wearing that and looking like that and saying that and it gets me so many high fives from black guys.

>>33484721
M
>"chopped man epidemic"
Part of this is terminally online stacies with unrealistic standards (or lesbians in denial...) but part of it is a lot of guys just not making much effort (for various reasons, life can be a bitch), so the guys who do comparatively stand out
It goes the other way too, especially in poorer communities, people are more slobbish in general cause they have other problems, but in general girls put more effort into appearance
>most men are incels
This just isn't true kek. Most guys are out there getting some, even the "chopped" ones (they just have to lower their standards a bit in most cases and look past the superficial)
>>33484730
Bruh...
Not in denial, I am a mentalcel/"let himself go"-cel (I am coining a new term kek)

>>33484734
I like to smoke weed after having rubbed my pussy all day

>>33484745
Nice, what do you masturbate to?

Women are evil.

>>33484738
You mask your sarcasm because we know your search history

>>33484739
>I'm a failed Chad so that means everyone else is.
Enjoy "self improoving" to beta buxx for a 2/10 brown torta who never had to improve a day in her life lil bro. Sorry you're retarded or whatever, good luck.

is navel piercing on a girl a red flag or not ?

>>33484746
Comedic rape scenes in old movies. Like the cutaway scene in Trading Places where the private detective guy gets locked in a cage with a gorilla that's about to fuck him.

>>33484746
bbc and cuck porn

>>33484752
Nta have you seen Postal?

>>33484751
It's a green flag that she's sexy and likes to fuck.

>>33484755
also to be your wife ? is she a slut if she has one ?

>>33484746
Mexican sugar dancing and that video of the chimpanzee ripping a womans face off from Normal Porn for Normal People that I have saved from 2007.

>>33484751
I wouldn't say it is
They're pretty hot desu
>>33484750
>so that means everyone else is
I never said this lmao
I just don't agree with your assessment that most guys are incels or that improoving is a waste of time, not only is it defeatist but it doesn't reflect reality kek
>"self improoving" to beta buxx for a 2/10 brown torta
I mean I've dated pretty and slim girls while "chopped". I could probably find someone nice eventually if I committed to an improoovment arc. Too bad I'm too mentally ill for that kek

>>33484754
NTA but I have to watch this now:
>Unbeknownst to them, Osama bin Laden and his group of Al-Qaeda terrorists, who had been secretly hiding in Paradise since the 9/11 attacks, under the watchful eye of bin Laden's best friend President George W. Bush, are after the same shipment, but for entirely different reasons. Hoping to outdo the catastrophe of 9/11, they plan to instill the dolls with Avian influenza and distribute them to unsuspecting American children. The two groups meet at the shipment's destination, German-themed amusement park called Little Germany. A fight between Postal creator Vince Desi and Postal director and park owner Uwe Boll (which ends with Boll being shot in the genitals, confessing "I hate video games"), sparks a massive shootout between the cult, the terrorists and the police, resulting in the deaths of dozens of innocent children. The Dude and the cult are able to get away with both the shipment and the park's opening day guest, Verne Troyer, pursued by Al-Qaeda, the police and a mob of angry citizens.

>>33484751
Stop asking braindead questions.
It doesn't matter.

>>33484752
>>33484753
>>33484757
All based

>>33484756
Sure, just with the acknowledgement she's the type of chick who'd want an open marriage.

>>33484759
It's really bad but really fun, hope you enjoy it anon

>>33484759
How have you never heard of Postal?

>>33484731
But I saw a redhead with blue eyes wearing it on Tinder? It was her first pic.

Why don't you have a group of friends who all like to casually masturbate each other and give each other oral erotic pleasure whenever they get together?

>>33484746
Eh… different things, some kinky and messy stuff too

Do you feel like you are successfully living like the older generations that you looked up to when you were an adolescent?

For example as a millennimal, a millenial animal living in isolation, I would enviously read forum posts by Gen-Xers talking about their experiences at early anime conventions or renting '80s porno's to watch and riff on with their friends. At Summer camp I befriended the counselors who were very knowledgeable about all the horror slasher movies at the video rental place that I wasn't allowed to watch.

I feel like I've adopted a little bit of their vibe now that I'm an adult.

What about you? Have you taken on the role of the older generations that you looked up to?

>>33484759
Nta but I coincidentally watched this with my housemates the other day and can confirm it's actually fucking great lol, especially if you like the games. It's actually underrated

I have heard that American and English women often move to France because it is a country full of male perverts; perverts who love to fuck!

How can I, as a male man, move to a country or city/town full of female perverts who like to fuck, and who include me on their roster of fuck boys and fuck toys?

>>33484771
I do I'm just not into that myself

>>33484774
>you are successfully living like the older generations that you looked up to when you were an adolescent
No lmao I am a disgrace
But I try to be helpful and kind to people IRL which is more than some asshole boomers can say
>>33484771
That's pretty fukin homo bro

one time I was in the supermarket with my dad and we saw this fat single mom with 2 nafri kids
without missing a beat my dad goes
>see that son, that lady was retarded enouhg to get impregnated twice by a muslim and now shes paying the price for it, her kids will grow up to be lowlife no good scum and she will live her whole life with that muslims seed as a reminder of the mistakes she made
the lady looks at us but we ignored her. she could clearly hear us
anyway thought it was funny.

>>33484778
>That's pretty fukin homo bro
It's more like pan sexual.

>>33484776
All women are perverts everywhere, just not for you, there's no need to move.
Also they have no paternity tests in France so those whores can just get knocked up and baby trap a man who isn't even the dad if they slammed their cooter on his schlongus knobble, shithole nation that will not survive into 2100.

>>33484734
I wish. Masturbating on weed ruined masturbating for me.

>>33484759
Also what makes it hilarious to me is that it has a lot of really famous actors despite being such a stupid movie. But the screenplay is hilarious and witty throughout, if you like "stupid comedies" definitely watch it

>>33484774
Lmao no, everybody I know from that generation did nothing but drugs and various crimes, including my mom
Not to mention all the marriages
I'm living the hermit life straight as an arrow

>>33484782
Holy based.
Bring back public shaming of race mixers.

>>33484787
It seems like being German let him get away with making the movie. No American director would have ever had something like this greenlit, too many sacred cows being tipped over.

>>33484776
The only place I've encountered genuinely pervy women was India, plenty of East Asians have a casual white guy fetish but it's tied to wealth and status, Indian women are the only ones who will casually grope you in passing or try to steal your underwear or whatever without any hope of financial gain later.

>>33484776
>English women often move to France because it is a country full of male perverts
Tfw in England I went out with a French baddie who wanted me to "teach her English" but she was already fluent, I think she just wanted to smash
>>33484782
>>see that son, that lady was retarded enouhg to get impregnated twice by a muslim and now shes paying the price for it, her kids will grow up to be lowlife no good scum and she will live her whole life with that muslims seed as a reminder of the mistakes she made
I read this in Hank Hill's voice kek
>>33484783
I don't want to fuck Peter pan tho
Mrs. Darling could GET it though

>>33484782
what kind of blue collar job does your dad have?

>>33484791
Eh, Bush is second only to orange man himself in the amount of seething he inspired in the media at the time. The Bin Laden thing might've been a bit much, but it wasn't exactly a prudish time for TV and movies.

>>33484794
you know the neet meme where the neet is a local celebrite and cucks others?
he lives like that except he isnt famous. he just fucks a lot of women

>>33484774
see >>33484788
I have an uncle that had been married three times by my age and who casually asks me if I have any side pieces at Thanksgiving in front of my wife.

>>33484731
This >>33484738 was not me.
>>33484749
See >>33484767
And her bio said she's looking for open-minded people who don't mind doing stuff in front of others. I swiped right but I'm white so idk.

>>33484795
In America it was about plausible deniability though. The rednecks who thought they'd find Bin Laden peeping in their bushes and would kill him with a sawed off shotgun (I met more than one person who voiced this fantasy to me) thought stuff like Team America and South Park was on their side when that kind of satire was actually making fun of them.

>>33484796
Your dad's a racist loser NEET and fucks a lot of women? Is he cr*c by any chance jk

>>33484796
uh huh, so he’s a lowlife and you are a lowlife. See the irony here or are you too uneducated?

How do I deal with all these fruit flies buzzing around my penis?

>>33484791
>being German let him get away with making the movie
This, and the fact that apparently he became a restaurateur for years after his previous movies flopped, so he had the money to make another "shit" movie
But yes Europe is more relaxed with that kind of thing in general, and especially countries like Germany. You have stuff that's like 6+ in Germany or a PG in the UK that is like 15/18 in the US and Canada lol. Also because the political parody stuff is about America, it's less "offensive" to people here (and is made up for with the extreme self-parody of "little Germany")
It gave me similar vibes to movies like Hoodwinked kek. Stupid and low-budget on the surface level, but a witty screenplay with lots of subtle jokes and intertwining stories, and clearly the budget went towards the A-list cast and not the production kek

>>33484802
I went to college, regardless theres no irony, muslims kids always end up being criminal scum

my dads a neet because he hates the system. hes just plays gigolo all his life

>>33484798
I'm >>33484738 and I was joking because of how stupid that sounds and no one in public would take it seriously even if I really did do it, but you straight up just signed yourself up for a failed relationship you desperate bum.

>>33484621 (OP)
Me and femmon

>>33484805
>I went to college
Should have gone to university instead

Women, why do men keep getting strange anonymous notes in their mailbox written in red sharpie that say YOU WILL BE RAPED

Ladies, what are some first date questions that you appreciated being asked? I'm going on my first first date of the year (matched on hinge, going to get ice cream and then probably walk around) and I'm real nervous because she's gorgeous and we seem to have a lot of things in common based on our texts. Don't want to fumble this one...

Femanon, why aren't you a lesbian?

>>33484806
It's better than nothing. And I haven't matched her yet.

>>33484813
I tried. Wasn't very successful at it. I thought I would become like my lesbian heroine, Edith Hamilton. But I realised, tragically, that I am heterosexual.

Why is it that when men are barefoot they always pose their toes similar to those infamous casual barefooters, the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles?

>>33484815
You’re stuck with us. :^)

>>33484815
How do you fail at being a lesbian?

>>33484811
One man asked me if I ever did scat porn. Maybe ask questions like that.

The only anonymous note I ever got was sheet on gangstalking that started out like an informative essay then devolved to schizo rambling personal story

>>33484815
>lesbian heroine,
The normal stuff wasnt destructive enough? Whats next, gay meth?

>>33484820
Well... DID YOU?!

>>33484822
Where I live there's one nutter that hands out fliers saying "EUGENICS" in big capital letters, claiming that he was created in a lab and trafficked as a child or some shit.

>>33484626
M 6’1 180lbs

>>33484626
I am too fat. Because of this I will never be drafted as part of a Black Ops team to raid the Kremlin and black bag Putin. Only in my dreams. :(

State gender
Is Reddit for mentally ill freaks?

>>33484626
Can’t believe she threw away perfectly good pizza

>>33484822
What's an anonymous note?

>>33484831
M, yes but not as much as 4chan. Reddit is mostly just people like me suffering from Asperger's Disease and Severe Anxiety. 4chan is where. you go for all your OCD thought loops about weird sexual shit.

>>33484831
m
its for normalfags mostly

>>33484815
How's that book you're working on going?

>>33484845
Every day I write the book. :)

>>33484811
I rather have a conversation flow naturally. Talk about the things you have in common

>>33484831
M

Reddit has a stronger veneer of normalcy mostly because of its integration in mainstream platforms and strong curation of the front page to present an advertiser friendly face, the userbase of reddit is far more fringe in their beliefs and lifestyle and is so out of touch with the average person that they literally have meltdowns over thanksgiving dinner when they encounter their family members, which they document at length.
>>33484837
I'm pretty sure most of 4chan is closer to normie than reddit at this point. Not that people here are particularly well adjusted, reddit's just that bad.

>>33484831
Redditors are the same as 4channers, except they're even worse at telling jokes.

>>33484848
To be fair as a survivor of sexual molestation by school teachers my aunt telling younger relatives she is "tickle raping" them at the Thanksgiving dinner table actually does set off all the fucking red flags.

But you clearly think these concerns are "out of touch". Fuck you.

>>33484846
Looking forward to it, good luck.
What's your favorite book of hers?

redditor alert

>>33484831
M
Yes but it has to be the right brand of mental illness
If you're too mentally ill you just get banned from everywhere and it's not worth posting

>>33484856
The Roman Way

Odds I lift
Evens I sleep
Dubz I stay and shitpost

>>33484810
I got shit like that after getting doxxed. Luckily the cops take it seriously.

>>33484816
Imagine going round the sewers without shoes blehh

>>33484811
Ask her about things that she mentions, that should make her talk about herself and bring up topics.

>>33484809
>tfw went to le university but dropped out in final year
>>33484866
Stay and shitpost my guy. Fuck gym or sleep it's time to weep

>>33484803
What the fuck.

>message girl
>go on a date with girl and it goes well
>we keep messaging
>she says she wants to have a second date
>ask her to the movies
>few days before she cancels because she's busy
>we keep messaging
>ask her out again
>few days before she cancels because she's busy
>we keep messaging
>she tells me she went on a date with someone else with smiley emojis
Am I an asshole for thinking this was incredibly shitty thing to do?

>>33484813
I genuinely just can't go on living without dick. I had literally the best lesbian partner possible when it comes to sexual compatibility for a while. Even her less-than-acceptable unreliability outside of bed wasn't an issue. In the end, it was pretty all because I really missed dick.

>>33484864
Are you sure you don't have some bi in you? I thought het girls hate it when we think too much about ancient Rome.

>>33484810
Malebros we'll never experience this...

Woah.. gyatt!

>>33484626
>flatty calling someone fatty
M. I've lost weight this last year and I feel pretty good about it. I'm still in the upper half of the "normal" bmi range.

>tfw sitting in garden rn on a nice summer's afternoon with the cats, with some cheeses and meats, drinking cider and reading a book
Maybe being single and jobless isn't so terrible after all
Some slaving thirdie would probably kill me be in my shoes rn
I should be more grateful for what I have, and whine less about what I don't have
Anons, what are you up to today and what is something that you're grateful for (and optionally, something you wish you could change or get some advice on)?

>>33484875
>she tells me she went on a date with someone else with smiley emojis
I agree that's pretty insensitive and shitty, especially after blowing you off twice for being "too busy"
Honestly I would just say something polite like you think she's a nice girl and all but you don't think it's working out and wish her the best blah blah
If she's blowing you off to go on dates with other guys clearly she doesn't like you that much, is the harsh reality.......

>>33484875
>>she tells me she went on a date with someone else with smiley emojis
>Am I an asshole for thinking this was incredibly shitty thing to do?
Modern women are truly evil. I tried to fight it, I tried to claim that I love women and I respect women, but it's over.

Women, you had a chance to save my heart... but it's over.

>>33484875
I just wouldn't talk to her anymore.

>>33484751
No, but I'm not fond of it.

>>33484875
Kek, that's modern foids for you. Serial daters are all scum.

>>33484889
>>33484888
I think ghosting is kinda mean kek but yeah if I was in OP's shoes I would send a polite ""rejection"" message and move on. Clearly she's not into him kek or making an effort so no point wasting each other's time more.

>>33484875
wouldnt even leave her on read
just block and move on

>>33484774
>Do you feel like you are successfully living like the older generations that you looked up to when you were an adolescent?
In a way, yes. I didn't look up to to the older generation. Adults were the enemy. Now that I am the older generation I get the sense at least from atoga that the younger generations despise me.

>>33484898
>just block
Why are you guys so mean lol
Do you actually do this IRL

>>33484816
What?

>>33484877
You just reminded me of the 6'2 Italian archeologist I fumbled. I thought it was a perfect date, but she texted me she wasn't feeling it. Damn it.

>>33484888
>incel makes it about himself again

>>33484875
It was insensitive to tell you that.
She should have just said she doesn't want to keep datingyou.
Maybe she thought this was the easiest way you won't stalk her or some shit, but still.

>>33484831
Apparently reddit is for hot moids. According to some femanon a couple of threads ago.

>>33484901
the fuck you mean?
she's the asshole in this situation and showing disrespect

>>33484907
RIP....
tbf I posted there in my "hot" days about a decade ago and then migrated here and became ugly

>>33484901
If a woman is casually insulting me for attention then yeah I usually stop giving it to her.

>>33484901
>Why are you guys so mean lol
He invited her to a movie, she said no, but then she went to the movie anyway and then she told him about it. The message is "I'm not too busy for the movie, I'm too busy for you".

Why would you waste your time on someone who tells you that you aren't worth their time?

>>33484908
It's insensitive sure but I don't think it's necessarily malicious. She could just be a bit ditzy and assume he's seeing other girls also (they only went on one date...).
I agree though she should be making more effort for him if she actually likes him so no point going on another date. But ghosting or blocking is needlessly mean and butthurt imo. Especially after one date it's not that deep lol.
I remember when a girl from Tinder ghosted me after nearly 10 dates, feelsbadman...

>>33484894
You're a serial master debater

>>33484912
I agree it was insensitive and he shouldn't waste his time anymore, but you can at least part ways with a nice message and on good terms

>>33484901
I despise ghosting in 99% of the cases, since it is lazy, cowardly and hurtful.
But this is one of those very rare cases where nothing more needs to be said, maybe throw a "I am not interested anymore." but that's it.

>>33484913
If a girl is that ditzy and lacking in basic empathy that's it's own red flag.

>>33484860
You don't have to announce yourself anon.

>>33484803
Have you tried washing?

>>33484810
I'm confident it's other men that are responsible.

>>33484917
If you respond to her, she wins. You should remain as unaffected as possible and simply not say anything after she disrespected you. Foids get off on attention.

>>33484917
M

I don't understand the hate towards ghosting, I've had it done to me, I've done it to a lot of girls, overwhelmingly trying to give them some sense of closure has been a mistake. Ghosting lets them save some face and lets me not have to deal with the fallout, everyone wins.

>>33484883
>what are you up to today
Masturbating.
>and what is something that you're grateful for
The time to masturbate.
>(and optionally, something you wish you could change or get some advice on)?
I wish I could finish masturbating.

>>33484913
>She could just be a bit ditzy
Then nothing of value was lost.

>Especially after one date it's not that deep lol.
Precisely, it was just one date, it is not that deep, hence cutting contqct is absolutely valid.

>>33484913
Oh shit it's fucking QT again, doing drugs and giving the absolute worst advice, completely disconnected from reality.

>>33484913
>But ghosting or blocking is needlessly mean and butthurt imo.
>Especially after one date it's not that deep lol.
neither is the shit she pulled on him. She didnt show the guy any respect, why would he show it back? its huge asshole move to blow the guy off twice, saying ''im busy'' but taking the time to go out with other guys.
Its disrespect

>>33484813
>Femanon, why aren't you a lesbian?
Every day I wish I was.

>>33484924
>>33484925
I honestly don't care what either of you think.

>>33484926
Is this JH kek
I haven't fapped in days since fapping to femanons RIP

What's the next psyop against white Aryan men?

>>33484928
Oh he already again again stopped using a name so he can be filtered?
Wouldn't be surprised.

>>33484883
Chilling now, about to watch some preseason footy. I have work to do later and then going for walkies and dinner at the mall with my cousin. A gf would be nice but life is ok right now

>>33484925
I've been ghosted several times kek but I don't think it's a nice thing to do. Unless the girl is genuinely threatening you or whatever and won't leave you alone, there's not really any excuse as a guy
>>33484918
I guess but like I said she might've just not through it through that that could be hurtful for him kek
Idk I'm playing devil's advocate here. For all I know she could be a bitch lol but hopefully not
>>33484928
I'm actually sober rn lol
Sorry about last night though I drank way too much and then accidentally kinda upset my friend and crashed out here kek

>>33484909
Did you migrate because you became ugly or did you become ugly because you migrated?

if she's single, its a 1v1000
if she's taken, its a 1v1

>>33484934
Maybe. Sounds like you have something else to do today, then.

>>33484940
Stop spam replying to people with mentally deranged shit.
Nothing you say has any value.

>>33484937
Bruh I get b& whenever I use a name kek
>inb4 "good"
>>33484938
Sounds comfy
Wait what footy are you watching m8
>>33484942
Chicken and egg scenario
I think my ugliness era just coincided with a natural transition here

>>33484932
What's stopping you?

>>33484876
Was that the real reason JH?

>>33484626
It's a love hate relationship. I want thinner stomach, but when I lose weight it takes T&A first... and I love my T&A. I have yo-yo'd at least 5 times in my life and it has consistently made me feel worse energy wise and confidence wise being thinner.

>>33484946
Maybe take the fucking hint for once.
You are unlikeable, you spam, you avatarfag, you probably qlso ban evade.
There are plenty of reasons why you get reported and banned.
You are unwanted.

>>33484943
>if she's taken, its a 1v1
Yh but im not a cunt

>>33484944
>Sounds like you have something else to do today, then.
What are u implying...
>>33484945
Sorry that I think ghosting/blocking a girl who hasn't necessarily done anything wrong is "mentally deranged" I guess kek
It literally takes a minute to write a polite "rejection" message and leave it at that

>>33484940
>I'm actually sober rn lol
You're already drinking. Fuck off, leave the thread to people who actually live in the real world.

I am breakdancing at home to the 80s electro hip hop classic "Cool it Now" playing in the background.

Anyone want to join my dance team? We could be like Electro Rock in Breakin' and go around intimidating rival teams into dance battles, yo.

>>33484951
>You are unlikeable
>You are unwanted
I didn't realise my mom posted here
>>33484954
I'm just drinking a coffee rn
Okay I had some cider earlier but not much
I do live in the real world (sometimes...)

ladies, how would you respond if your man dabbed on your sister? if you dont have a sister, imagine you have one

>>33484954
He can't.
He wants to attention whore.
He has zero understanding of the feelings of others and always puts his own selfish reasons above the good of others.
He loves shitting things up and choses to do so every day.

>>33484949
I realize it was, yes. Maybe not just dick, but I missed dating a man in general and all that includes. It includes dynamics that I can't separate from intimacy and find necessary to feel comfortable and happy in seriousness of dating.
>>33484953
You know what you must do.

>>33484943
>if she's taken, its a 1v1
Not if you keep spamming this.

>>33484954
Yes but I'm drinking kratom, not booze. Not that that's much better for me, but I'm still mentally functional!

My gf of couple of years doesn’t send me her nudes when she’s away, always replying with excuses that she’s in public right now, with family etc. I’ve never asked any woman before and have received unsolicited nude pic in my life bros. Femanons, what gives??

>>33484957
>Okay I had some cider earlier but not much
You're so fucking dishonest, it's an ordeal to pry the truth out of you. You're a slimy, untrustworthy, bullshitting asshole. Go away and leave us alone, we're trying to help someone and you're trying to sabotage him.

>>33484771
Because my friends are uncool and monogamous.

>>33484957
If I were your mom, I'd hate myself every single day for not having aborted you.

Based mods.
Thank you, mods.
I love you, mods.

>deleted
Hopefully this means at least 24h of silence from that piece of dogshit.

>>33484958
I'm a bisexual dude (m) but I had a boyfriend once who would sometimes rest his elbow on my (adult, but much younger than both of us) sister's scalp and aggressively pat her on the back or elbow her in the side. She hated it but she was too afraid to speak up until I told him to stop, and even then, he continued.

That's part of why we broke up.

>>33484943
If she's a goth it's always a 1v1000

>>33484875
>Am I an asshole for thinking this was incredibly shitty thing to do?
A bit, yeah. It's not like you'd discussed being exclusive, and until you do, you're not. And it's also a given that, if you're not yet going steady, the other person may find someone they like better than you. That's just how dating works. If she *hadn't* told you and had kept on seeing the other guy behind your back, knowing that you and she weren't going to work out, that would have been shitty.

>>33484972
A fag being abusive and creepy towards a woman what a shocker. Bro probably wanted to wear her skin

>>33484949
>What's stopping you?
I'm straight.

>>33484975
I honestly think he was mostly bisexual and gay for dudes out of necessity because women didn't want him due to his behavior. He also bullied other men and used being an armed forces veteran as an excuse for his entitled behavior.

>>33484974
>It's not like you'd discussed being exclusive, and until you do, you're not.
This is something assholes say to justify cheating.
>"But you didn't saaaaaaay you wanted to be exclusive yet!"

I'm not accusing her of cheating. That's not what happened here. I'm looking at (You) with a side eye because I know Your Type.

>>33484979
Hope you learned your lesson about veterans they are all freaks like that

>>33484943
If I'm single, it's a 1v1, but your opponent has spent infinitely more time mastering every aspect of dating me, compared to your cheap ass who can't even play one game for longer than a month.

>>33484974
>That's just how dating works.
No, that’s just how shitty people work. Contraception was a mistake.

>>33484981
>This is something assholes say to justify cheating.
No, that's just how dating has worked since at least the 1950s. Going on one date with someone doesn't mean you're "going steady".

>>33484958
She’s married anon. Da heck are you doing?

>>33484985
>Contraception was a mistake.
Yeah, it makes baby-trapping harder.

>>33484984
and yet you still cheat

>>33484984
Tell that to my hours played on 7 days to die or grounded

>>33484991
real incel hours

>>33484974
No, the issue was her being insensitive about it, not seeing other people too.

>>33484985
Idiot.

>>33484992
I've never cheated.
>>33484993
This is scary as fuck. I literally just went to a friend couple's place yesterday and they showed me that game because it has the bugs I take care of at work. It was crazy.

>>33484978
Don't believe any woman isn't at least bi

>>33485000
You take care of bugs and get paid for it?

Game's fun AF

>>33485000
Hey, come to my place and I'll show you SimAnt.

>>33485003
It's part of the job. I keel daphnia and isopods, some superworms, beetles, etc. they showed me that the daphnia try to fucking kill you in the water? That's ridiculous, they eat bacteria. Also they are tiny as fuck, so the players have to be very small for them to pose a threat at all. But that explains why the isopods looked so big. None of them should be vocalizing at all, though. The spiders were too scary for me to consider playing, though.

>>33485006
Have you ever genetically engineered a giant sandworm that poops out hallucinogenic spice that tells the future and enables space travel?

>>33485004
Not a fan of ants. They aren't offensive, but I've killed enough of them that I don't care much to see them in media.

>>33485008
Is this a Dune reference?

>>33485011
No, it's from Star Wars.

>>33485013
Same thing, pretty much.

>>33485009
Have you ever put fire ants on your private parts and let them bite away at your most sensitive regions?

Hi girls :3

>>33485006
Player is size of an ant, they have settings to make the spider less spidery, wait tipl you see the koi fish

>>33485014
I was just joking, it's from Frankenstein.

>>33484621 (OP)
What is the name of this actress?

>>33485021
If I can not inspire love, I will cause fear.

>>33484996
How could she have been more sensitive?

>>33485016
No. Bugs aren't on my fetish radar.
>>33485018
You're definitely smaller than an ant. Those daphnia are HUGE. Typically, you can't observe their organs unless they're under a microscope.
>>33485021
Now you're lying.

>>33485009
That should make you want to see them more, for you would be honoring your opponents from honorable battle.

>>33485021
Frankenstein's Monster was the original incel

>>33485027
Ok, it wss actually a bible quote, you got me there!

>>33485027
You won't be saying that when your torturers put a tarantula up your thigh that is going to jizz all over you with its giant hairy tarantula penis

>>33485026
That has already been answered several times in this thread.

Men, you don't really think that going on ONE date means you're in a relationship, do you?

Women, thoughts on gooning?
JH specifically, do you consider yourself a gooner?

>>33485033
I thought that when I was young (early 20s) and it caused me a lot of pain and confusion.

>>33485033
No.

>>33485033
>"Would you like to go see [movie] with me?"
>"Sorry, I'm too busy."
>"Oh, okay."
>"Heyyy guess what, I just saw [movie] with someone else. I'm not too busy for [movie], I'm TOO BUSY FOR YOU."

>>33485024
>What is the name of this actress?
I'm going to hope that's sarcasm.

>>33485027
You ride an ant in the second one and a ladybug is like 2 or 3 player heights across, while the spiders are mostly 2-3 ladybugs across which is small for a spider

>>33485028
They're not scary enough to want to kill, but not harmless enough to leave alone. I just don't want to deal with them.
>>33485030
Tell the truth.
>>33485031
Spider silk doesn't bother me. Your weird fetishes are starting to, though. At least make it a spider-human hybrid.

>>33485038
No. Ive seen her face before but I forgot her name

>>33485037
Yes, women give you polite excuses so that you don't keep pushing or try to bully them into a date. Are you retarted?

>>33485034
I hate the term, and I argue that I can't be a gooner by definition because I don't support the label.
>>33485039
They were saying I should buy a computer to play the second one with them. They even offered to give me their old parts. But I seriously just don't have time or coordination to play serious games.

>>33485043
I've seen your face before, my friend
But I don't know if you know who I am

>>33485044
That isn't polite, saying it wasnt working out would have been

>>33485037
She was too busy. She said was too busy. Some time after that, when she was less busy, she went on a date with another guy that did not involve seeing a movie. She informed him about that. At what point could she have done anything different?

>>33485017
Hello there.

>>33485034
Nta, it's alright. I swear some people goon to weird shit though.

>>33485046
But you do have time for unserious ones?

Did your mother make you wear a helmet when you were a child, so that you wouldn't bump your head into walls or try to head butt people during your spastic episodes? And did she also walk you around the grocer shop on a leash?

>>33485043
Her name is IN THE DAMN PICTURE. Summer Glau.

If my libido is higher than my boyfriend's should I kill myself?

>>33485037
take the hint
if we tell you we don't want to
you get angry and lash out
ghosting is the only fucking thing that works

>>33485046
>or coordination
Did you try turn-based games again? You don't need above-average hand-eye coordination to play Chess... or Slay the Spire.

>>33485054
No? There's other guys out there.

>>33485033
No, but that doesn't change the fact that you owe someone basic respect and communication.

>>33485060
You ain't owed shit.

>>33485040
I'll tell you the truth next time you're not being snarky.

>>33485059
Impossible.
It's only slightly higher but I feel so fucking ashamed. Maybe I need to take antidepressants or hormones.

>>33485063
If it's only slight I don't see the problem. Just means you'll need to handle yourself occasionally instead.

>>33485063
This girl needs therapy.

>>33485053
Doesn’t sound like a real name, it sounds more like a german kink sex event.

>>33485060
You aren't owed anything, because even we do this it's not good enough and you get angry and lash out. It's better to leave men alone/slowly disengage. Any form of honesty is misconstrued and we're needled

>>33485051
Yeh. Idly playing slots or Loop Hero or very rarely stuff like Slay the Spire where I can turn it off whenever. That I can do.

>>33485057
I've been trying Slay the Spire. I suck at it.
>>33485062
What if I apologize for the snark?

>>33485046
>argue that I can't be a gooner by definition because I don't support the label.
That's a horrible non-argument and you know that, don't be disingenuous.
That's like a racist saying he doesn't like being labelled a racist.

Women owe me german kink sex

>>33485054
>If my libido is higher than my boyfriend's should I kill myself?
No, you should kill him.

>>33485070
Everybody sucks at Slay the Spire when they start. Gotta figure out what sorta strategies work, and how to save your health as much as possible.

>>33485070
Last time I asked you had dropped it. You've picked it up again? My first win was playing the second character and stacking poison after poison after poison, and I wonder if that strategy might work for you.

>>33485054
If it's an issue, you won't be happy.

How cooked am I?
I only started dating this girl a about 3 weeks ago, but it's clear that she sees a future with me and doesn't have anyone else. I don't really see it going anywhere but I keep seeing her out of pity. I feel like every time I meet up with her it's just gonna make the inevitable breakup worse, but there never seems to be a good time to do it

>>33485069
This is also a game you can turn off lmao.
Though in a shared world your friends might progress without you.
Logged on and one friend had created a nice organized base where I had just a leanto and some storage

>>33485061

Then I guess if I go and rape that girl is fine? She isn't owned anything, including safety, or autonomy of her own body.

>>33485068
In the example of the other anon, what was the point of telling him that he went on another date with another person? Is that quietly leaving alone or disengaging? Saying "they always do that so I won't treat them with respect anyway" is just an excuse built on fear and bad experiences to be hurtful first.

>>33485078
This is bait

>>33485081
I genuinely stopped reading after the first line.
Thanks for proving me correct in doing so.

>>33485072
Ach schieße dumköpf, was mächen ßie?

>>33485071
I thought gooning was something purposeful. Like there's a culture behind gooning with the intent to make it an identity. I just masturbate a lot because I physically have to.

>>33485085
Your purpose is to cum.

Why can I talk to people all normal like but as soon as conversations start leening towards romance or sexual matters I shut down? I am a man yet I do not seek out sexual encounters or romantic companionship from other men or women. I legit wanna know, am I asexual, an incel or just weird and harmless?

>>33485084
ISS DEINE SCHNITZEL SONST BEKOMMST DU KEIN NACHTISCH

>>33485087
>other men
are you a fag? generally doesn't happen with the same sex unless you're homo

>>33485084
ich liebe gasförmige Frauen

>>33485074
>>33485076
I don't "drop" things, I just don't play it much. I'm not seeing much progress at all, always die at or right after the boss.
It doesn't seem reliable to go in with a strategy in mind, since you just don't get certain cards sometimes.
>>33485079
I mean like there's never a level of engagement that allows me to leave and go back in ten minutes later if I need to. I need games I can pause and leave alone.
>>33485086
Then why the fuck can't I recently?

>>33485087
>am I asexual, an incel or just weird and harmless?
Those things do not exclude each other.
Most likely asexual, no?

>>33485092
>Then why the fuck can't I recently?
Hole craving dick and rough usage.

Women are small angels that can be crushed into angel dust

>>33484831
Absolutely. You get the Normies and then the fucking Redditors. The Redditors worship science and technology while knowing jack shit. They lord their fake expertise around because it gives them some semblance of authority. They turn every discussion political and enforce a kind of Marxism where conformity with the party is absolute and purity in ideology must be enforced at all costs. Ineffective retards that should be put to work grinding oats vs shitting up the internet with their filth.

>>33485092
>always die at or right after the boss
That's pretty good for a new player with not much game experience. Pretty sure I was in the same boat when I started it.
>It doesn't seem reliable to go in with a strategy in mind
Well yeah, you've gotta learn the cards, which ones synergize well together, and build your deck based on which ones ya get. Each class usually has several "intended" strategies. Like the green class has a bunch of poison cards, so if you find yourself getting several of those, you can try to focus on it.

>>33485092
I don't know about the mobile version, but on PC you can "savescum", meaning restarting a battle by saving and quitting as soon as you realize the battle isn't going your way. You shouldn't use this to beat the game (that's cheating) but you can use this to try out different strategies on the same battle.

a good friend of mine sent me this last night, it's completely kosher right? i'm female he's male:
>Kinda drunk rn, but wanted to say that I'm proud of u and wish u the best

>>33485098
>They turn every discussion political and enforce a kind of Marxism where conformity with the party is absolute and purity in ideology must be enforced at all costs.
So they are the normie equivalent of poltards, that's funny.

Day 4 nofap. So horny I could fuck a hole into a wall, or fuck a fat girl.

state gender
favourite tupac song

>>33485105
>or a fat girl
h-hey

>>33485102
Tell him you're sorry for being busy but are just on a date.

>>33485107
You want my Vril?

>>33485094
I can't say I disagree, even if you phrased it so distastefully.
>>33485100
>need to learn
>for a game
Ahhhhh.
>>33485101
I don't cheat in games.

>>33485106
M
None.

Or that California one he was involved in, I think?

>>33485108
that's not true, i'm not busy and i'm not dating. i just want to gauge if that meant anything more
i had a really rough year and almost sudoku-ed so it probably is just him being nice right

>>33485102
I'm also proud of you. This is because you beat that videogame, right?

>>33485113
Sorry, I was joking about a post from earlier in the thread.

>right
How big is your crush on him?

>>33485110
>need to learn for a game
Learning is fun! At least for card games. Maybe not so much for school.

>>33485109
maybe............

>>33485103
I see that angle there and am inclined to agree, but also think they’re more extreme than poltards. I could go on and on about them, but I need to go buy some groceries. More canned soup

>>33485113
the comment is fine but every male friend youve ever had wants to fuck you
you better spread those legs ASAP as a reward

>>33485114
>I'm also proud of you
thanks anon
>>33485115
>How big is your crush on him
I don't develop crushes on men unless I know for certain they like me. It's a safety and defense mechanism

>>33485111
he did make a California song so yes

>>33485078
>I feel like every time I meet up with her it's just gonna make the inevitable breakup worse
Correct.

>>33485119
>wants to
i don't think in this case it would be wants to

>>33485120
Then you may never find out.
Would you want him to be romantically interested?

>>33485080
>what was the point of telling him that he went on another date with another person?
The point was, he wouldn't take the hint, so she had to give him a bigger hint.

>>33484621 (OP)
Can I ever truly be attractive at 5 foot 8? I feel like my height truly cripples me in terms of attractiveness and that I'll never actually be attractive to women.

I have redeming qualites, I work out, my face is often rated 6-7/10, I am ambitious and actually actively pursuing my goals I have broad shoulders, im decently hung, I am social and well read on alot of topics. I also write and want to eventually become a director so its not like I have a dull inner self either aside from all the vain qualities. My standards are not high either and I don't hate women specifically either although I see most people as vain, cruel, imature and shallow women included.

But my height has truly become a point of absolute obsession, I feel as if I am just disqualified because of it and that i just by definition can not be attractive because of it. Also for context the average height in my country for a man is 5 foot 11.

Could the traits I listed compensate for my height? Is there some critical flaw im missing? Or am I just right to feel its a deal breaker.

>text a female riend Im proud of her
>doesnt give me sex as a reward for my nice comment
should I destroy her emotionally? I know all her weaknesses. I could send her a texts that'd send her back into depression

>>33485117
Do you have big fat titties with pink nips? Big enough to wrap around my aching cock and milk me dry?

>>33485127
>first line
Skip, next.

>>33485132
Right? there's so much stupid bait here

>>33485126
And if instead of hints the girl just said "I had a lot of fun, but I don't think this is going to work, I wish you the best" neither of them would have wasted time or hurt anyone by playing stupid games. Like I said that's the opposite of disengaging quietly or protecting yourself.

>>33485130
why are you like this?
Does anyone have any intel on this guy?
Are you the one that posted your dick on soc yesterday

>>33485133
I can only agree with you, again. lol

>>33485127
Your height is not an issue. But this attitude:
>my height has truly become a point of absolute obsession, I feel as if I am just disqualified because of it and that i just by definition can not be attractive because of it.
that's repulsive.

>>33485130
Boob Autist is really losing it these days.

>>33485129
>should I destroy her emotionally? I know all her weaknesses. I could send her a texts that'd send her back into depression
try me

Women
Should I value your political opinion

>>33485142
I think you stink.

>>33485142
u ghey

>>33485145
I showered not that long ago
>>33485147
maybe i should be, men are so awful to me

>>33485148
>I showered not that long ago
...it didn't help.

>>33485144
Not like anybody cares what you value. lmao

>>33485132
>>33485133
I know it seems like bait but this is genuinely how I feel. I'm noticeably short in real life and by online standards im practically seen as subhuman.
>>33485138
But is it really that inaccurate? I mean how can i not be obsessed when its such a cultral focal point.

>>33485149
>it didn't help
hygiene is important to me, i don't stink

Will I get pussy if I act like 1980s Ric Flair?

>>33485148
Stinky gay stingy kay

>>33485017
Yo

>>33485135
She made it crystal clear that it wasn't going to work out between them. But he was too autistic to understand. That was not her fault. When you've told a guy several times that it's not going to work out and he won't leave you alone, at that point you have no choice but to say "look, I'm seeing someone else, okay?"

What the guy is doing here is the equivalent of travelling to a foreign country and then complaining that no one speaks his language. He needs to learn to communicate in Normie; it's not her job to learn how to speak Autist.

>>33485154
>Will I get pussy
If you have to ask..........

>>33485144
>Should I value your political opinion
No one gives a fuck what you think, about that or anything else.

>>33485097
>I can be cocain
Wheeeee

>>33485155
this made me laugh, thanks depression cured

>>33485151
>But is it really that inaccurate?
Yes.

>>33485157
Going on a date with someone and the postponing the next is not "making crystal clear that it's not going to work" or "communicating in normie". That would be, in fact, saying something like "this isn't going to work". What she did was giving vague hints without saying anything outright, the opposite of communication.

>>33485157
>She made it crystal clear that it wasn't going to work out between them
I think you're imagining some other post that Anon didn't write. What Anon actually wrote, outside of your imagination:
>she says she wants to have a second date

>>33485130
>>33485140
Lmao. That was a good laugh.

>>33485160
You mean Phencyclidine (PCP).

>>33485157
>But he was too autistic to understand
For the millionth time, he understood.
The way it was delivered was needlessly insensitive.

>>33485154
No. Act like the undertaker instead. Even if you're balding.

>>33484958
Dabbed as in picked on? She's 13 years old than me and full of sarcasm, so she usually starts it.

>>33485161
Happi grill :)

Women, would you date a genwunner?

>>33485167
That's not nice tho.

>dabbing meme has faded so far into irrelevance nobody gets it anymore
we live in dire times
its been almost 10 years so I cant blame any of you I suppose

>>33485172
I am mostly that. Cept like, Lugia.

>>33485034
I don't get it, but my mood comes and goes. Most of my bfs have had a fairly consistent sex drive with my current partner being the highest.

>>33485090
No, I just figured I'd get ahead of people assuing me of being into men.

>>33485094
I might be, I honestly feel no real desire to have relationships or sexual encounters

>>33485162
Then why is it such a worshipped trait? why does everyone talk about 6 foot as if its the marker between disgusting and beautiful? Why does every study and expression of women online support the idea that short men are just deeply unattractive?

I mean if a trait is seen as so hideous that 70% of women would filter it out online without caring about anything else then doesn't that mean its practically more important than anything else?

>>33485182
>I honestly feel no real desire to have relationships or sexual encounters
that's so sad

tfw you aura farmed too close to the sun

>>33485163
>>33485164
Yes, that's how a woman makes it clear she doesn't want to see you. Why? Because if she tells you flat out that she doesn't want to see you, you'll get angry. So instead she says "of course, I'd LIKE to see you, I'm just really, really, REALLY busy right now". And every time you ask for another date she says "Sorry, I'm still really, REALLY busy" and prays that this time you will get the hint.

Guys, seriously: please learn this stuff. It's important.

>>33485182
>have relationships or sexual encounters
That's different things though.
Many asexuals still want a relationship with talking, cuddling and spending time together.
I guess you are also aromantic?

>>33485183
you need to see a professional if height is on your mind this much

>>33485168
>he understood
He didn't. If he had understood, he wouldn't have been surprised that she was dating someone else.

>>33485183
>everyone
It's 80% incels.

>>33485183
Women are performative, they perform differently online than they do in real life, because a different performance is expected in each context. If meeting women online is closed off to you then suck it up, accept it, and go meet women IRL instead.

>>33485191
Being busy means nothing, except for just that, I am busy.
You're weird.

>>33485087
Shut down as in get too uncomfortable to talk? Might be worth talking to a therapist about. Do you have negative views on relationships? Or just no interest in them? If you're otherwise content and happy with your life, you're probably asexual

>>33485188
Using prejudice and bad experiences to justify lackluster communication and shitty behavior is not a solution.

>>33485183
>Then why is it such a worshipped trait?
Outside of 4chan it isn't.

>inb4 Tinder height filter
Tinder isn't the real world either.

this is the ideal woman:
>maximum height of 5'5
>cute looking rather than sexy
>insecure about herself
>loves cooking
>is asian
>has few friends
>doesnt go out to bars or clubs
>bit of a home body or outdoorsy type

>>33485195
No, it means she doesn't want to see you any more. How do you get through life not knowing stuff this basic? If she had *actually* been busy she would have suggested a different day.

>>33485197
It's not prejudice if it actually happens.

>>33485200
>>maximum height of 5'5
no
>>cute looking rather than sexy
idk probably neither
>>insecure about herself
yeah
>>loves cooking
eh
>>is asian
no
>>has few friends
yeah
>>doesnt go out to bars or clubs
yeah
>>bit of a home body or outdoorsy type
homebody

>>33485200
Sexy is better than cute.

>>33485201
NTA You seem to think that people don't understand it.They do, it's just that everybody but you think that it's a retarded way to communicate.

>>33485197
There was no lackluster communication, it was crystal clear. Any non-autistic person understands that.

>>33485203
I know it happens, my intention was not denying that. But assuming that it's going to happen every time, therefore you're justified in not communicating or hurting others it the prejudice.

>>33485205
youre so wrong words do not exist to express how wrong you are

>>33485197
You're wasting your time arguing with him. He doesn't actually care about women's experiences, he's not defending her behavior with sincerity or in good faith, he just wants to feel superior to other men.

>>33485190
I have they just keep dismissing it. I don't think they understand just how bad it is. I really think about it everytime I go outside and feel sick to my stomach with envy and misanthropy.

>>33485192
Most of this seems from the online accounts of women on things like fmd and also a dose of real life teasing or even bullying about it.
>>33485193
I don't mind never succeeding online I just hate the idea that this is truly how people feel behind all the politeness in real life. That they truly find me disgusting.
>>33485198
You'll find height worship in everything from ancient myth to historical figures and everywhere in almost every facit of modern culture.

Why aren't men out there?

>>33485151
you're right, no man your height or shorter has ever found relationships or happiness. only men 5'9 and up. you should end it and just give up now

>>33485210
Yea, on opposite day.

>>33485206
>They do
He clearly didn't, or he wouldn't have kept pestering her for dates and eventually forced her to escalate to "there's someone else"

>>33485208
>Anon I want to meet you
>Actually you should understand that I'm trying to say the opposite, but it's your job to assume it

Peak communication. If I say that I want you to buy me an apple, you should know already that I prefer oranges and that's what I actually wanted. Is it that hard to say what you really mean?

>>33485204
How tall are you?

>>33485219
that's how normies operate
adapt or die

>>33485209
How many times, in your mind, is a woman supposed to put up with a man getting angry with her in order to spare your feelings?

>>33485211
I know, just want to see how far he can run trying to defend communication while at the same time not actually saying anything.

>>33485219
You cannot be this autistic.

>>33484626
F
Like absolute shit. My BMI is 22, and I just feel... Plump. I wanna be at 20.

>>33485230
Plap

>>33485223
What I'd like is, at least, being given the chance to prove that I'm not going to kill anyone before the girl decides that wasting my time and playing with my feelings or expectations without me giving any reason is good communication.

>>33485222
>>33485228
You don't get it, all my comments were my way to communicate, I was actually agreeing with you the whole time. It's not my fault you don't understand what I was tring to say from the beginning.

>>33485232
>What I'd like is, at least, being given the chance to prove that I'm not going to kill anyone
Well, you need to talk to your fellow men about that and get them to stop killing people.

>>33485213
>You'll find height worship in everything from ancient myth to historical figures and everywhere in almost every facit of modern culture.
The very first King of Israel is introduced by informing us that he is taller than all other men.

>1 Samuel 9:2
>2 And he had a son, whose name was Saul, a choice young man, and a goodly: and there was not among the children of Israel a goodlier person than he: from his shoulders and upward he was higher than any of the people.
Can there be any doubt that heightism is an invention of the Jews?

>>33485213
>Most of this seems from the online accounts of women
Not really.

>>33485240
Sure, I'll do it when you speak to your fellow women and tell them to stop lumping us all together as killers and rapists, and when you stop judging men for their height and using them for dinner dates.

We can all play at justifying our behavior with cheap generalizations.

>>33485222
No we don't.

>>33485232
NTA
You're not entitled to a chance. It's something an individual decides to give you or not.

>>33485246
>your fellow women
Anon, I...

>>33485249
>posting on 4chan claiming to be normie

>>33485248
Fine, but then assume that you are being prejudiced instead of defending retarded ways to communicate.

>>33485251
Ha ha you clicked the wrong post ha ha ha ha ha.

>>33485249
It said "your fellow men", so I assume that it must be a woman. Otherwise the point is completely retarded, because that would mean that he(?) also kills people, and he should be talking to men first.

>>33485253
I myself am prejudiced, yeah. I don't have a fucking duty to protect anyone's feelings, especially if the person is making me uncomfortable or is making me feel fearful.

Kinda funny how women scream at any sign of misogyny no matter how small but laugh at the thought that misandry could exist

>>33485215
>in the house, where the women aren't
Shut the fuck up dumbass retard boomer, I see maybe 3 women my age outside in an entire week, I see more children than I do women over 18 and under 30, this nigger is advocating for pedophilia.
Mods and my personal army, find this niggers address, we're going to lynch him.

>>33485260
How's the groveling in your own victimhood working for you, anon?

>>33485258
You're not having an actual conversation with someone's real position, you're speaking with someone who's taking the contrary position in order to entertain themselves.

>>33485259
Perfect, you do you. Then we agree that, in your case, the point of saying "Yeah, I want a second date" and not breaking things off directly is based out of prejudice rather than believing that it's a reasonable way to communicate?

>>33485265
The joke's on them, I'm doing the same.

>>33484958
Using the definition from >>33485170, I would probably get mad (obviously)

The first thing that cane to my mind when I read it was like dab as in the pose lol. If that happened, very confused reaction.

>>33485266
I think not saying what you mean is in general extremely infantile. Assuming everyone posting here is above 18, just be honest. Sure, polite, but fucking honest. I don't understand pussyfooting.
Never asked for a 2nd date unless I was actually interested in it.

>>33485061
>You ain't owed shit.
Said single whore.

>>33485263
Can ask the same about women

>>33484626
M
Too skinny. Working on it.

>>33485072
Nein?

>>33485280
Looking at the ratio of men crying and shitting their pants about their own victimhoods iit, your point doesn't really stand.

>>33485275
Good, you've seen what we were discussing about, right?

>>33485287
>iit
There's 20 sausages for every taco in this thread at best so the ratio is gonna be skewed

>>33485271
No, by calling them a woman they win and you lose the game. They get the pleasure of fooling you without actually needing to lie in the process. You got played, boss.

>>33485288
Yeah. At the same time, you're asking for a 2nd chance when that doesn't come in the form of politeness to begin with.
And it's not surprising to me that a woman, presumably smaller and weaker than you physically would not want to provoke a violent reaction in a guy.

All people have whatever they're going through, don't get so hung up on it. You don't need to take it as a personal attack that a woman is trying not to get murdered.
Would I do it differently? Yeah, likely. But I'd also not be very direct if I felt I had no efficient ways of escaping.

>>33485196
Well let's say for example you're having causal conversation with a coworker, like you aren't friend friends with them, you just tend to speak to them alot while on the clock and another one comes up and they start talking about how attractive another person is or the conversation ends up in takling about sex either in a horn dog way or a matter of fact kinda way, once it goes there I have no idea how to respond anymore so I just end my participation in that discussion by saying I don't have any experience in that and one of three things tends to always happen, they'll either question why since I'm in my 30s now, they'll awkwardly change the subject or they'll ignore me and keep talking as I leave to go back to work.

Women
If you had an autistic bf would you defend him if he was being verbally abused/chew out?

>>33485319
>would you defend him
if he is being attacked without it being warranted, yes. If he is in the wrong, no

>>33485053
>we're in the same timeline where cringefest Summer Glau played a Terminator and star actress Lena Headey played Sarah Connor

everything bad that's happened since then has been punishment for the cringe

>>33485322
What if it was an dystopian militarized advanced equipment police officer with an assault rifle with an intimidating voice through a speaker in his sci fi helmet?

>>33485299
Besides my personal opinions on regards of assuming that if a guy will react violently or not, like I said I completely understand if you don't want to risk it.

I know it's not a personnal attack, but at the same time it's still being judged for things you haven't done and considered that you're not "good" regardless of your intentions or actions. Not trying to say this is worse than the other, it's overall shitty for everyone.

>>33485328
>cop
we're both fucked

Would you find this funny? In my defense, I thought I would be able to send a follow-up message

>>33485319
I don’t think I can have autistic bf, seems so tiring

>>33485336
no that would dry up my coochie
i would think you're being serious having had compsci friends before
i hate coding so much it's unreal

>>33485260
Funny how incels whine about everything, but it’s all their own fault

>>33485336
Really random and unfunny. Either give a serious reply or say something actually funny.

Men. If your gf compulsively kept looking at scantily clad women in the street (including literally turning her head after they walked passed), because she has an eating disorder so obsessively looks at women who are skinnier than her, would you think she was a lesbian?

>>33485215
Countless reasons
>I'm not extroverted at all, so I have to force myself to go out and be social
>when I do go out with people, it's usually meh at best
>I'm poor and it's expensive
>I have nothing to offer women or am attractive
>I'm socially inept and weird, I'm really bad at making conversation
>I'm not just going to start approaching random women I don't know and creeping them out
>video games on the other hand are loads of fun
I did meet my ex at a bar though who moved on me, but sadly that didn't work out. And I've gotten girls' numbers years ago at nightclubs, but most of them barely texted me back let alone wanted to go on a date. For most of us 4chan losers it's just not really worth it. That time is better spent working on yourself to become more successful/attractive, or doing fun things like vidya.

>>33485341
>>33485345
It's so joever. I was going to say the little prince but I didn't know it wouldn't allow me to send another message...

>>33485215
The best part of video games is that I don’t have to go outside where men will try to approach me.

>>33485328
Why do you have to be so autistic.

>>33485357
I don't know which one would be worse, honestly.

>>33485333
Why u ain’ stan’in up fo yo man

>>33485353
No lol if that's where it's coming from. Would just feel a bit sad desu and hope that she could gradually get better with her disorder and learn to love her own body
My ex was a bit like this, she didn't like wearing sleeveless tops in public etc. cause she thought her arms were fat, but I was very attracted to her (i wouldn't be going out with her if I wasn't...)

>>33485364
why are you typing like that?

>>33485344
Is it their fault that heightism exists yet you mock them for feeling insecure?

>>33485353
If I didn't know about the disorder I guess I'd think that.

>>33485341
>i hate coding so much it's unreal
lmao
Show me on the object model where the compiler failed on you.

>>33485362
>>33485368
You guys aren’t fun at all
Why are women like this

>>33485336
Aw man as a dude I thought this was kinda funny...
>>33485341
Why do you hate coding D:
>>33485357
These kind of dorky jokes are very hit or miss desu. If you used this line on my old stacy slut friend who likes geeks she would find it funny but she's a rare breed

>>33485353
How does your ED manifest?

Men
I have an uneven waist
Should I go to a doctor about it?

>>33485262
Tbf I see tons of women my age when I'm out and about, especially at the student frequented bars and stuff
But who just goes approaching random women... creeper moment...
But yeah bro sounds very out of touch. He reminds me of the British oldfag anon here who's like "I went from an incel at 23 to a bodycount of 40, just beee yourself"...
>>33485230
Hot
>>33485200
My "ideal" woman is the polar opposite of this ngl
>>33485087
Depends if you have sexual desires but are uncomfortable or anxious about it, or if you're genuinely just not sexually attracted to people
>>33485230
Hot

>>33485383
What do you mean by uneven? Higher in one place? Wider in another?

>>33485377
Ask a woman, I'm a man.

>>33485383
You think it's cancer?

>>33485302
For work, sex talk is unprofessional and it's best to remove yourself from that. Though it sounds more like you're just inexperienced and have no input. Would it be the same if two people talked about a hobby you've never tried? Or does the awkward feeling only come up around sexual topics?

>>33485363
Eh. I think Test-Driven Development with Python is worse. With the little prince maybe there's a chance that she liked it too. I don't know who would ever think of Test-Driven Development with Python if someone asked them about a book(unless it was about how to do test-driven development with python)
>>33485378
Thanks bro...

>>33485378
Fuck off, QT, the thread was better when you were gone.

>>33485200
My "ideal" woman is the polar opposite of this lol
>>33485087
Depends if you have sexual desires but are uncomfortable or anxious about it, or if you're genuinely just not sexually attracted to people
>>33485078
Don't lead her on anon, you have to bite the bullet
It sucks but it's for the best for both of you
>>33485188
Yeah once a girl asked for my number, but then after blowing me off like 2/3 times I took the hint she must've met someone else or been drunk lol
>>33485383
Is that a... bad thing? Idk I guess if you're concerned then better safe than sorry. Maybe you can get like shoe supports or something to help level out, if it is putting strain on a leg or whatever. But do you have any other symptoms?

>>33485378
>why do you hate coding D:
i'm retarded duh
also that would mainly be a joke other men appreciate

>>33485387
Higher in one place, I think I might have scoliosis
>>33485389
>You think it's cancer?
No I mean a spine doctor

>>33485382
>How does your ED manifest?
I compulsively observe skinny women, including literal children oftentimes. I go through cycles of eating 400kcal and walking 2 hours a day until I get to BMI 17-18.5 and then spend a month returning to BMI 20 by severe binge eating (over 5000kcal a day, not exaggerating). I mostly wear 4XL t-shirts and body-check a lot.

>>33485378
Fuck on, QT, the thread is better when you are here.

>>33485391
Idk about you but The Little Prince we did in elementary school, so a lot of girls would've heard of it at least
>>33485398
I'm also retarded, coding is one of the few things I was good at kek
>mainly be a joke other men appreciate
I guess, or autist girls
>>33485393
Who?

>>33485399
Then you should probably go to a doctor before it gets worse, yeah.

>>33485408
i am an autist girl
i don't like coding

>>33485390
it only comes up with sexual stuff, other things I also shy away from but can still continue talking

>>33485399
Definitely get it checked out if you can (they might just refer you for an x-ray) cause there are treatments if that is the case
>>33485038
I didn't know either til googling it
>>33484993
I've played grounded with a couple [f people kek, honey I shrunk the kids-ahh game
>>33484621 (OP)
>tfw Summer Glau is 44
What a MILF

>>33485408
>Who?
You're a slimy, dishonest poster. You cannot be trusted for anything, not in here and not in real life either, which the people close to you have learned the hard way.

>>33485410
Ok I guess you got the non-coding type of autism then
What are your interest
>>33484973
Sakaki would be one of those goths who still wore pink cat panties and socks
>>33484955
That sounds sick af kek
Breakdancing is not easy man
>>33484943
Not really, because if she's the kind to cheat, then she could cheat with anyone else too and just not tell them she has a bf
Cheating and homewrecking is le bad

>>33485405
NTA but that sucks. Why do you do that?

>>33485399
>No I mean a spine doctor
>me reading this laying on my couch all day because my hips suddenlx started hurting yesterday after hiking
Go get potential bad spine posture checked out asap.
The longer you wait, the bigger the damage is and the longer it will take to correct.

>>33485405
So you are, objectively speaking, not overweight.
5k kcal is a ton, even for me as a tall guy that'd be very bloating.
Would you be ok with having your bf cook for you? Or us cooking together?

Male here. Do unemployed men deserve to be in a relationship? Why or why not?

>>33485383
Worth getting a quick x ray for. Might also be hypermobility or other issue

>>33485431
i'm an unemployed female and i don't think i deserve to be in a relationship right now

>the mass replying spamming attention whore is ban evading and back again
Great.
It was really nice without you.

>>33485413
Sounds like you have some deeper feelings to unpack over it. Things dont make people uncomfortable for no reason. Even phobias have a basis and reinforcement idea around it.

>>33484929
>She didnt show the guy any respect, why would he show it back?
Bc you should be respectful on your own principles regardless
Anyway they only went on one date lol it's not that deep
e.g. if he has any other dates lined up he could just ask how she's doing, say she hoped she had fun on her date and that he's also planning to do x with someone, that way you basically end on good terms

>>33485336
As a man its kinda funny but its 100% pussy repellent

>>33485353
eating disorder girls are "I can fix her" in a good way

>>33485434
Would you ever be up for it though?(not with me)

>>33485431
M
Unemployed guys, generally, throughout the course of history, have always had the most sex with the most beautiful women.

>>33485431
M
What money are you going to go on dates with kek? It was hard enough dating when I was waging full-time
Depends how much money you have and how much she values time with you vs. ambition ig. But I'd say get your affairs in order first

>>33485437
Fuck off qt

>>33485428
>Go get potential bad spine posture checked out asap.
I'm scared
>>33485432
How can I get the xray done quickly? I'll probably need a referral, right?

>>33485431
In theory yes, and I've seen unemployed guys get in a relationship. If it were me I'd feel bad tho.

>>33485434
>i don't think i deserve to be in a relationship right now
Why?

>>33485441
probably not. i feel like i need to have some semblance of stability to be able to enter a healthy relationship

>>33485446
You don't need to be scared of getting checked out.

>>33485450
i'm not working because of mental reasons
i haven't been taking good care of myself
not a good time to consider a relationship

>>33485445
Thanks for calling me cute but why do I need to leave
>>33485127
5'8" is average dude...
I'm 5'7", don't work out, am not ambitious or social kek and have still dated
You are markedly above average overall
You sound like an anxious perfectionist who's chosen this one characteristic to hyperfixate on. Do you have any other mental health issues or have seen a psych? Not to be rude but this is your primary issue here, not your perfectly adequate height

>>33485451
Good attitude.

>>33485413
Are you a virgin? In my case I also feel a bit uncomfortable when people bring up sexual topics due to my lack of sexual experience and being self conscious about it.

>>33485446
>How can I get the xray done quickly? I'll probably need a referral, right?
Usually. Depending on your doctor and insurance. If you're US based, make an appointment with your primary about it. If they're based out of a hospital, they might be able to get you in that day. Otherwise it shouldn't take long to schedule it since it's super quick.

>>33485453
I'm scared it's too late to fix and I'm scared it's going to cost a lot to see a doctor

>>33485455
Go to a national park take in everything for 5 minutes breathe in and out, next go to the closet ocean do the same

>>33485460
>make an appointment with your primary about it
I don't like my primary she's so mean to me
But I'll call and ask, she's been slacking on refilling one of my prescriptions anyway

>>33485461
See what I said above >>33485428
>The longer you wait, the bigger the damage is and the longer it will take to correct.

>>33485467
Try out a different GP then if possible.

>>33485461
I second other anons, it is treatable and manageable (and no point catastrophising anyway until you get it looked at), but it is worth trying to see somebody sooner rather than later

>>33485462
I've already done this pretty recently but thanks

>>33485444
>>33485448
>>33485451
Yeah... Honestly, even just flirting with other people freaks me out cause what if they end up liking me and I have to tell them I'm unemployed?

>>33485455
What made you quit?
Or did the job quit happen before the issues?

>>33485478
i dont want to talk about it

Why is my ex such a femcel bruh...
Tbf she said after that she's working 60 hour weeks over the summer so not had much time for f a m/friends
Glad she's on the grind though and seems to be doing well
Anons what is your biggest struggle rn but also your biggest win

Any aura hunters itt

>>33485462
Nta but I'm dying over the idea of just going to my closest ocean for a quick breath when I live in the Midwest. It's either an expensive flight or 10+ hour drive

>>33485477
I mean it depends how much money you have saved up and how long you can afford to coast; a more bohemian-type chick might like the fact you're not a slave to the system and can follow your passions blah blah. But if you can't afford to take her out on dates and treat her then yeah that's not gr8. You would have to be a real smooth talker or find a doormat to pull that one off prolly

>>33485471
All right
Do you think theres a chance I can find one that does xrays in house
>>33485473
Alright thanks

>>33485484
NTA but same. I don't live in the USA but in the middle of my country, literally the place furthest from any ocean.

>>33485477
Being unemployed is only an issue if you can't afford it.

>>33485481
Well alright, but that makes giving input way harder.
Like you might have good reasons or not.

>>33485489
I have never heard of a GP that has an xray in house.

>girl cancels date on me because she was tired
>not really bothered but start becoming less responsive to her
>she starts sending face pics and nudes again
>asks what I'm doing next week while flashing her tits
Is it really this easy?

>>33485482
>Biggest struggle
Finding a girlfriend

>Biggest win
>Consider the possibility that maybe, just maybe, I'm not completely despicable and unlovable.

>>33485436
Maybe
>>33485459
Yes, I have absolute zero experience in the world of sex let alone relationships

>>33485493
If they like you, I guess so.

>>33484626
M
Could be better. I'm 5'6 and fluctuate between 130-150, averaging 140 when I'm neither cutting nor letting loose. Honestly, letting my weight go past 130 feels really bad because my face looks more bloated and jawline becomes less noticeable.
The fact that I've been lifting since 2018 but only have a moderate amount of muscle tone and still no abs is disheartening.

>>33485493
Nooo, don't you know that somebody saying they got not time at the moment, means they want you to stop talking to them?? >:(((

>>33485483
>hii Phineasss boo, did you pick up out welfare check yet??
>nahh cuz Izabella babygirl I was like "I know what we're gonna do today" and spent that money on this sick sleeve and... shii I'm high af, where that nigga Perry @"
Anyway I'm more of an aura punter than an aura hunter desu
I'm basically Dr. Doofenshmirtz with my pointless backstories about my childhood jk
>>33485489
Idk how it works where you are, usually here they refer to the hospital/walk-in clinic for an x-ray but it's a straightforward process (just check that they send the correct referral over...)
>>33485493
Reschedule the date bruh
>>33485496
That's a good start wooo

>>33485499
Do you think that may be the case? That you don't in those conversations because you feel out of place?

>>33485483
It aint no hunt nigga, my aura been farmed since day 1 on GOD

>>33485482
I drove a car around recently it made me happy

>>33485509
Stop spamming mass replying, ban evading piece of shit.

>>33485491
>I have never heard of a GP that has an xray in house.
Ugh I don't want to go and pay $20 to see a gp and then maybe not even get an x ray referral which will probably be scheduled a month out I wish I could just get a full body scan and be done with this shit

>>33485504
That's what I'm unsure of.
>>33485508
That's what people say when it comes to dating- people will make time when they're interested in you.
>>33485509
Isn't it commonplace to put the ball in her court since I arranged the previous date and got canceled on?

>>33485488
>>33485491
Fair enough. Maybe I'm just overthinking it.

>>33485516
Are you on reddit mod duty

>>33485525
She sent you nudes while asking you when can you meet her nigga what do you mean you're unsure?

>>33485330
>I know it's not a personnal attack, but at the same time it's still being judged for things you haven't done and considered that you're not "good" regardless of your intentions or actions. Not trying to say this is worse than the other, it's overall shitty for everyone.
Safety trumps personal feelings, anon.

>>33485509
>>33485527
Hey QT, if you want to know what kind of people admire you, it's a guy who had children and then abandoned them.

>>33485532
And that's why I said that despite my feelings or opinions I understand if someone doesn't want to take the risk. Your point?

>>33485353
Yes.

>>33484642
BMI is outdated and useless. Bodyfat % is a vastly superior barometer of health.

>>33485539
I'm adding to your point, I do agree that it's shitty. Just on the basis of women and men being different, it was almost impossible that people wouldn't need to be wary.
Same with social classes, different countries, etc.

I mean it as more of a consequence of existence.

>>33485510
it might be.

>>33484644
>4chan bf
You deserve everything bad that happened.

>>33485545
But bodyfat is much more difficult to estimate.

Having sex one day is literally my sole motivation for working out.

>>33485548
nta
But pretty sure if the roles were reversed you'd be here complaining about le females.

>>33485549
Even using calipers to get a ballpark is going to be more useful than BMI. BMI completely ignores muscle weight.

>>33485556
Plenty of faggots on this site would be, but I can assure you that's not the case for me. The people who complain about women on this website are turbo-autists with no social skills.

>>33485557
Every fat man imagines that he's secretly Arnold Schwarzenegger with a thin layer of chub on top.

When would it be appropriate to ask a girl on a pedicure date? 3 or 4?I need to get my feet done anyways, and I think it could be a general fun thing to do as a date activity? I don't want it to come across as a foot fetish thing, I don't have a FF, I just don't want it to seem like I might...

Gender
Should I silently ignore questions I don't understand?
You're intentionally being incomprehensible in order to filter people like me, right?

>>33485556
damned if we do, damned if we don't. men are awful

>>33485561
Unless you're insanely obese, you have some muscle weight.

>>33485215
>if you're not a creep
>or completely socially inept
Oh no

I wish I had a 4chan gf so bad but I'm a massive pervert who thinks about sex constantly and would want to jerk off with her every night and write letters and stuff constantly.

>>33485526
The trash already got thrown out again. haha

>>33485563
F
>Should I silently ignore questions I don't understand?
I'd ask them to repeat the question in different words.
>You're intentionally being incomprehensible in order to filter people like me, right?
Not sure. What situation specifically?

Based mods.
Thank you, mods.
I love you, mods.

>>33485576
Just wish he would finally get the message that he is unwanted and a massive net negative to the thread.
Ah who am I kidding, he knows but choses to be unlikeable.

>>33485546
True. That's why I don't think men and women can really understand each other, our experiences are too different.

I really hate women.

Men, how would you celebrate your gf finally getting an orgasm after working at it for hours?

>>33485580
Maybe not completely. But in the same sense, no other woman can understand me completely either.
As long as we try, I think that's what matters.

>>33485547
I'm no therapist, but I think you should work on getting rid of those feelings first. You don't have to participate in those conversations, but it should be because you really don't want to, rather than feeling incapable.

>>33485583
My what now?

>>33485570
posting this knowing full well most of the femanons here would be into that

>>33485587
I guess I'm more cynical about it, I yearn for a kind of understanding that I know it's impossible, and trying doesn't substitute it.

>>33485521
>I wish I could just get a full body scan and be done with this shit
You can?
But that is very expensive.
And pointless too, unless you know whst to xray and how to analyze them yourself.

No offense, but you are being unnecessarily complicated.

>>33485570
Sounds good to me.

>>33485536
Not true, and weren’t you were having a meltdown last thread over wanting to be a woman lmfao

>>33485583
Genuinely I would hold her close and tell her I'm proud of her, actually pressing her head against my chest and rubbing my hands over her naval and her breasts. It's not easy to cum and she's such a good girl for finally relaxing and letting it happen. I'd tell her to close her eyes and just pay attention to the way her pussy feels, her thighs, her breathing, and to remember it. I'd tell her to imagine little golden threads of light being sewn into her body along the path of the pleasure, to thread and weave them across her pelvis and the walls of her pussy and to imagine the threads being pulled tighter, binding the feeling, lacing it through her folds, and the next time she wants to cum she can just start by pulling on that thread and her body will remember.

>>33485604
Femanons don't read this you'll soak your underwears in an instant.

>>33485595
I don't exactly consider myself an optimist, but more of a "I hate to see other people hurt" kind of person.
Trying isn't a substitute, but it has made me understand men better in the long run. When we don't try at all, it's a bit like when artists drop their art because they can't achieve perfection.
I've ended up understanding men much better through my own relationship. Since I can actually have a more in dept look at the hows and whys.
But if we come from a perspective of "I'm not going to make the effort", it certainly just further isolates us. We don't have to empathize with the other side either. Just more understanding where they're coming from.

>>33485576
Qt is a gem and you are genuinely the faggiest person I’ve ever met

>>33485596
I'll figure it out. I'm worried I'll show up at the doctor and they'll laugh at me and say I was being paranoid

>>33485610
Then you need a better doctor.

>>33485594
>>33485597
Maybe they should do that then. I only want one 4chan GF to share pleasure with.

>>33485604
This is me. Part of the problem is just that it's kind of hard to get in touch with femanons.

>>33485574
>Not sure. What situation specifically?
I was thinking about generational gap. Young people have always invented stupid slang words and expressions to set themselves apart from the older generations, right? Or more generally not understanding some slang shows you're not part of the in-group and so you should be filtered.

>>33485604
>>33485606
I bet you're fat from all that cheese

>>33485608
I guess trying is better than give up, but when both feel equally unsatisfactory it's hard to think that it matters. I've already understood many things about women, both here and irl, but I don't honestly think that will change much anything. But again, that's probably just because of my expectations.

>>33485583
I thought the orgasm *was* the celebration.

Personally I have the opposite problem. Delaying an orgasm for hours is an achievement and the reward is a more satisfying orgasm.

>>33485618
I bet you're wobbly from all that jelly.

>>33485616
>Part of the problem is just that it's kind of hard to get in touch with femanons.
Getting in touch is not the hard part.
Finding one who isn't just all pretending to be interested, but then immediately back out, actually is. Most just like to play around superficially and act like they'd want to talk. They don't really want to talk, but rather play some questionable game of pretend.
Simply put, they're nearly all pussies.

>>33484626
M
I'm down a lot lower than I've been for a while but I'm still 7-10 lbs above where I want to be.
Once I'm down to that level I will realize that the problem isn't my numerical weight, it's that I have no stomach muscle definition.

>>33485621
>no u

>>33485619
Expectations also vastly depend on what context you're meeting. I'd say it would be fair to expect someone to address you politely if you're in a polite setting and so on.
Either way, only you can control your actions and reactions. Other people do their own thing. So I'd say as long as you're not taking to heart how other people decide to conduct themselves, it's fine. Sure you may be disappointed, but from my own experience and from what my husband has taught me, it's important to have a big separation between your own feelings and random people.

>>33485627
You offered no argument in the first place.

>>33485629
Cry about it

>>33485622
I've already apologized to you, why are you still doing this?

Your gender + rate your experience with life from 1 to 10

>>33485617
>Young people have always invented stupid slang words and expressions to set themselves apart from the older generations, right?
Yeah.
>Or more generally not understanding some slang shows you're not part of the in-group and so you should be filtered.
They don't really do it to filter other people out. Filtering out is more of a consequence.
It's been happening since different languages exist. It just so happens that you're from a different context, and consequentially, you'll have more trouble understanding people from different languages, cultures, generations, etc...

>>33485622
I'm fine with playing pretend at first. Since fantasy is the foundation to start with. If anything else builds beyond that then that's great, but right now I'm looking for a femanon who just wants a private sexting partner who will make sure she cums and who enjoys writing with creative, beautiful women.

>>33485616
Aren't you the one that posted his dick on /soc/ the other day kek

>>33485635
10 with room for 11+

>>33484751
It's a bit of one in that if she gets a navel piercing, she's the type of person to get piercings and make herself look bad.
I wouldn't say it's indicative of anything besides really bad taste though. But that's something in of itself.

>>33485622
There's only one maleanon in this general worth talking to. And I found him and thank God he lives a mile from me.

>>33485635
F
I'll give it a solid 5
I've gone through way too much bullshit, but I also have great things I was able to build for myself.

>>33485635
F. 10. I have nothing to complain about, genuinely.

>>33485638
You keep asking all sorts of people this question, I think you're trying to get in touch with that cock.

>>33485642
Rude.

>>33485638
No? I'm not. I've posted my discord on Soc a few times before though but id expect I have a good track record even if people asked around. Last time I posted was chatting with a euro femanon and we just had a good conversation for a few days about books and castles.

>>33485648
No, it's just you. the definitive hornyposter who keeps writing smut

anons is any of the advice given here worth while? It seems like a constant stream of pity stories and like
>30m virgin wat do i do

and the responses usually are not very helpful and just tend to nitpick either the OP, or someone else in the thread trying to give advice.

>>33485654
I usually try to give honest advice, as long as the other is willing to listen.

>>33485583
If I've been eating her out for hours and she finally came, I am either using her thighs, crotch, or butt as a pillow immediately because I'm probably exhausted

>>33485633
I am not whoever you think I am, but it's ironic you have this reaction and feel called out.

>>33485637
It's fine to a degree sure, after all we're all anons here so I might as well be a 10 ton pink hippo.
I've hornyposted with many femanons and don't expect it to go anywhere more serious. It's just like when they show interest in actually exchanging contacts, they either get cold feet before or right after.
The honest femanons who don't do that or actually stick to their words and keep in touch, are angels.

>>33485654
Good questions can get good answers.
Bad questions can only get bad answers.
It may not be fair to people who have genuine problems but don't know the right way to ask their questions, but such is life.

>>33485635
M
4, could be worse but isn't merely boring, it's grindy

>>33485654
If the advice here don't work for you nothing will

>>33485654
The oldfag Brit anon gives very good, genuine advice. I would listen to him, and a few other kind anons, but disregard most other advice.

>>33485635
M
2 out of 10. extremely weak, the best parts have all come from mostly myself, which is how it scores a 2.

>>33485033
No, it's "supposed" to be 3 and then you discuss it, or something like that.

But there is also some context-dependent parts. It's a very different situation between "met on a dating app" in which case, definitely at least 3 dates, maybe more, versus "met IRL and have interacted a few times, there is obvious attraction between the two of you, and the last couple times you have been overtly physical with each other" in which case you could easily justify getting into a relationship after a single date, or even without.

>>33485635
M
5, steadily going down due to my mental state.

>>33485353
Historically my crushes have overwhelmingly been lesbians so I would already be thinking it, but that would make it worse
I'd hope if I asked about it she'd explain, or even that she might volunteer the information

>>33485671
I thought there was only one hornyposter, but being new here it's clear it's several of the regular male posters here. Disappointing

>>33485215
I haven't met any single girls since high school wtf I don't believe this

>>33485677
Yes, Anon, all the patterns you're seeing are real, it's all a conspiracy against you.

>>33485215
They are, they just aren't in New York City where that woman probably lives.
If you go to most social events in my state, it's 70% men, 30% women-in-relationships.

>>33485682
>conspiracy against me
No, it's not a conspiracy against me. There are patterns but I'm human and wrong sometimes. I can admit that

>>33485677
I didn't write your post but what's your deal with it? Anon was giving an on-topic answer to a question. Are you really going to go full
>"STOP ANSWERING QUESTIONS I DON'T LIKE"
now?

>>33485677
Being a hornyposter is what got me several femanons private contacts.

>>33485685
What? why are you being so aggressive and weird what did I even do

>>33485353
I'd rather she looked at them for sexual reasons than ED reasons.
I feel like ED girl would be the type to ask me questions like "isn't that girl hot? don't worry, you can be honest" and then get mad at me if I were honest and did think she was attractive