Thread 33484884

They all have people they share history with, favorite people and past partners. Feels meaningess trying to connect to people who will always have somone they think about more fondly especially since ive always had one friend my whole life.

>>33484884 (OP)
Yes. You're just making shit up to get upset about.

>>33484884 (OP)
Everyone goes through life stages. You grow up, you move, you go to university, you get a job, and so on. And every change puts you in a new world with new people you had nothing in common with before but now do. So the guy at the next desk in your new job may be better friend material right now than the guy you grew up with but hardly see anymore

>>33484884 (OP)
>After a certain age is it even worth
I stopped reading. I won't read calendar of doom threads.

>>33484884 (OP)
>Feels meaningess trying to connect to people who will always have somone they think about more fondly
Why not trying to connect with losers here that don't have any friends? I also only have one or two friends, and they are online friends at that, lmao

>>33484884 (OP)
I'm starting to feel like friendship is off the table at my age but for different reasons. I think til your late twenties it's easy to start over and/or make more though.

>>33484884 (OP)
What is the right age to stop trying to get more friends at conventions?

>>33484884 (OP)
Yeah, everything is pointless. Keep sitting there your whole life making up excuses and imaginary obstacles that prevent you from doing what you want.

fucking retarded idiot nigger.

Age and time are excuses. If you want friends, go make them.

Can’t speak for others but ag 37, it’s absolutely pointless
Just waiting to die at this point tbH

I could wake up tomorrow with a loyal 8/10 waifu and it would do nothing because my mental is already scarred beyond repair
I personally gave up at 29 but yeah

>>33484884 (OP)
https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32

It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 30 or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.

>>33484884 (OP)
It's like asking if after a certain point you should stop exercising. Like yeah you'll be okay without exercise but your health and subsequent life quality will tank rapidly because socialization is a need, much like moving your body is a need - it won't out right kill you if you don't do it but it'll have long term consequences on your health and quality of life.


I say this as I lay in my bed touching myself 15 times a day btw and only going out of the house to train with my physiotherapist once a week and play d&d and most recently Pathfinder

>>33486566
>He's mad at OP because he's also mad at himself
I can relate

>>33484884 (OP)
>Yes, it's late as shit since the moment you were born. You lacked the conditions to be good, you lack the personality to captivate people, you WASTED IT ALL OF YOUR POTENTIAL and YOU'RE PERMANENTLY CURSED TO BE ALONE

Fuck whatever demon you have on your ear telling you that, devils corrupt by giving half truths to make you conclude you're a hopeless piece of shit. Whenever you feel like you failed you'll hear his voice, "see? i was right. YOU'RE A WORM TRYING TO CARVE THROUGH REALITY". See the problem is that that demon is only pushing you to the edge and can be relentless if you keep listening to him, the demon lives inside of your heart twisting any kind of plan by poisoning it with fatalism based on prior memories. Cause the demon will say "but i was right though, they fucked you up didnt they?".

As crazy as it sounds, eating the bitter pill of trying again makes the demon be at halt, waiting to tear you apart if you fail. the side effects of trying again might be change, but it's not assured to occur neither quickly nor effectively.

Now beware that humans are just a bit more intelligent than a chimp. They're volatile and they are cowardly. They'll usually go for what's convenient and sometimes, it's very convenient to have honest friends. But their nature has to conclude that investing in an honest relationship it's worth it, you can somewhat push them to that conclusion but you can never make them accept you by force in most cases.

Take the gamble that sometimes being "good" is convenient for the health of your soul, if it's possible.