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Anonymous No.33489924 >>33490038 >>33490315
How do you talk to girls at run clubs?
My social skills are horrible and I haven't talked to a girl ever since graduating high-school, which was over 6 years ago. Been a NEET ever since but I exercise regularly and thought that joining a run club would be a good first step towards a better life.
Anonymous No.33489934 >>33489951
KAKERUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
Anonymous No.33489951 >>33493665
>>33489934
>make it to the Hakone Ekiden and then tell the run club girls about it
Got it, thank you.
Anonymous No.33490038
>>33489924 (OP)
I won't read yet another how to get runner women thread - it trips the made-up meme alarm.
Anonymous No.33490315 >>33490452
>>33489924 (OP)
First, don’t do that thing we you see one cute girl and she says hi to you and you imagine a complete and full life with her and create a personality for her that’s is perfect for you in your head like most anons do. That’s just gonna lead to disappointment the first time you find out she isn’t exactly like you pictured her in your head.
Second, run clubs can be clique-y so don’t get discouraged if you aren’t friends with everyone and don’t have a gf after 2 weeks. In a lot of cases people show up 1/2 times then disappear so regulars aren’t going to interact unless they know you are there to stay. Look for opportunities to volunteer or set up early as they will get more people comfortable with you and know you want to be there
Next, try to find a club that isn’t just running. Maybe they have after run drinks/meals/get togethers so there are opportunities to meet/talk outside of running.
Finally, don’t just zero in on one girl at the club you want to ask out (see first paragraph again). Try to make friends with multiple people. People get to know you as just a friendly guy at run club. Then as you get to know some of the women you can ask one out that you actually know something about.
Anonymous No.33490452 >>33493416 >>33495478
>>33490315
From what I have seen on Insta the run club owner looks like a stereotypical Chad. The club on strava is also like 80% girls. They do events like coffee, party, yoga, pilates etc. and some of those are like 100% female, only the owner in sight.
Maybe it's a strategy from him to fuck as many girls as possible. My strava invite request is still pending, I don't know if I can even join, seems like he only accepts hot girls.
Anonymous No.33493416
>>33490452
This guy sounds utterly based.
Anonymous No.33493665
>>33489951
OOOOJIIIII-SAAAAAAAAAAAAAN
Anonymous No.33495478
>>33490452
maybe hes gay