Thread 33493385

How do I deal with the burning guilt and misery of being ugly?

I don't blame others standards or women or any retarded shit like that, I just feel so, apathetic and hopeless, it makes me cry alot, whenever beauty is mentioned, even in a jokey context, knowing that I would never be counted in those discussions.

by getting jacked

>>33493395
Getting jacked won't make me any less uglier, just more macho and masculine I guess, but I feel like the ugliness itself transcends even physical boundaries, I feel it deep in my soul, my face is misaligned

If you're still young, you can always focus on your career and credit score to finance cosmetic surgery.

I know it might sound unsavory, but it could make you feel happier with yourself.

>>33493405
you don't know shit

>>33493420
I will go from organically ugly and unpleasant to look at to artificially synthetic, either way, something will always look off about me, and even if others thought I looked nice, deep in my soul, I know I'm not comfortable with myself

>>33493426
I mean I know friends who have been to the gym, I'm not denying the positive health benefits and how looking more fit would make you more attractive, thing is, they all still look like themselves, just better and more fit, I don't wanna just look better and more fit, I want to fundamentally completely restart from point 1 with how I look in every way

>>33493430
I mean you can just seethe or try and make a difference.

Being a defeatist means choosing unhappiness, I fell into a similar hole and wasted a lot of time. Defeatism is a poison, live your life anon.

>>33493435
>i want the impossible
uh huh
have you tried being a whiney faggot about it?
I hear having a shit personality goes great with being ugly

>>33493471
Thanks. Il try having a shitty personality too

>>33493405
>my face is misaligned
Asymmetry is a real killer. Even if you don't have ugly features but you have an asymmetrical face, women will reject you subconsciously and people in general will distrust you and assume the worst about you. It's how they are programmed to operate.
Basically just a 1-2mm of asymmetry can destroy your life in very subtle ways and most people will not even realize the huge negative impact it has on their daily life. They can go a whole life without figuring it out.

>>33493568
> women will reject you subconsciously
I guess I can say this is true, at least to me.
I knew this dude in high school, moderately attractive guy, decent enough personality.
but it always fucking bothered me one of his eyes was off center by like a quarter inch. nobody else would say or even acknowledge it but I just could not stop fucking staring at this dude's off-kiltered eye.
he even tried to hit me up on Snapchat to go on a date or something like a year or two later and I couldn't take him seriously even then because of his eye.

>>33493568
It drives me fucking nuts because it's so subtle yet so fucking soul crushing, it makes me look uncanny, people look at me weird constantly and I know exactly why.

I think my only solution is old Pervy gay dudes to feel any semblance of want or acceptance

>>33493385 (OP)
Try developing a personality.

>>33493773
Looks = Personality

>>33493568
Everyone's faces are slightly asymmetrical (not just faces, people's bodies are too). In fact meeting a person with a perfectly symmetrical face can often look super weird if you're not used to it.

>>33493851
Hole cope. Imagine lying like that to people including to yourself.

>>33493385 (OP)
I won't read yet another cope thread. it is either fishing for sympathy or picking a fight. This is an advice board.

>>33493922
>literal fact is now considered cope by /adv/
???

>>33493385 (OP)
Stop caring. I'm kind of ugly idgaf. Could be better could be worse

>>33493951
Not the guy you're talking to, however, you forget that asymmetries in most people are imperceptible, unless you have photoshop eyes and keep comparing both sides of the person in real time.

So yes, you're coping

>>33493385 (OP)
Are you white

>>33493385 (OP)
There is no cope for being ugly.
Either hardmaxx or ropemaxx.