Thread 33494209

Why is it so hard to lose your virginity?

I'm a young girl and I consider myself quite pretty.

I've been interested in a lot of guys, but nothing ever happens. They always screw up or it just doesn't work out.

I have friends younger than me who've been doing it since they were very little, and they're much uglier than me.

Am I doing something wrong? I don't want to be the virgin friend in the group...

>>33494209 (OP)
>Lose your virginity
Go to a club, get drunk and start making out with a random nerd

>How do I get the guys I'm after to like me
Talk to them, compliment them, make them feel special. If they stall start flirting. Lead them on physically.

This is literally a non issue for women.

>How do I get in a fulfilling relationship
Be yourself :^)

>>33494209 (OP)
Please get better bait, you're not even trying.

>>33494234
Yes i am, I always give guys who show interest in me a chance, but they end up walking away because they find someone else or telling me I'm going too fast.

>>33494209 (OP)
Only men need to lose their virginity whore if you lose yours you become less valuable

>>33494227
Thanks for the advice, I'll try it.

Although I already did it once, and the guy left because he had marijuana on him and was afraid the police would see him. :D

>>33494292
Oh, yeah sure.

What kind of guys do you like?

Zoomer boys are very porn addicted, and have been from a young age due to growing up in the digital age.

Boys are gonna seek porn, I am an older millenial and I didnt have easy access to internet porn until I was about 16 luckily. Until then it was magazines/DVDs/print outs I got from friends and all the porn was very vanilla and normal.

Now boys can access any porn they want, any fetish, just by searching it up. They keep chasing highs with new kinks and end up needing too much stimulation to get aroused.

Often vanilla sex with a girl isn't enough for them, I'm sorry.

Not even anti-porn, but access to every kind of porn whenever you want is not healthy and not comparable random vanilla sex clips/nudes.

>>33494209 (OP)
>I'm a young girl and I consider myself quite pretty.
this is a lie.
in case of being true, you are either.
-Clinically retarded
or
-Ugly as seen

>>33494496
I don't have a type, just that they are my height or taller, and not much older than me, that scares me.

>>33494558
It's not a lie. I'd post a photo of myself to prove it, but knowing this place's reputation, it's better not to.

I don't know, maybe I just have to wait.

>>33494561
Gen Z men are trash and it's not even their fault or they are leftist cucks brainwashed by feminism or they are conservatard idiots

>>33494561
>I don't have a type, just that they are my height or taller, and not much older than me, that scares me.
This sounds like a huge bait.

How tall are you?
How old are you?
Are you from Europe?

>>33494569
wait, you are a woman. that's your claim.
you born with a pussy or are you a troon freak?

>>33494579
>No sir, I won't take showers, pleeeease

>>33494608
Projection.

>>33494546
Maybe, idk

>>33494614
>Projection.

>>33494621
ok coomee

>>33494600
Yes, I am, I am 1.60m tall, and I am 17

>>33494607
Yes, I'm a girl, I think I already made that clear, lol

>>33494629
>17
You do know that you can't be here right? You're a minor...

I am 23, and 5'11.

But you're a minor, damn. It's ova

>>33494640
again, born as a girl or a tr00n?
if you are a real girl and can't get any dick you have some mental issue. or you are ugly af.
if you are a trannie then you also have severe mental issues and no one wants you.

>>33494640
By the way, I think it's a bait thread, but my advice is, don't loose your virginity just because.

Find a good guy and marry him, you can literally weaponize your virginity as to not have to work anymore.

>>33494649
Yeah, that's what I meant when I said I was young. I know I shouldn't be here, but I just don't know where else I can talk about this or ask for advice.

When I talk about this with my friends, they all always tell me to wait and smile, and that doesn't help.

And when I talk about it with guys, they do the same thing. So I was curious. I wanted to know if I could get any other kind of advice here.

Besides, I'm turning 18 next month.

>>33494657
I swear I don't have one, I'm literally a normal girl, sometimes not everyone just because they have some defect means they can't get something like sex.

>>33494665
It's not bait, but well, I don't know, that's what my mother tells me lol, but I don't like that idea very much.

>>33494209 (OP)
You are not enough of a whore.
Think about it that way, you wait for the relationship with the male of your choice to click, until then you don't feel ready for sex.
Often times when a young woman loses her virginity she got talk into sex until she caved in. And then she developes a sort of affinity for sex when she likes it enough.
So you being a virgin isn't necessary a bad thing since you kind of have a standard

>>33494705
I guess, it's not that I see being a virgin as a bad thing, I think it's perfect in fact, but I haven't wanted to be one for a long time, and what frustrates me is that people make it seem so easy, but when it's my turn something always happens and it doesn't happen, I'm not afraid of stopping being one.

>>33494743
Maybe you're just socially retarded. Many men are as well.
But it's easy for a woman to bend the will of a man and steer them. That's how it has always been.
So if you really want to get rid of your virginity then find out how pursue men by trail and error.

>>33494685
>I don't like that idea very much.
Why? Maybe because you haven't worked a 9 to 5, as soon as you start working a 9 to 5, your opinion will def change.

>>33494743
It sounds a little bad that I have to bend a man's will and steer them. When you guys lose your virginity, do you also resort to that?

>>33494771
>It sounds a little bad that I have to bend a man's will and steer them. When you guys lose your virginity, do you also resort to that

>>33494783
I don't think so, but I don't know, I'll have to wait to find out if you are saying true.

>>33494813
Im not a woman and I lost my virginity when I was around 20 or so. Mad luck on my part because I have never had sex since.
The thing is, if you really want to lose your virginity that badly you kinda have to do what men are normally supposed to do. If they don't come to you you have to come to them.
Or alternatively just go to places where people hook up, you will probably be approached there.

>>33494679
Typed by male hands. That's not what women focus on.

>>33494849
God, you don't know how much I want to prove to you that I'm a girl. Why is so hard for you to accept that? Is there any way I can prove it to you without exposing myself (I mean without posting pictures of myself and that kind of stuf)?

>>33494867
Hands are a indicator of gender

>>33494831
Yes, I do that. In my country, they usually do those things at the summer festivals in the towns, but the same thing always happens to me, I meet a new guy, or I approach him or he approaches me, we kiss, and then he leaves and nothing else happens.

>>33494885
How long does it take between the initial meeting and kissing and it all not turning into anything?
Do you show interest or are one of these people who leaves everyone on read?

>>33494873
ok, like this? (I'm tanned because well, it's summer, beach, you know)

This has to be bait

>>33494904
Now show us so we can see your nails

>>33494896
When that happens, normaly can happend two things, the first is that the guy leaves before he even gives me his Instagram, the other is that he starts following me, and I follow him back, but he doesn't send me any messages, and when I do, he either leaves me on read or answers me like nonchalant.

>>33494917
okey

>>33494920
I think you need to be more aggressive about it. It's very to just disassociate with people over the Internet. I know because it's the same with me and my friends. We only write each other every blue moon or even read our messages
You should set up a date and be adamant about it.

>>33494929
Clean under your nails

>>33494935
Okay, I'll do it next time. :)

Your palm is longer than mine. What ethnicity are you?

>>33494938
I'm sorry, I went out with my little sister to play and well, I got dirty. :\

>>33494948

I am Spanish, but my mother is Brazilian, and my father is Spanish, although I don't think my hand is that big, people have always told me that I have a small hands.

>>33494968
Yeah, maybe I'm just a bit of a schizo comparing my hand to yours
>Spanish
Have you tired going for white guys? I'm sure they like to hook up with a brown cutie

>>33494977
Aww thankss!, yes I have, in fact I think I'm more attracted to white guys.

>>33495009
That's good, I'm sure even 4chan boys would want you.
So you are an actual zoomet are you.

>>33495036
>zoomet
Umm, what does it mean to be a zoomet? Sorry, but I'm not familiar with that term...

>>33495054
Means your young

>>33495121
ahh, yes, I am

>>33495148
How old are you if you don't mind me asking

>>33495154
I'm 17, I know I shouldn't be here, another guy already told me, but I'm turning 18 next month.

>>33495163
And your really that concerned with being a virgin?
Take it slow girl

>>33495194
Yes, you're right, it's just that I get frustrated, because everyone in my circle of friends has already done it, the last time I went out partying I became friends with a guy I saw on the street, and he told me that he didn't believe I was a virgin, and he said it was impossible for me to be a virgin, that frustrated me even more.

>>33495212
I think you worry too much about it.
Eventually you find a nice guy with whom you want to take things further.
Nothing wrong with that

>>33494209 (OP)
>Am I doing something wrong?
Yes

sex = fuck so fuck around and find out is ... not recommend

You are retarded for wanting to lose your virginity. Wait until you are married. You will only devastate yourself emotionally if you do that. The world doesn't need more corrupted women but less. Your whore friends are not a good influence on you. You're a zoomer and your generation is fucked. Thank God I was born more than a decade earlier than you.

You also don't look white (don't shit us on being tanned), so guys are naturally choosing the white whore they can get with. Preserve your purity and ditch your whore friends. Join a local Catholic or Orthoox church. There is an oversupply of men there and likely one will fit the bill.

>>33494209 (OP)
>They always screw up

Its you who decides whether they "screw up". As a wild guess , it sounds as if you are scared and looking for reasons to reject a guy you are into before anything happens.

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