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Anonymous No.33501819 >>33501924 >>33502055 >>33502886 >>33503253 >>33505308 >>33505337
Why do normies perceive attractive people as more flirty than they actually are?

I see this a lot, where somebody attractive is interpreted as flirting or hitting on others, despite behaving in the most benign ways and showing no actual interest in them, and it often ends with them being confused by why others would assume there was any interest in the first place

Like bruh, she was just being polite like any civilized human should
Girl, he was just taking your order because that's his job

Fucking retards with no social skills, I swear
Anonymous No.33501924
>>33501819 (OP)
Wishful thinking
Anonymous No.33502055
>>33501819 (OP)
I have no idea who you're talking about so I won't read it.
Anonymous No.33502826
>tfw people turn into dysfunctional messes the moment an attractive person walks in
>tfw attractive people can inspire sudden feelings like rage, jealousy, or insecurity in others (even if they're not aware of it)
>tfw attractive people are often perceived as more functional than what may be actually reality (so if you're attractive and have a medical condition or an invisible disability, for example, you might have more trouble being taken seriously)
>tfw attractive people are perceived as being higher end, therefore others tend to conclude that they're not comparable to them
>tfw attractive people make others self-conscious, and feel like they have to be more mindful about how they present themselves
>tfw the halo effect, and how we often attribute positive attributes to an attractive person's character and personality despite doing fucking nothing to warrant these attributions
>tfw there's SSSSOOOOOOO many social media videos where the starring individual depict themselves as bubbly and outgoing around people they have no interest in, but cold, distant, and even a little bit hostile towards those they are attracted to
In short, people act like fucking retards around attractive individuals
Anonymous No.33502886
>>33501819 (OP)
Easy. Uggos and normies have put their hands on the stove too many times. They cringe internally every time they have to signal romantic intent because it opens them up to being rejected in a humiliating way. They have internalized the display of that feeling as necessarily meaning you are horny/slutty, because it takes a huge desire for sex for uggos or normies to overcome the cringe and ego hit

For hotties, they never mask the behavior, because they never learn to fear a bad reaction. Their baseline experience of the world is built on a foundation of good reactions and social success with people. The default way they act is more flattering and engaging, because people don't try to humiliate them when they give compliments. Attractive people are not afraid to make platonic comments on looks, because even straight guys will take a muscle Chad telling them "nice lats bruh" as a bro compliment instead of calling them a fag. When you can smile at a cop and get out of a ticket because you're attractive, the cop thinks it was flirting, the attractive person says "cops are just reasonable people you can work things out with"

The day to day life is so different for the attractive they're basically like bonobos to our chimpanzees, genetically identical but just with totally different tendencies
Anonymous No.33503253
>>33501819 (OP)
Would you like any advice, OP? Or are you just here to blogpost
Anonymous No.33505308
>>33501819 (OP)
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-interacting-with-woman-leave-man-cognitively-impaired/
Anonymous No.33505337
>>33501819 (OP)
>Why do normies perceive attractive people as more flirty than they actually are?

Pretty sure that's not a normie thing. You might have the script upside down.