>>33503927 (OP)
being "considered" something is in the eyes of the beholder. This beholder thinks you're a loser not because you don't have a gf, but because of that gobbledigook you wrote at the end about genetics and it being ENTIRELY outside of your control. But I don't think you can't change my friend.
The fact that a woman has to choose you to be able to have a gf, does put a lot of things outside of your control. but not entirely.
cue to the usual advice:
take care of your own health, physically, mentally, take a shower, shave your beard, go to the barber for your hair, buy nice looking clothes, make sure you take showers and brush your teeth and smell good from upclose
then go to hobbies that have women in them, consistently. Commit to said hobbies. If you don't feel like one is enough - do 5, you have 5 days in a week (excluding weekends). On the weekends you can go to more meetups but those are less likely to net you a gf.
hobbies man. stock up on them.
this only applies if you do the health, hygiene and appearance stuff I said above
