Thread 33510668

Where and how do I organically meet girls?

>>33510668 (OP)
Exactly the places you think you meet them. Go to places like coffeeshops, bars, bookstores, farmers markets. Even better if you run into a girl at an event/thing you actually care about.
>how
Make conversation. This is easier if you're attractive, she'll give you more grace and latitude. If you're not attractive, make yourself attractive by lifting weights.
>butbutbut what if she thinks I'm a creep
Lots of them will. The more attractive you are, and the better you are at holding a conversation, the less likely this is. Don't listen to women's advice about all this, by the way -- they don't know what dating is like for men, they think it's basically the same as what they experience except without worrying about safety

>>33510668 (OP)
In the organic produce section.

Don't. Women are just STD ridden town bicycles. There's no point in trying, they're lowly subhuman town bicycles for chad.

>>33510668 (OP)
school, work, and hobbies- you have to share experiences and environments
>>33510748
>coffeeshops, bars, bookstores, farmers markets
stfu

>>33510668 (OP)
By first being organically attractive i.e being 6'5 or more, white, blue/green eyes, broad shouldered, deep voiced Chad and meeting them in clubs, uni events, etc..

>>33510668 (OP)
arranged marriage

>>33510668 (OP)
Just sit in your moms garage and wait until she visits you...

what kind of girl you like? So where that type of girls hang out?

>>33511041
Come on anon, I don’t care how much blackpill retardation you’ve read you do not genuinely believe you have to be 6’5” to get laid

>>33511106
Even if he doesn't, he'll keep repeating it to himself and others to justify the overindulgence in self-pity that he choose to engage with. Blackpillers are cognitively impaired.

>>33510668 (OP)
>organically meet girls?
Which organs do you have in mind?

>>33511018
this. school hobbies and work are way better
>>33511080
also this

>>33511106
>He just doesn't know the absolute state of hoeflation in the year of our lord 2025

>>33511018
>>33513537
school only lasts so long, and work is NOT a good place to meet someone, it will end up holding you back in your career. you have to have hobbies that women enjoy as well unfortunately, and most of them suck.

>>33510668 (OP)
I'm thinking about paying an OF whore to hang out with me in public and make me look taken and cool, and see what happens

If girls don’t drop in to my shut-in life begging me to fuck them, then I’m clearly not meant to ever have sex etc. Simple as.

Literally anywhere besides sitting in your basement.
90% of this incel nonsense is men refusing to leave their room, learn basic social skills, and groom themselves.

>>33510668 (OP)
not here, get off 4chan dumbo

>>33511041
>being 6'5 or more
wait wait wait wait wait, do you guys geniunely believe this? this isn't apart of some bit and is just a big joke? who or what psyoped you into thinking this way?

>>33514963
i wouldn't pay a woman to do that but in my experience women seeing you out with a girl does make them more likely to approach you

>>33510668 (OP)
find a place where they mingle and keep showing up there
>>33510845
(You)'re a fucking faggot

>>33516853
why is it so fucking scary?...
I know that It's the right thing to do to go outside, and I do go outside quite a fucking bit, meeting people and women and talking to them and making friendships in all these meetups I go to every week. Like I do a LOT of shit. But the fear never fucking goes away, why am I so fucking scared, why can't I just get over this, this sucks so hard.
my next fear is dancing, so that's why I joined Bachata and I'm starting it this Monday, but I'm so deathly fucking afraid man.. I really want to do it though because I know It'll be good for my confidence and I can hang out with a bunch of nice chicks who come to dance and express themselves and free themselves with free body expression and through communication with their partner.

>>33517157
>why is it so fucking scary?...
Because deep down both of us know there are a hell of a lot worse things she can say than "no"

>>33516853
Women irl are not receptive at all. Everyone seems to meet through dating apps now.

>>33510668 (OP)
Make better cooler friends. Unironically.

>>33510668 (OP)
Do things outside of your house or have people over. Increase ours of operation.

>>33515025
Based, it was ogre before it even started. I've tried nothing and I'm out of ideas.