Thread 33513339

We were together for 5 years, it's been nearly 6 months and my mind is still racing 24/7. She's all i think about, I don't enjoy anything anymore, haven't smiled or laughed in a very long time. She was the only thing i ever held dear to me. What can I do? Do I just blast myself?

>>33513339 (OP)
why did you broke up? Did she move on? If she didn't move on, text her.

>>33513339 (OP)
>Do I just blast myself?
Yes, please! Anything as long as you stop shitting up this board.

just make the best of your life and move on. there will be another woman for you, God willing. don't give up

modern women are retarded, selfish creatures who have been led astray by our corrupt culture

Shit happens my bro, sometimes its timing sometimes its the thing u need to grow up, start reading shit u dont usually do, start exercising... the most difficult thing to do is start, when ur ready and u begin a new chapter u will feel it, stay strong brother

A breakup isnt as big of a deal as we make it. It sucks and it hurts but it’s part of life. you lose people in one way or another.


If humans were like elves and we lived to be 300 or 500 years old do you think many people would stay married forever? Probably not. People change to much over the course of life. And if you find your perfect soul mate in your eyes and you guys are perfect for eachother, what is stopping life from ripping them away from you in some freak traffic accident or something? That is just life. of all the fucked up shit that can happen in life breaking up while it hurts really is one of the least important things. if you have your health and your family you are doing fucking good. You might not want to accept it but it’s the fucking truth. even if you only have yourself if you have your health you have the potential to do whatever the fuck you want in life if you work hard enough. And in the same way that an ex will replace you often time you will find someone you love in the future who is even better for you. Get over it. every day you feel sad or depressed about it you are only hurting yourself and your future. life can’t have ups without having downs and you can’t experience peaks without going through valleys.as long as you have the future and you have potential there are usually much better times ahead.


Also do not care about people 10x more than they care about you. this is retarded. If someone demonstrates they are tired of you they do not deserve to be in your thoughts any longer. live your life and just concentrate on being twice the person a decade from now that you are today. That’s all life is about. Not fleeting romance. Not missing someone who tossed you away. While many of us including myself have done it it’s just pure retardation.

>>33517611
Also I want to add some real shit here—- life is hard and we all know it, so you owe it to yourself to experience the positive sides of life in exchange for enduring the negative experiences you go through along the way. Out of spite if that’s what it takes you owe it to yourself to push through and give yourself a fair shake in life to experience what you want to experience. Do not sabotage or deprive yourself of that because of some retarded breakup or a divorce. people can leave at any moment in life. That is life. if you give up because of that you are basically ignoring the nature of what life is and making things 500 times as hard for yourself than you should be. If I could go back in time to a point in life where things were so simple that a breakup was the most painful thing I experienced I would genuinely be fucking living in easy mode. I’m telling you this because it’s the truth. If I could go back in time and slap the shit out of myself in the past I would be telling myself everything I’ve told you. There are much darker things in life you will need to endure and push through than being dumped.

Hey OP, at least you made it 5 years. That is a long time. I feel the same way about my 26 month relationship (only relationship I've had) which ended 26 months ago. I'm 36 now and keep getting stood up on Hinge dates. An Hero is in my future.

Must be nice to be a woman, and just toss your pairbonded mate into the bin because you decided you don't like him anymore.

>>33513339 (OP)
If you don't have children, you are free now.
Erase number, block on everything and do things that lead to more autonomy, to being independent from external validation.
Changing where you live or a different job could help to leave your memories behind.
Get a big bore bike some holidays or a trip could help also.

You take what you learned, move forward, and use it to help yourself with the next woman you want to date.