Thread 33515280

>Before
>Sex twice a week
>She never complained about performance
>She would initiate most of the time

>Fast foward to about 2 months ago
>She starts reading Simone de Beauvoir, A Room of One's Own by Virginia Woolf and other feminist authors
>Starts talking about the "orgasm gap" and commenting that men don't care about their partners' pleasure
>Also that women can't cum from penetration, even though I'm pretty sure she did several times. She could have been faking it, but whatever, she never complained until now
>Now I have to spend a full hour fingering her/eating her out, but I'm still always doing it wrong
>If I do it wrong I don't get to put benis inside her
>When I do, she still complains I was going too fast and that we should do more foreplay
>Before, she was eager to try several different positions. Now it's always just missionary
It's gotten to the point where I don't want to go through all this shit only to get lectured at the end for "not putting enough effort to learn about women's bodies" or whatever. How do I fix this?

>>33515280 (OP)
leave your bitch gf

>>33515280 (OP)
Twice a week?

>>33515362
I would have fucked her more often if we weren't constantly busy

>orgasm gap
duh?
that gap would be bigger if everyone was only masturbating
i swear women are retarded

tell her she made sex a chore so you're going to find someone better to do it with

oh no! you have to snuggle and kiss your gf and eat her pussy for hours!

i sincerely hope you find your way through the unfairness of this tribulation in your life. one can only imagine

>>33515280 (OP)
Tell her that sex with her isn't fun anymore and that you aren't satisfied and you'd like that to change. Also, it can't be directly from Woolfe and Simone because they don't talk about any orgasm gap

>>33515280 (OP)
do you not get off on eating out her pussy? god gave women clits for the express purpose of easily bringing them to orgasm in order to get them soaking wet before sliding the cock in. eating pussy is intensely arousing for the man and is meant to occur before every instance of sex, aka it is gods perfect foreplay. eating her out is meant to get you hard and excited while you enjoy experiencing her body and her pleasure. because yeah shes right, women do not feel equivalent orgasmic pleasure to a man when he just sticks his cock in her dry pussy and finishes, sure it will still feel good for her to get fucked but she isnt scaling the peak of orgasm like men do every single time they have sex. trust me in that the temporary physiological changes to her body immediately following orgasm will allow for much greater pleasure when fucking for her, and it should for you too

>>33515280 (OP)
So she finally gained the courage to tell you how bad you are at sex, and you're blaming feminism? Okay.

>>33515512
Then it is probably from the "other feminist authors" he mentioned

Personally, I would never date a feminist. My wife is anti-feminist and we are deeply in love with an amazing relationship even after 18 years

>>33515280 (OP)
>Simone de Beauvoir
She was a Jewish pedo that practiced the Kabbalah... For fucks sake

>>33515280 (OP)
>How do I fix this?
Break up. There's no fixing this situation, she is a subversive bitch that is reading a book made by pedo satanic kike. It's better to just break up with her.

>>33515521
It's not that I didn't eat her pussy out before. It just wasn't an issue whatsoever. Before, I used to eat her out before fucking her, not all the time, but whenever I felt like it. Now it's mandatory, lasts forever, is never good enough and doesn't always lead to actual sex. And then she's pissed at me at the end no matter how much effort I put into it.

>>33515539
>>33515546
By the way, it's not about the sex, you have to satisfy your woman, but she is not asking to be satisfied, she is reading a pedo kike satanic book and ORDERING you around, she should PLEAD, not order, a woman has no right to command a man.

>>33515526
Ok, she could have been lying, but why wait a whole year? Why concidentally only do it after reading a bunch of neurotic nonsense written by sexually frustrated lesbians? I could feel her pussy opening up while going inside her before, I'm pretty sure it's not something she could fake.

>>33515574
desu op if nothing was actually wrong with the sex before then im fairly positive this new stuff is a brief trend for her and will blow away, most new stuff introduced into my bedroom gets forgotten about in less than six months unless it's something we both really actively enjoy. does she give you head at least?

>>33515624
She used to but not anymore

>>33515280 (OP)
>How do I fix this?
Post better bait

>>33515280 (OP)
>What do?
Ultimatum, reject de beautard in her entirety and make an evening of fun where you burn the book together then have wine and retire for a night of PIV sex.

Refusal = immediate termination of relationship.

I'm not joking.

>>33515651
I'd say to not ever tell a romantic paartner that an ultimatum is an ultimatum. They might comply to avoid the negative outcome, but they will likely start to resent you and everything will be fucked. If you feel that strongly about something, you should give a secret ultimatum. Meaning that you ask them to do something, and then if they refuse you start prepping for the breakup. If you're incompatible then you shouldn't force yourselves to be together all full of resentment

>>33515574
Of course she was lying, you idiot. She was just too intimidated to tell you about it. Now she's being honest with you for the first time.

>>33515280 (OP)
>She never complained about performance
That does NOT mean she was happy with it. Maybe she's just found the nerve to complain