Thread 33516688

How the the fuck am I supposed to find a boyfriend online when in most sites including the one I am using (not saying which) you are not allowed to be negative. I have issues with this specifically with mens character since it is easier to say what physical features you do like and pull them. But when it comes to personality well a lot of normie and non normie men are stupid and can't have non shallow convos. How am I supposed to find the ones that can when it is socially unacceptable to say I want a man a guy who can have conversations with?

Maybe there is no advice for this since most people are infact like this which I understand if you can't help because of it but still thank you for reading (also before you give me shit I never said I was a genius but I still want a guy who can have actual conversation)

It doesn't help that all dating sites force you to distill your entire being and energy and aura to a tiny handful of prompts and pictures.

>>33516688 (OP)
I bet most sites will let you phrase this desire as "I want someone I can have deep conversations with"

Also, I thought OkCupid had a good setup with the quizzes and being able to review others' results.

>>33516688 (OP)
Your female? In that case online dating is mostly hook ups from I understand.

Talk to someone irl and see if you like them.

>>33516688 (OP)
No clue. I'm a man but I also run into similar problems with online dating, I feel nothing for almost anyone I match with (even if I find them physically attractive) and the two or so people that I did, because we had shared interests and nice conversations, I got very (internally) butthurt when that didn't work out.
>Talk to someone irl and see if you like them.
Where do you do that if you don't live on campus/go to high school/live in Europe or a big city here in America?

>>33516751
My prompts are mostly stupid jokes because I figured that no girls would match with me if I talked about my interest in medieval history.

>>33516688 (OP)
I think you are wrong, having issues gives men more opportunity to actually construct a conversation, it's much harder when talking about weather and music. when you get a match just do your thing and see if anyone is on your wavelength, what else. I see no point in pretending in a superficial context like online dating anyways

>>33516758
Dude, you're blowing your chance to talk about medieval history with hot girls

>>33516688 (OP)
what is the request here?