Thread 33517853

My 26th birthday is coming soon. So far, I’m still a virgin. It’s not like I haven’t had any opportunities. There were definitely women that made a pass at me but most of the time I’m not attracted to them (could be looks or personality). It’s becoming a genuine fear of mine that I’ll die alone. The older I get the harder it is to find a girl just as inexperienced as I am, and because of that I might be unconsciously (or consciously if I know she’s way younger) rejecting myself from most women.

I want to have a partner but I feel my lack of experience is stopping me from getting one. If I do hire an escort I’m gonna end up grossing out every decent woman out there by saying I paid for sex but it’s starting to look like I don’t have any other choice.

>saying I paid for sex
Uhh it's called lying about it. I know weird concept right. You don't think women lie about their body counts? I was in the same shoes as you 2 years as a 24 year old virgin and just went the escort route. Your choice either wait or get it over with.

>>33517879
Isn’t that sad tho? Imagine having a spouse who’s suppose to be your life partner and having to hide things from her for the rest of your life. I can think of one thing I’ll never ever tell my spouse but “how you lost your virginity” might be something that’ll come up eventually

>>33517934
>Isn’t that sad tho?
What do you want me to do about it? It is what it is. Can't magically go back in the past and change it.

>>33517853 (OP)
>I want to have a partner but I feel my lack of experience is stopping me from getting one. If I do hire an escort I’m gonna end up grossing out every decent woman out there by saying I paid for sex but it’s starting to look like I don’t have any other choice.

You lie about it retard, NEVER tell a woman you had sex with an escort, that secret dies with you.

>>33517934
>Isn’t that sad tho? Imagine having a spouse who’s suppose to be your life partner and having to hide things from her for the rest of your life. I can think of one thing I’ll never ever tell my spouse but “how you lost your virginity” might be something that’ll come up eventually

It's nobody's business what you did before the relationship long as you're not fucking whores while you're married with kids.

>>33517853 (OP)
now provided it's legal. Dude I'm a zillienial, and I've just dipped my toes in the zoomette world. hoeflation is so bad, the mid bitches no one would pay attention to have chiseled simps flock to them. I am talking about a bitch that looks like the main character in starwars outlaws. What the fuck has happened, how do zoomer fags even cope with this shit. It is so, so fucking bad.

>>33517853 (OP)
If you make it to 30 without having had sex with someone who isn't a hooker, then you are never going to have sex with someone who isn't a hooker. That doesn't necessarily mean you should hire one, though. Banging hookers is fun, but losing virginity won't actually be an amazing, transformational experience, regardless of who it's with: a few days later you'll feel exactly the same.

>>33517853 (OP)
>At what point do I give up and get an escort?
Before you turn so insecure about sex that become scared of women and kys a few years later.

>>33517934
Its a preconceived notion "to find it sad" (not having hooked up. You may find it a rite of passage into being a full person), and it IS a turnoff for women to find you've been with prostitutes. But you're both an unusual case (you're a virgin at 26 for a reason), and you're someone whose friends would pay an escort for. At the very least just to get it over with.

If sex in itself is a milestone you feel you need to get over with (at 26 most assume you have), then its much more justifiable.

You dont really need sex, but if its such a psychological toll, then you kinda do. When you fuck your first actual girl you will be glad you have the experience. You still hold "losing your virginity" as sacred, as if your 30 ye old crush hast had any questionable hookups by now (as do most adults).

You dont go around telling people your porn habits do you? You àembellish your stories here and there.

>>33517853 (OP)
I met my gf at 26. My advice would be next time a girl shows interest just go for it. If it doesn't work out oh well but at least you'll have spent some time with a girl and maybe gotten laid. Don't worry so fucking much and make peace with the fact that pretty much everyone will have more experience than you at this point. I promise that when you're balls deep that isn't gonna matter to you.

>>33517944
>upgraded

>>33517853 (OP)
So many threads about whores here. I just can't be attracted to a whore like this. Couldn't get aroused it's just gross.

>>33517853 (OP)
what's the point of shagging some rancid whore just to say you've lost your virginity? just try meeting people you actually want to be with long-term and you'll eventually lose your virginity. no one fucking cares how old you are when it happens