Thread 33517979

My gf lays down all day.
Am I overthinking this as a bad trait? Part of me wants to accept her as a slampig in exchange for loss of autonomy.

With consideration to the effort in making friends and finding a new gf, how do I gain autonomy

>>33517979 (OP)
>My gf lays down all day.
What exactly do you mean by this?
If she's literally just lying in bed all day something is wrong with her and you should help her. It might be a physical medical condition, but even if it's mental illness if she's just lying down all day then she needs help out of a pit.
If you just mean she's lazy and getting fat, just say that instead. ESL.

>>33517979 (OP)
Is she depressed?

>>33518225
>>33518941
I just broke up with a girl who had bpd, depression, manipulative personality traits, vulnerable narcissism and she would lay in bed... ALL DAY. Shed flip through social media videos non-stop. I want to kill myself just remembering it and how I succeeded only 1 time in getting her to stop and spend some time with me.

>>33518963
Rape accusations ?
She has bpd

didn't read did OP make the wojaks himself?

>>33519169
She didn't accuse me of that but I'm pretty sure she would dissociate during sex because she had a weird squeak noise like a broken toy that she would make and she limited us to once per day.

She completely ruined our relationship though, EVEN THOUGH SHE LOVED ME AND WENT INSANE WHEN IT ENDED. She just could not stop doing that would mess with my emotions and mind in ways I didn't even know possible. For example, did you know you can run out of emotion? It actually happened to me where I had no emotion whatsoever one day and I couldn't do anything. Apparently there was always a reserve of a small amount of emotion that I'd been using my whole life to take any sort of action physically, and I took it for granted. Well whatever that emotion tank is, it can go completely empty and that's what happens when it does. It was BIZARRE. I can't explain which sequence of messed up events caused that, but it happened

>>33519258
No. Although the pic is fake. In real one she’d be wearing CPAP machine.

>>33517979 (OP)
Unironically, fat hypothyroid women are this way.
Does she even shower? Hope you could stand her ass stench.
They are worst than cattle, can't be mothers or wives, just have fun anon, and hope some normal women will chose you to mate.

>>33520497
Are you BPD?
There are signs that I might be creating fantasies that exacerbate the conflicts i have with her but its hard to believe when any quack doctor i see just gives me a new diagnosis.
Is it ever worth proving you're right?

>>33517979 (OP)
Its a bad trait. I just had to let go of my first ever gf because she demanded that I sacrifice my entire lifestyle in order to be with her. She wanted me to be her therapist, her home healthcare nurse and her emotional support animal and I just couldn't take it anymore. She couldn't understand why I didn't just want to have a lazy day and just cuddle all day, but I've just got too much on my plate. Every time I did something to better myself she would pitch a fit. If I tried to take her with me she would drag me down and complain. If I tried to go without her she would demand lengthy daily video chats, stalk me on life360 and send me passive-aggressive messages if I didn't respond in a timely manner. She was really cute and everything, but my hand and porn is way better compared to all the trouble she was.