Thread 33520805

I am really /fit/ but I still don't attract any /fit/ girls. Why?

>>33520805 (OP)
Why would women approach you?

>>33520805 (OP)
Because of your personality.

>>33520805 (OP)
Probably for the best. These women are really miserable to be around with and have atrocious skincare.

>>33520805 (OP)
Fit women have extremely high standards.

>>33520896
What could be wrong about my personality? What could I improve to move towards getting a fit girlfriend?
>>33520900
I just want a girlfriend that I can work out here and there, like go to the gym or go for a run or a hike.
>>33520921
What kind of standards do fit women have?

>>33520805 (OP)
I won't read threads whose premise is that if OP can just find the magic wand to wave then women will magically drop into his lap without effort (effort towards the women, not counting effort towards acquiring the supposed magic wand). The reason not to read such threads is that the OP is a drooling, subhuman moron who will have no idea what you're talking about.

>>33520945
You find a girl who has hobbies and likes nature. /fit/ chicks are most of the time fairly vapid and too self-absorbed to notice you.

>>33520805 (OP)
If it's not this pic, then you're not attractive enough, either face or demeanor or fashion sense etc.

>>33521022
What about runner girls or girls who dance? I don't really know any /fit/ hobbies where you can meet them.

>>33520945
>What could I improve to move towards getting a fit girlfriend?
Be confident and funny.

>>33520805 (OP)
She looks so much hotter on the left than on the right.

>>33521236
You shouldn't be with anyone who makes a single activity their whole personality nor should you be that person but dancers at least have an appreciation for fine arts most of the time.

>>33520805 (OP)
I got /fit/ and it made a huge difference. But also if your face card is bad then while becoming /fit/ will help, it won't suddenly have women jumping all over you.

>>33521746
Contrary to popular belief, bodybuilders/weight lifters don't spend hours a day in the gym. I'm pretty built and I spend 35 min a day, 6 days a week. That's literally all it takes. I have a diet I follow but I'm happy to break it to go out with friends.

>>33521905
> bodybuilders/weight lifters don't spend hours a day in the gym. I'm pretty built and I spend 35 min a day, 6 days a week. That's literally all it takes.
That's good. That's not true for women. With very few exceptions (which the woman you posted isn't one of) they make it their whole identity and personality because what they crave for is the attention.

>>33521905
>I'm pretty built and I spend 35 min a day, 6 days a week.
what do you do in that time

>>33520805 (OP)
There's a lot of "really /fit/" guys out there, a lot of which are faster, stronger, lighter, taller and younger than you.

They're chasing those guys aka professional athletes.

>>33520805 (OP)
Probably because you're ugly.
Being /fit/ is maybe 5% of appeal for men. 90% are face and height which you can't change by gymcelling.

>>33520945
There's nothing wrong with your personality, that's just something the /htgwg/ simps say because they refuse to admit modern women are broken
The truth is probably that you're a bit socially awkward and a bit strange, which there is nothing "wrong" with, but social media/feminism/corporatism etc. has turned the girls you could have potentially dated into shallow and vapid consumers
>>33520896
>>33521244
Non answers

>>33524229
>you're a bit socially awkward and a bit strange
I think this is it. I have noticed that people see me that way, I sometimes say/do stuff that is a bit beyond normal. How can I fix this?

>>33520945
>What could be wrong about my personality?
You are on 4chan. That tells a lot.

>>33520805 (OP)
a young fit woman is highly desirable.
a young fit guy is not.
you have to have something more.

>>33524370
>you have to have something more
Like what?

>>33520805 (OP)
Try swimming, girls love a swimmer's body. Gym bodies only get fag attention.

/fit/ femanon here. Take on a running group. I don’t run but almost every girl in the gym I talk to does. Have you tried approaching any women ? To get /fit/ girls to talk to you , you have to talk first at at minimum talk back.

>>33524452
I never approach women because the consensus online basically is that if you aren't tall and handsome you should not talk to them first. I am waiting for a girl to pick me and talk to me so I know she actually likes me. I don't want to be labelled a creep or rapist.

>>33524567
I don't know if it's bait or real. Both are equally bad.

>>33524400
Wealth, height, or BBC.

>>33524579
Maybe it's because I am a NEET and socially isolated but I have been under the impression that approaching girls is creepy. Like there are so many reddit threads and 4chan posts about how talking to girls at social hobbies, gym, yoga, in college etc. is creep behavior because they are there to practice their hobby or study and not to meet men.
However, if you are tall and attractive enough they will still be receptive.

>>33520945
>What could be wrong about my personality?
>>33524596
>I am a NEET and socially isolated but I have been under the impression that approaching girls is creepy.
Here is your answer. And because it's and advice board, here is an advice: touch grass. >>33524596
>alking to girls at social hobbies, gym, yoga, in college etc. is creep behavior because they are there to practice their hobby or study and not to meet men.
This is what you see. Because they are complaining. What you not see who are married because they met at hobby class. This is survivorship bias for you. Learn about cognitive biases because nobody is protected against them. Remember: what you think it's not necessary real even if it sounds logical.

>>33520805 (OP)
Girls only want to be pursued chased and admired.
They don't actually want to get involved unless you have a good social media presence or if you're black.

>>33524567
I can see your point of view. But the people you seem to listen to are virgin men online. Respectfully. It is indeed possible to approach a girl in a non-rapey way, and if you get rejected that is unfortunately just a part of life. People find rejection everywhere, but you can’t make a shot if you never shoot.

Still, I’ll suggest a running club or spotting a girl at the gym if they do a heavy lift. I’ve had to deadlift 185 off a girl who failed a squat. She wanted my insta and number after that but I think she just wanted to be friends because I’m a femanon.

But I have seen some chopped men with huge muscles get women easier than attractive DYEL men.

>>33524695
I am more afraid of the consequences if you get rejected. Like if a girl rejects you at the gym you will make the place awkward for her, potentially have her quit or worst case scenario, she reports you to the staff and you get banned from there.
Or if you live in a medium sized city then if you get rejected often enough people will start to recognize you and you will develop a bad reputation as a creep or even rapist.
If you get rejected at a run club you will get banned from the club and every runner in the vicinity now knows you as a creep who preys on girls. You can never go out for a run ever again or meet people, you will basically be completely isolated, it's social suicide.
Rejection from a girl has the potential to ruin your whole life. You basically have to move to another city or country and start over.

>>33524733
I can see how this snowball effect would keep you from making in moves, and I can’t say I entirely blame you because I can also see the growing amount of man-hating propaganda on social media.

But you aren’t going to go home one way and see a hot virgin femoid in your bed waiting for you to fuck her. You have to talk to girls to get somewhere. You are young and fit, spending the rest of your youth scared of women and not taking respectful risks is going to get you no closer to your goal.

I think a dude had a right to ask a women out and a women has the right to say no. Vice versa. If you keep that mentality it will make any potential rejection easier. And if some cunt blows it out of proportion then all you did is dodge a bullet imo.

>>33524733
Also , you’re right. You shouldn’t shit where you eat. I would scrap the “pick up girls at your gym” thing I said.

You can be super fit and physically attractive but still be autistic. Look at /fit/

>>33520805 (OP)
Odd how left looks hotter

>>33524761
I know that as a man you have to be active. If you want something then go after it. But it's hard if you get punished for it so badly your life is on the line.
>>33525391
I find right is a literal 9/10. Athletic girls are so incredibly hot. What is wrong with me?

>>33525419
>Athletic girls are so incredibly hot. What is wrong with me?
Finding fitness attractive is a sign of extreme high IQ.

>>33522225
>what do you do in that time
I'm not OP but I lift. I superset a lot. I see those guys who do "thumb day" playing on their phone, taking up a bench, for ten minutes between every set and I'm unimpressed.
Squats and OHPs, lat raises and triceps kickbacks, bench presses and pec flys, as long as the muscles aren't directly related I'll swap between exercises.
I'm pretty tired and sweaty and according to my heart rate monitor it IS a good cardio workout and I'm done in 45. I can get in a good workout including shower and get dressed in an hour before work.
There are people who spend 4 hours/day at the gym because they have nothing to do or its their only hobby; good for them, but I'm not doing that.

>>33525647
Nta but pic?

>>33520896
>Immediately leaping to the assumption that he has a bad personality
Lmao

>>33521109
>>33521017
>>pic
>t. girl
for anons who currently aren't fit, that pic is blatant intrasexual competition and/or cope by loser men. getting fit is stock advice because it works.

if you're imagining, with any level of specifity
>The guy she tells you not to worry about
there's a reason he's fit (or at least svelte)

>or BBC
Nuke India and Latin America NOW!

>>33525419
>>33525439
She has no hips. You're a coping homosexual.

>>33524452
I've been trying to tell the fit bros this. Thanks, fit femanon bro. fitanon bros, you gotta talk to those fit ass bitches first. They're wearing those slutty clothes for a reason. If they are bending over in front of you, posing, taking off clothes, showing that tight femtwink ass in your face, thats a pretty solid hint she thinks you're cute. Stop being a pussy. Fit pussy is best pussy. Tight as fuck.

>>33524567
Bro, get your head out of your ass.

>>33520805 (OP)
I knew a fit girl. She got 6'6 fitness bros working in finance. She was never really happy with them.
Something something superman meme.

>>33520805 (OP)
Being fit isn't attractive, it's being confident because you know you're fit and could toss whatever faggot is giving you the stink eye from across the room. Just having muscles is useless in dating. Know how to put them to use.