Thread 33523294

My husband who is an airline pilot, I suspect is cheating on me with a flight attendant. I saw him texting a girl named Tiffany on his phone and idk what to do. I had a panic attack and I am pregnant so i puke and idk if I should confront him. What should I do?

>>33523294 (OP)
Confronting him is the wrong way to go. Either he is cheating and that's that OR he isn't and you just destroyed the relationship. You need stronger evidence first. Ask him about his coworkers (casually) and see if he even works with a Tiffany. Call him when he's out of town and at night to chat but also to surprise him if someone else is in the room.

Also, lol, airline pilot, notoriously slutty profession

>>33523294 (OP)
okay do you have a prenup and is too late to get an abortion. would he coparent the baby if you guys split or leave you to be a single mother. gather as much evidence as you can for now and keep quiet in case he leaves you so you will have proof that he cheated which will work in your favour in court.

Remind him of his duty to the kid and hope for the best.

>>33523328
*is it too late

>>33523294 (OP)
Why aren't you putting out for him huh? You need to get hotter and let him have steamy sex. This is what women are made for.

As a femanon who had a kid with a man who cheated on his ex gf to be with me (I had NO idea, she didn’t reach out to me to tell me until the literal day AFTER we got married and I was already pregnant). Leave…they don’t change. It’s been 6 years married with this piece of shit and I can’t leave because I’m a SAHM and our son was born special needs and he still keeps cheating on me constantly. Hasn’t physically cheated on me from what I know, he’s very fat and unattractive now, but he talks to women online and tries to cheat so same thing. It’s a miserable life.

>>33523294 (OP)
Not really my or your problem

>>33523294 (OP)
>I saw him texting a girl named Tiffany on his phone
If he were trying to hide an affair, he would've saved her name on her phone as "Plumber" or "Boss". Did you see what he texted her?

>>33523294 (OP)
Hire a private detective if there's enough probable suspension of an affair. You also need to consider you're preggers so your judgement won't be fully transparent respectfully.

Did you see the messages? It could very well be related to work.
If there's explicit monkey buisness then get a PI to collect evidence just to protect you in the event of a fallout for your marriage.


I'd like to give the guy the benefit of the doubt, it is your marriage not any of ours so weigh your choices carefully as you navigate the paranoia.

>>33523294 (OP)
>Tiffany
kek that's the name of my ex gf

I guess you haven’t figured out how to stop LARPing huh?

>>33523294 (OP)
An old, frequently repeated post. Either this woman has been pregnant for more than a year or this is a guy who is just indulging in some weird fantasy.