Thread 33523552

>be 26
>finally get the balls to ask friend out
>she laughs, rejects me on the spot
>ignore her for a few days after that in order to spare my feelings
>"guess you were never really my friend, if you are stop talking to me after this"
>accuses me of being fake, just pretending to care about her
>swallow pride, stay her friend anyway
>we continue being close friends
>5 years pass
>we're both 31 now
>she ask me to meet up in a public park
>"anon I think you are the only man i can trust, should we try it out?"
>reject her (i have no one else but im not interested)
>she throws a tantrum and block me from all social media

Im really hurt she is doing this to me but I wont take her now, its too late, she fucked so many guys, she ignored me as a man for too long, besides I want to be single at this point in my life. Why cant she understand that? Why im the bad guy here? Im not even taking revenge, rejecting her because she rejected me first. I just don't like her like that anymore.

You know you still want her, you just won't want to be her beta husband material she settled for after rejecting you years earlier

>>33523552 (OP)
"I'll remain a virgin forever just to teach her a lesson. That will show her."

>>33523562
Unironically, yes. She'll end up a childless spinster or raising a resentful and unsuccessful bastard. It may not be as bad as what OP has to deal with, but women are weak. She'll die angry, alone and miserable. OP will die alone too but, having greater resolve and awareness, will die much more peacefully. He might even find something rewarding in life.

>>33523552 (OP)
>Why im the bad guy here?
If you don't understand that, there's no point in trying to explain it to you.

>>33523552 (OP)
Imagine it gets better for you and you find a girlfriend immediately afterwards, i would never be unsatisfiedin life anymore...

op shouldve ended the any and all relationships he had when she rejected him.
to stay was the first mistake
bathing in resentment the second
participate in an public tantrum the third one

cmon op. time to let her go and look out for new adventures and opportunities and other women

>>33523552 (OP)
I've met many beta males who would fold like a wet towel if they had an opportunity like this, great job OP, you've kept your spone and it will get better for you, wish you the best.

>>33523552 (OP)
Yeah you are better off, I'm really sorry this happened to you. But she sounds absolutely horrible, you don't deserve such a callous friend.

>>33523552 (OP)
Good job, OP. Now go to the Philippines or Vietnam to enjoy easy 18 year old pussy. You did the right thing. If only all men in the West were like you, society wouldn't be as shit as it is now.

>>33523552 (OP)
Good job OP, you are the man

>>33523688
>Now go to the Philippines or Vietnam to enjoy easy 18 year old pussy

Unless you explicitely mean whoring/ sex tourism, this is the worst possible advice to give to any beta ever.

Imagine handling an experienced third world survivalist who is looking fo r acitizenship and alimony when you can barely deal with mostly harmless western women.
Ist no wonder the vast majority of passportt bors inevitably end up as divorce raped emotional train wrecks. These women will professionally gut you like a fish once they no longer have to pretend to like you when the citizenship has been successfulyl filed.

>>33523552 (OP)
>>5 years pass
imagine yourself 5 years ago. Then her. Now snap back to reality. See?
Hint: people change

She had her chance. Everyone makes mistakes and has to deal with them unfortunately.

As for her reaction, I think the reason men are supposed to ask in general is because women cannot handle rejection. It's bad and depressing for men but for them it's even worse somehow.

>>33524161
>people change
No they don't, their circumstances do. In this case she didn't find anything better and she's out of options so she came back. That means she's opportunistic and will leave OP when circumstances change again and she thinks she can do better. OP was right not to take her

YOU DID RIGHT ANON, FORGET ALL THESE DUDES TELLING YOU OTHERWISE, SHE FUCKED TONS OF MAN, AND NOW WANT A BETA KEK TO SETTLE DOWN, DON'T BE THE BETA KEK. ACTUALLY, IF YOU WANT TO BE MORE SPITEFUL, AGREE TO DATE HER, DON'T GIVE HER CHILDREN, AND WHEN SHE IS 39, DUMP HER

>>33524565
calm down dude, overdosing black pill get you constipated

>>33523552 (OP)
This is an incredible bait post that will polarize the shit out of internet brained retards despite the fact that both the fictional characters are hugely lacking in self respect and dignity. sasuga dana OP kun

>>33523552 (OP)

being single at 31 is retarded and gay

You held onto that petty rejection and let it fester for 5 years, then jizzed at an opportunity to get what you thought was revenge for the way she made you feel. You didn't hurt her feelings bro, and if anything you just vindicated her previous opinions of you.

You're an undesirable male, that's why you've been single for the entirety of your late 20s. She knows that and decided to give you a shot, anyway. Realize where you are on the status quo and take what you can get.

>>33523552 (OP)
You should have accepted her, fucked her a few times then called it a day, bitch. You're hurt because you're weak and don't understand the game.

Anon, without being in your shoes and really knowing her, it’s tough to say if you made the right or wrong call. From how you’ve described it, her laughing at you does seem pretty cruel.

That said, you’ve got to figure out your values and stick to the decisions that match them.

At the end of the day, you owe it to yourself to take the steps necessary for peace and calm.

>>33524729
Disarming safe coding how you write like this is the dumbest most retarded annoying patronizing shit ever in the history of language. I can't wait for people to start backlashing at that shit society wide too.

>>33524669
>you should be grateful to receive crumbles of pussy
Shut the fuck up brainlet

>>33523552 (OP)
>>5 years pass
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

>>33523552 (OP)
Should have just parted ways after the initial rejection

>>33523595
>If you don't understand that, there's no point in trying to explain it to you.

But OP wasn't in the wrong. The girl wasn't in the wrong either. Nobody has to be wrong for such petty shit.

you redeemed your failure of staying friends 5 years ago. Adolf hitler would be proud of you, anon

I am proud of you my son

>>33523552 (OP)
>>"guess you were never really my friend, if you are stop talking to me after this"
She's right though. I've had and have a lot of female friends, and you have to be clear with your intentions. If you want to date them, make it clear at the beginning and if they aren't interested, let them go.

But if you're genuinely OK with being their friends then go ahead. One of my closest friends is a woman who I find attractive and would be happy to bang, but who I wouldn't date. Sometimes I straight up tell her "lemme suck on your tiddies" or "i bet I could give make your toes curl" and she either acts shocked, playfully shuts it down, or subtly flirts back depending on her mood.

She knows I genuinely don't care either way and that she's my friend regardless. If you want to be friends with a girl you find attractive, just be forward with your intentions and be honestly fine with getting rejected.

>>33523552 (OP)
I won't read "be me" green wall-of-text tsunamis of stream of consciousness vomit.

>>33523552 (OP)
I won't read glutton-for-punishment, dog-returning-to-its-vomit threads.

this is exactly the type of thread i like to read

>>33523552 (OP)
>>swallow pride, stay her friend anyway
That's your mistake, you should have agreed and amplified. "Yes, that is true, I fell very strongly for you after I met you. Goodbye, nice knowing you, best of luck etc"
>>reject her
Thats her mistake, she spent five years teaching you like a dog that you're not getting together then outta nowhere decided she's going to change everything all at once. Good luck with that, LOL.
Should have thrown this back in her face: "guess you were never really my friend, if you are stop talking to me after this"

>>33525191
The correct response from him would have been
>I still want to be friends but I just need a break for the time being, so that I don't think of you romantically anymore

>>33524669
>You didn't hurt her feelings bro,
ghosting and blocking on social media doesn't sound like hurt feelings? lmao you're the one being petty trying to pull a "gotcha" on some guy on 4chan
>decided to give you a shot
yeah that's a great foundation for a relationship LOL

>>33523552 (OP)
>Why cant she understand that?
She does
>Why im the bad guy here?
Youre not
She wanted some safe option and you were the next guy on her list. She is probably doing the same right now with some guy ranked lower than you

>>33524669
nah OP did great rejecting that ho, he gets our respect you don't

>>33523562
You know, you shouldn't be so desperate for a relationship that you ignore the nature of the relationship.

>>33523552 (OP)
Can someone explain the comic what is the significance of the red mask

>>33523562
/thread

>>33539924
That's not a mask just one of the rendition of the Triceratops (some beleive that the collar was bright clolored to scare ayaw the predators) . The Tyrannosaurus sneaked upon the Triceratops but after see that its beak easily snaps a twig it realized that it could easily snap its bone too.

If you really wanted to get her back, you should have fucked her it got boring, THEN ghost her, you fucking melon.

>>33539938
>til it got

>>33539936
But a t rex bone is much less brittle than a twig

>>33523552 (OP)
>reject her (i have no one else but im not interested)
proud of you anon. just move on and forget about this whore, she never really cared about you.

>>33523552 (OP)
You guys were fucked after the first rejection.