Thread 33525362

What kind of girls does a normal, laid-back, comfortable, stable dude attract? That's me at 29 and seems I only attract single moms.
Seems you have to become some wannabe badboy douchebag or wear some $3k suit if you want different results, but then at that point it seems really not worth it

If you don't want your single mom pokemon, I'll take it. I have always wanted to be a dad. The issue is though I'm a bit white trash, barely work experience, and still in college at 30, so there is that...

>>33525362 (OP)
>What kind of girls does a normal, laid-back, comfortable, stable dude attract?
None, absolute none

>>33525362 (OP)
>I only attract single moms.
They are not attracted to you, they are attracted for what you can provide her and her sons and daughters

>>33525433
However if you prove you are more of a man and someone who actually does something and is not entitled they use you as both the main entree and dessert and not be leftover. Bro, nice guys aren't leftovers. Look st your dad when he isn't drunk from depression, you see how your mother loves that guy especially when he jokes around? Now honestly, yes you don't want to be too feminine, but being an entitled piece of crap who pushes people around is what prima donnas do not men.

>>33525362 (OP)
>I only attract single moms
Then attract would be moms.
At 29 should be easy as a cake.
If you can attract single moms you can attract childless females with baby fever.
Man up and put babies on them. Be fearless, be a father.

>>33525362 (OP)
I'm a laid-back, comfortable, stable dude but I wouldn't call myself normal, I also have a massive nerd side that I keep hidden from normalfags and only reveal when I get to know someone. Huge weeaboo and gaming phase as a teen even though I mostly normalfagged out.

The main type of woman I attract is BPD women, black nerd women, alt/goth women, bisexual women, and any mix between those. In general I am a magnet for mentally ill black women.

I think the problem is that you don't advertise anything interesting about yourself. What sets you apart from other guys? If you're just lame and boring, of course only single moms are gonna want to use you for beta bux.

I seem boring to normalfags but if a girl is into anime weeb shit I can talk about it with her for hours and she usually really enjoys it.

>>33525676
>In general I am a magnet for mentally ill black women.
yikes, the exact opposite kind of girl I like.
>What sets you apart from other guys?
I'm dark (southern euro), tall (6'2) and handsome/ decent looking. I also make good money wfh, travel to a lot of niche cool places, play sports, frequent concerts and art museums and write a lot, draw, paint, sample music etc.

>>33525362 (OP)
i don't think you're the kind of guy young hot sluts are looking for in particular. especially since you made this post on the most reddit board on 4chan

>>33525362 (OP)
>normal, laid-back, comfortable, stable dude
On 4chan...

plane normal stable janes. Problem is, they're all getting picked up and married young too.
I'd try to go for younger women if I were you. You have a small window of opportunity to still pull this off until you're too old for them

>>33525362 (OP)
>Yeah I'm a normal, laid-back, comfortable, stable dude
>I have no friends
>I don't have social media
>I don't go out
>I post on 4chan
>I have never been on a date
>It's me - Normal Anon

>>33525362 (OP)
Pareto principle applies to women too and 80% of white women are genetic dead ends. From the remaining pool, I'd say half don't want to get married and start a family but would rather live it up since they can coast on the high life easily.
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

>>33529594
>Pareto principle applies to w
I refuse to read incel posts based on pseudoscience

>>33525426
Dude nobody cares about your lifeblog, stop giving personal information like that it's really sad and pathetic.

>>33525362 (OP)
it attracts women who crave stability, this isn't that hard to figure out

>>33525362 (OP)
Single mothers are attracted to any man with a pulse, the only reason you notice them more is because they're desperate enough to show interest first. I'm not knocking you, just stating a fact but the rest of your post comes across as bitter which I get but that's gonna turn everyone off and poison your mind. You can still get a young girl at that age and not come off as "creepy" but you're pushing it but to be honest young chicks are just time bombs these days. Best of luck to you, if it makes you feel any better most men are in your same situation, myself included.

>>33529586
Yep, me

>>33525362 (OP)
https://youtu.be/cZyj6GECjZ0
Take what you get and be happy

>>33529600
Nta
That's statistics not pseudoscience

>>33533855
The Pareto principle is not applicable to social phenomenons according to its own inventor. It was developed to improve farming and industrial outputs by identifying key factors.

Just screeching "80/20" because its si nice and incelly without understanding where it comes from and where it applies is pseudoscience by definition. You might as well start citing the Theory of Relativity to explain why men usually pay at the restaurant, that is how absurd your approach is.